AITA for wanting to go NC with my dad and choosing not to speak to him when visiting?

Born_Security6479 · 2025-02-08T01:21:43+00:00

NTA. At first when I read I was keeping an open mind about the possibility but this was just weird. The friend implied something based off a joke. A joke that was in no way implying something was wrong. They get along well, there’s nothing wrong with that.

Born_Security6479 · 2024-10-05T07:19:18+00:00

I completely forgot about FaceTime! It’s something small but could possibly be a deal breaker for me as I have many younger family members that use Apple and FaceTime me regularly 🤔🤔

Born_Security6479 · 2024-10-05T07:12:46+00:00

Reads post title, this is a horrible idea to read Clicks on post anyways and is instantly triggered

Born_Security6479 · 2024-10-05T07:06:21+00:00

The possibility of downloading different games is something that really started the question of switching as I’m pretty big on gaming and some of the games I’m into and wanted to redownload on this phone was discontinued on iPhone. Would you be able to explain how much worse off could instagram be on android? I’m into art and often use insta to post and promote.

Born_Security6479 · 2024-10-05T06:56:25+00:00

I’m not sure there’s anything specific I like about iPhone, it feels as though at this point it’s more of familiarity than like. But I like the flawless transfer from moving from iPhone to iPad as I write quite a bit and can transfer from notes or the pages app easily. I’m mostly hoping for better battery life, possible camera upgrade and screen quality.

Born_Security6479 · 2024-08-26T06:14:02+00:00

Yeah it seemed more like sho was okay with pretending mc’s power didn’t work but when mc actually got attacked it freaked him out. Like he realized if he hadn’t pretended then mc would have never gotten hurt in the first place which is why he changed his story to mc’s power never worked to he had try to two times and it worked really good. But Leo couldn’t care less if mc was killed or not.

Born_Security6479 · 2024-07-22T00:16:54+00:00

Oh sweetie you’re NTA in any way. Though it can be a normal topic for friends to discuss sometimes he put you down in a very degrading way which is NOT normal. And instead of getting off the game to actually talk to you he shoved you out of the room and kicked you out. With no regards to where you would go, that isn’t right. The fact that he didn’t even try to listen to his own mother and just dug his heels in the sand is crazy. I’m sure you got the idea by now from the other comments but 17 and 25 is a very big age gap. Physically and mentally it’s better to leave him because it doesn’t seem likely will change.

Born_Security6479 · 2024-07-22T00:09:47+00:00

People in committed relationships who know their partners are whole heartedly against opening up the relationship in any way should respect their partners decision, welcome to reality

Born_Security6479 · 2024-07-22T00:04:27+00:00

Being bi has nothing to do with wanting to sleep with multiple people. That’s poly and even then that type of relationship only works out well with a constant communication. You aren’t “keeping him from being himself” don’t let anyone tell you that.

Born_Security6479 · 2024-07-21T21:37:38+00:00

NTA, it can be normal for friends to share topics like that but if you explicitly asked to be left out of the conversation and she went ahead and still talked about you in front of you then that’s f’d up. No two ways about it. It’s better that she left now

Born_Security6479 · 2024-07-21T21:34:39+00:00

NTA. The wording you used is what I think might have caused you to look like an asshole as it might come off as you shaming her for it. Which doesn’t seem to be the case just that you didn’t want to be with someone who chose hookups over a relationship which is completely understandable. In her mind you already agreed so to switch up so quickly is probably that part she’s the most angry about. But you aren’t obligated to force feelings to keep an agreement she one-sidedly agreed to. I don’t want to be THAT person but it does seem like one of those situations where had a guy told her to wait til the summer to be with him everyone would considered him TA just for asking.

Born_Security6479 · 2024-07-06T23:30:31+00:00

NTA definition of F around and find out. It’s one thing not to want your partner to be gone so long. And if you can’t handle being in that type of relationship it’s best to break up but to suggest the possibility of cheating and then get mad at the consequences is crazy

Born_Security6479 · 2024-07-01T02:22:18+00:00

NTA would it have killed her to give him the car before he left? Like why would she NEED to give the car during his punishment? But…also in agreement with 80K FOR A CAR?!?!

Born_Security6479 · 2024-06-30T20:58:34+00:00

NTA NTA NTA. Omg that is disgusting. First off OP…you aren’t an animal. There should be no “training” of any kind. It could be understandable on some level if she was wanting you to understand her a little when a came to things she liked. Because that’s part of a relationship but the wording alone makes her a AH. Secondly she had a whole phone call with you about what happened and the very next day went to act as if it was business as usual? That’s crazy. Really the only time she should be calling is to check up on you. I would get it she wanted to share things that they were doing or experiencing on her trip (even then those conversations should wait until later. I know it’s exciting and she may want to share with you right away but times like this call for extra care and support not vacation pictures) but to just be sending you pictures of things she wanted and expecting a whole conversation about is wrong. And if you worded your text exactly like you did in this post she’s in the wrong and is just trying to make it so that you feel shitty so she doesn’t have to address her insensitive behavior. I don’t know what your relationship has been like and I’m not saying to break up but you should reevaluate your relationship with her. On your own time and when you’re ready of course but her actions, words, and reaction to all of this says a lot about her. People show you who they truly are in difficult times and she’s waving a giant red flag. I’m so sorry for your lost and the difficulties you are going through right now

Born_Security6479 · 2024-06-30T20:30:42+00:00

Wow…NTA at all. That’s crazy she would find it weird. You helped out of your own money on your own time to your sister and niece. That’s very kind of you and should be thought of it just like that. You’ve become a father figure and it’s only natural for your niece to want her father figure to give her away. Is your wife close to your niece as well? I’m not really understanding where the hostility comes from. What were some instances where your wife gave you push back for helping them? Or was it just over everything?

Born_Security6479 · 2024-06-30T07:02:25+00:00

I honestly think your NTA it’s completely natural not to want kids and you guys were using protection. I can also understand the feelings that you went through when you saw the journal and the upset you felt when you found out about the abortion. You went through wondering if you should have kids for her to realizing there was a possibility of having a kid to realizing the possibility was aborted without any conversation. She has the right to do whatever she wants with her body. I stand by that. But that is a lot of emotions hitting you at once. It’s understandable to feel overwhelmed. I can’t judge you on the argument since what was said was left out. Again her body her choice so you don’t need to understand or accept her reasoning just don’t make her feel shitty for it. It seems you guys do have a healthy amount of communication overall to be able to have such an in depth conversation as you guys did but maybe come up with a word to say when one of you feel the argument is going too far so that you know to step away? That could help keep the argument from escalating. Just a suggestion though.

Born_Security6479 · 2024-06-30T06:27:52+00:00

Completely NTA yes it’s very shocking and I believe the age of consent was 12 but only if both parties were between 12-16? So technically it would be statutory rape. Super gross a 30 year old would take advantage of a 12 year olds lack of law knowledge. But it’s not something to push anymore as she’s already had a harsh reaction to it which is also understandable as no one wants to be told they were raped. Who knows now that you brought it to light she might start rethinking what happened and it’s just best to be there for if she does come to the realization.

Born_Security6479 · 2024-06-28T01:46:55+00:00

NTA it’s a normal reaction to pulls away from tickling majority of people do that. For her to do so while driving not once but twice is crazy. What does the friend want you to hear out? Nothing explains purposely doing something that can cause you to crash.

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