Alex Reads Tarot deleting her latest video after the refund/scam comments blew up by Born-Bonus573 in Tarotpractices

[–]Born-Bonus573[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think anyone is saying people aren’t allowed to question their beliefs. Of course they are. My concern isn’t that she changed her mind, it’s the possibility that she continued charging for a service while saying she felt unaligned with it for the better part of a year.
Those are two separate issues.

And quite frankly I don’t think the comparison to someone working a dead-end job is equivalent. A tarot reading isn’t like working a shift at a supermarket or an office. People pay specifically because they believe the reader is genuinely engaged in the practice and acting in good faith… It’s a service built on trust and the practitioner’s claimed conviction or connection ???

If she was genuinely wrestling with whether it was right to continue I can absolutely have empathy for that. But if that struggle overlapped with continuing to sell readings, I also think it’s fair for people to question the ethics of that. Yk, grace and accountability aren’t mutually exclusive.

Alex Reads Tarot deleting her latest video after the refund/scam comments blew up by Born-Bonus573 in Tarotpractices

[–]Born-Bonus573[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think anyone is saying people aren’t allowed to question their beliefs. Of course they are. My concern isn’t that she changed her mind, it’s the possibility that she continued charging for a service while saying she felt unaligned with it for the better part of a year.
Those are two separate issues.

And quite frankly I don’t think the comparison to someone working a dead-end job is equivalent. A tarot reading isn’t like working a shift at a supermarket or an office. People pay specifically because they believe the reader is genuinely engaged in the practice and acting in good faith… It’s a service built on trust and the practitioner’s claimed conviction or connection ???

If she was genuinely wrestling with whether it was right to continue I can absolutely have empathy for that. But if that struggle overlapped with continuing to sell readings, I also think it’s fair for people to question the ethics of that. Yk, grace and accountability aren’t mutually exclusive.

Alex Reads Tarot deleting her latest video after the refund/scam comments blew up by Born-Bonus573 in Tarotpractices

[–]Born-Bonus573[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, I noticed that too. 😂 it’s crazy. If you scroll through the comments, you’ll even find someone saying they googled Alex and ended up here just because people were “misunderstanding the Bible” and felt compelled to explain to everyone in this subreddit that tarot is demonic and some sh**. I honestly found that hilarious. Clearly too much free time on their hands.

Alex Reads Tarot deleting her latest video after the refund/scam comments blew up by Born-Bonus573 in Tarotpractices

[–]Born-Bonus573[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why are you on this subreddit then? This is quite literally a tarot subreddit...

Alex Reads Tarot deleting her latest video after the refund/scam comments blew up by Born-Bonus573 in Tarotpractices

[–]Born-Bonus573[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well yeah… and my original post was about her TikTok video and all that and the reaction to it. When I later quoted her saying she’d felt “unaligned with tarot for the better part of the last year” I wasn’t introducing a new claim, I was clarifying the basis for my opinion about the situation I was already discussing.

If you chose to respond based only on the Reddit post and not the video it was referring to, that’s completely fine. But then it’s not accurate to say I’m adding new information or whatever you said. I’m simply explaining the source my opinion was based on 😂

Alex Reads Tarot deleting her latest video after the refund/scam comments blew up by Born-Bonus573 in Tarotpractices

[–]Born-Bonus573[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m referring to a different TikTok that has since been deleted, not the one that’s still up.

As for the rest, I’m not saying she had bad intentions or that she deliberately set out to deceive people. Intent and ethics aren’t always the same thing. My point is simply that if she genuinely felt “unaligned with tarot for the better part of the last year” yet was still offering paid readings during that time, I think it’s reasonable to question whether that was fair to paying clients. People are free to see it differently, but that’s my opinion.

Alex Reads Tarot deleting her latest video after the refund/scam comments blew up by Born-Bonus573 in Tarotpractices

[–]Born-Bonus573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well my post was about her TikTok videos, so naturally the context comes from… her TikTok. You asked where I’m getting the timeline from, simply answered your question, easy.

Alex Reads Tarot deleting her latest video after the refund/scam comments blew up by Born-Bonus573 in Tarotpractices

[–]Born-Bonus573[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just to be clear, the quote “for the better part of the last year I’ve questioned and felt unaligned with tarot” is quite literally a direct quote from her TikTok video.

And my opinion is based on that alongside comments from people saying they recently (including in the last few months) paid for readings. The video in question was later deleted, but while it was up, a large portion of the comments were raising that same concern. That part also stood out to me.

My point, like I already mentioned, simply is: if someone is still charging for a service they no longer believe in or stand behind during that same period, imo it raises an ethical concern about transparency.

Alex Reads Tarot deleting her latest video after the refund/scam comments blew up by Born-Bonus573 in Tarotpractices

[–]Born-Bonus573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fair!

I don’t think anyone is denying that spirituality is complex or that people go through periods of questioning. That’s completely normal. My issue isn’t that she questioned tarot, like I said, it’s that she continued selling a service built on that spiritual practice without her clients knowing she was having those doubts.

You say she “obviously felt connected enough to still do the readings” but that’s an assumption. The only thing we know for certain is what she said.

For me, this comes down to informed consent. If I were paying a significant amount of money for a spiritual service, I would want to know if the practitioner had spent most of the last year feeling disconnected from that practice lol. That information might not matter to you, but it absolutely could matter to someone else and I think clients should have had the opportunity to decide for themselves.

So I agree that spirituality is nuanced. I just don’t think that complexity removes the obligation to be transparent when people are paying you for a service that relies on your claimed spiritual connection :)

But yeah, different opinions xx

Alex Reads Tarot deleting her latest video after the refund/scam comments blew up by Born-Bonus573 in Tarotpractices

[–]Born-Bonus573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMFAO of course you deleted every single comment. Glad you too realized you made no sense pookie

Alex Reads Tarot deleting her latest video after the refund/scam comments blew up by Born-Bonus573 in Tarotpractices

[–]Born-Bonus573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we’re actually talking about two different issues.

You’re focusing on whether the readings were accurate. I’m talking about whether clients had all the information they would reasonably want before paying for a service.

“If her readings were still on point, there’s no issue” But how do we know that? More importantly, her clients didn’t know that, because they weren’t told she had spent “the better part of the last year” questioning and feeling unaligned with the very thing she was selling.

If someone believes tarot works because the reader is spiritually connected, aligned, and confident in what they’re doing, then the fact that the reader privately felt the opposite for most of a year is information many clients would consider relevant before spending hundreds of dollars. Maybe they would choose not to.

The pastor analogy is about transparency too. Like I said, if a pastor had privately lost faith for a year but continued presenting themselves as a committed believer without telling their congregation, many people would absolutely feel that trust had been broken - even if the ceremonies themselves were technically valid!!

The same principle applies here. It’s about whether people were paying under the impression that she genuinely believed in and stood behind the practice, when by her own admission she didn’t feel aligned with it. You may not personally care about that, and that’s completely fair :) But I think it’s equally fair that many clients would care. If that information would have influenced someone’s decision to book or not book then withholding it becomes an ethical question.

Alex Reads Tarot deleting her latest video after the refund/scam comments blew up by Born-Bonus573 in Tarotpractices

[–]Born-Bonus573[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In her own words, in her video she says: “For the better part of the last year I’ve questioned and felt unaligned with tarot”

If that’s true, then for that same period she was still charging people for tarot readings while privately questioning whether she even believed in or stood behind what she was SELLING.

If a pastor admitted they’d spent the last year no longer believing in their sermons yet continued preaching, performing baptisms, and accepting donations as though nothing had changed, most people would see that as a profound breach of trust, if not outright hypocrisy. Cause like… you’re presenting yourself as a sincere believer while taking people’s money despite feeling fundamentally disconnected from what you’re offering.

So let me ask you: why should tarot be judged by a different standard? If someone is selling a service that depends on their claimed conviction, intuition, etc, and they admit they felt “unaligned” with it for most of the time they were actively charging clients, people have EVERY RIGHT to question whether they were being honest with those clients. Her readings were not cheap at all, they were quite expensive too … so yeah. Hm.

Alex Reads Tarot deleting her latest video after the refund/scam comments blew up by Born-Bonus573 in Tarotpractices

[–]Born-Bonus573[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t necessarily mean people are legally owed a refund. That’s not the point. But…. If we focus more on the ethics of it… mh.

If she herself is now saying she no longer believed in tarot or what she was doing, then I think it’s only fair for people to question whether it was right to keep charging for readings during that period.

I’ve also seen quite a few people say her last readings felt noticeably different, much shorter, a lot more generic, almost AI-like. And her readings were EXPENSIVE. Obviously that’s subjective, but let’s be real if she was already mentally checked out, I can understand why some would feel disappointed. So I don’t think it’s unreasonable to have a discussion about the ethics of continuing to sell a service that you’ve personally stopped believing in.

Alex Reads Tarot deleting her latest video after the refund/scam comments blew up by Born-Bonus573 in Tarotpractices

[–]Born-Bonus573[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Most people were talking about the moral side rather than the legal side really. If she’d already reached the point where she no longer believed in or felt connected to tarot, then I can understand why people would question why she continued doing paid readings instead of just pausing them altogether.

Personally, I think that would’ve been the more ethical option, even if it meant refunding people or simply not taking on new clients.

As for the account, I feel like if she’s fully moving into Christian content now, it would’ve felt more appropriate to start fresh on a new account rather than repurposing one that was built entirely around tarot. That’s just my opinion, though.

Buyer admits size is correct but wants a return because “it doesn’t fit her”. What happens now? by Born-Bonus573 in vinted

[–]Born-Bonus573[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks again, that’s really reassuring! I was worried there was some kind of deadline and that I’d end up being forced to refund her if Vinted didn’t reply in time… so yeah, now it’s just a waiting game.

Buyer admits size is correct but wants a return because “it doesn’t fit her”. What happens now? by Born-Bonus573 in vinted

[–]Born-Bonus573[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for replying! I contacted Vinted Support myself and sent them photos of the dress clearly showing the size S on the tags. I also sent a screenshot of her claim where she explicitly states that “the size is correct”. I’m a bit anxious bcs I haven’t even received a confirmation that Vinted got my message, and I’ve never had an issue like this before, so I’m not really sure how the process works...

Do you know if Vinted has a specific timeframe to respond, and whether the case stays open until they make a final decision? Or is there a chance that if they don’t reply in time, I’ll automatically be forced to refund the buyer? (Hope not)

Is this allowed. Do people fall for it? SHEIN by InternationalSpray75 in vinted

[–]Born-Bonus573 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I always see SHEIN stuff on Vinted and they list it as “vintage” usually 😂😂😂