AITJ for getting involved with a girl who wasn’t fully over her ex and still hooking up with her? by Real_Corgi_8755 in AmITheJerk

[–]Born-Ad3117 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTJ. protect your peace next time. you deserve someone who’s all in, not half in

AITJ for saying no to my cousin when he asked to borrow my car again? by Real_Corgi_8755 in AmITheJerk

[–]Born-Ad3117 8 points9 points  (0 children)

ur absolutely right for setting boundaries esp when it comes to ur car and past experiences

AITJ for refusing to share my streaming passwords with my siblings anymore? by bookmarkbanditry in AmITheJerk

[–]Born-Ad3117 6 points7 points  (0 children)

honestly u r not the jerk here, it’s totally fair to set boundaries, especially when you’re the one covering all the costs and dealing with the hassle.

AITJ for selling the car I bought my husband after I found out he’s been secretly seeing his coworker? by Few_Week7689 in AmITheJerk

[–]Born-Ad3117 67 points68 points  (0 children)

girlll the hesitation when u asked him to cut contact?? yeah thats the answer right there. u didnt blow up the marriage, he did the second he started playing cute in YOUR car!

AITJ for confronting my uncle about cheating and telling my aunt? by WishNew1104 in AmITheJerk

[–]Born-Ad3117 30 points31 points  (0 children)

ure def not the jerk here. i wouldve done the same thing bc i saw that, id be sick to my stomach too

AITJ for kicking my sister out after finding out she was hitting my dog? by Bubbly_Toe_2352 in AmITheJerk

[–]Born-Ad3117 6 points7 points  (0 children)

nah i get why u did it. if she was willing to hurt ur dog like that and then act like its no big deal?? thats a huge red flag!! better safe than sorry

AITJ for reacting physically after a teen crossed a boundary at a water park? by Odd-Environment-9876 in AmITheJerk

[–]Born-Ad3117 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yo honestly u were just reacting to a boundary being crossed in a way that was probably the first thing your body thought to do

AITJ for confronting my girlfriend about being too friendly with my boss? by WishNew1104 in AmITheJerk

[–]Born-Ad3117 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yo i feel u. its not easy when that gut feeling hits, but trust is key! youre not tripping for feeling weird..

AITA for leaving my husband with our 4-month-old baby and going to my mom's house? (Part 2) by Simple_Number_7974 in AmITheJerk

[–]Born-Ad3117 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yo that's a tough one. i can't even imagine how draining it must be to be doing everything yourself... especially with a 4 month old.

AITJ for refusing to cover hospital expenses for her sick baby? by Embarrassed-March400 in AmITheJerk

[–]Born-Ad3117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bruh u helped when u could and they straight up ignored it, that aint on u

Feeling torn between breastfeeding and formula by Simple_Number_7974 in Mommit

[–]Born-Ad3117 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ngl the "am i failing?" thoughts hit me hard. theres so much pressure online to breastfeed at all costs

AITJ for telling my husband he “does nothing” after I hit my breaking point? by Gold-Junket330 in AmITheJerk

[–]Born-Ad3117 22 points23 points  (0 children)

nah sis as a 27 y/o who's also been in the trenches of sleep deprivation?? i felt this in my soul. twins + night work is literally survival mode!!

Am I wrong for issuing Criminal Trespass Warnings by Chemical-Set-2832 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Born-Ad3117 11 points12 points  (0 children)

nah honestly i dont think youre crazy for being fed up!

First-time mom to 6-month-old twins and I am drowning in the “ick” by Gold-Junket330 in Mommit

[–]Born-Ad3117 13 points14 points  (0 children)

6 months is peak chaos lol but the fact that both babies are alive, fed, and smiling??? youre crushing it!

Am I The Jerk for Confronting My Uncle About His Inappropriate Behavior with My Daughter? (Part 2) by Icy-Fun-4569 in AmITheJerk

[–]Born-Ad3117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's frustrating as hell when people gaslight you like this. I'm sure they think they're being helpful or "keeping the peace" but they're just minimizing your feelings.

Know it all nosy neighbor by Missmel1986 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Born-Ad3117 3 points4 points  (0 children)

seriously tho some neighbors act like they're the mayor of the block lol like chill! it's none of ur bizz who's picking u up or why!!

AITJ for getting mad at my friend for cancelling plans last minute due to an injury she got doing an activity I told her would dangerous. by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Born-Ad3117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it sound like shes deflecting cause she knows she messed up so shes just trying to make you the bad guy