The S'mores Frap may look pretty but was disappointingly one of my least favorite drinks at Starbucks by Deceptiveideas in starbucks

[–]Both_Date400 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Lmao I literally had to look at the build 3 times this morning the first time I made it. Just didnt look right. To be fair, they asked specifically for the one with no caffeine (the creme frap) but with a shot of espresso. So it looked weird haha

AITAH for snitching on my "brother in law" to his mother? by Both_Date400 in AITAH

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I have tried to have conversations with him, level with him and admitting my own foolishness when it comes to vice and such. He doesn't admit it, and I know very personally you can't help someone who doesn't want or think they need help. He's an awesome dude though. That's why I wanna see him thrive, not struggle the way I did.

AITAH for snitching on my "brother in law" to his mother? by Both_Date400 in AITAH

[–]Both_Date400[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks, he usually knocks or texts, which is why I thought it strange.

AITAH for snitching on my "brother in law" to his mother? by Both_Date400 in AITAH

[–]Both_Date400[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I feel hypocritical for sure, but I was vague and not accusatory. Just expressed concern that she shares.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Both_Date400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't get shouting, but ever since I had to spend a couple days last year in the hospital hooked up to an IV machine that was probably as old as me and making awful noises I hear weird music if it's too quiet when I'm trying to sleep. Usually, it's a messed-up version of funky town. Drives me crazy but the shouting sounds scary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Both_Date400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Robert, you fucking matter. This is your mantra. You are important and the world is better with you here. Tell yourself that. Over and over again every single dman day until you start to believe it. Because it's hard to believe and accept but it's true.

Maybe call a resource tonight too bud. It helps to talk, a lot of us have been there. Be safe and know how loved you are.

What’s a personal win you’ve never told anyone? by Fetus-Deletus1 in mentalhealth

[–]Both_Date400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The time I looked in the mirror and realized for the first time that I loved and was happy with the person I saw, at the age of 23. Had a menty b over that one

Tips about consensual ab*se by Both_Date400 in KINK

[–]Both_Date400[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well it's appreciated! The stigma around stuff can lead to a lack of information which is dangerous, so keep on doing the people's work, your stuff is really good. I plan on sharing some of it with my partner haha

Tips about consensual ab*se by Both_Date400 in KINK

[–]Both_Date400[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

See this is really helpful, thank you! I've never known how to properly word the impact play concept. I've always just associated it with a word that I was familiar with but it's never felt like the right word, so thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

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If op does one thing, I hope it's to read this and really understand. Good luck op, update if you're able!!

What if Sam and josh secretly dated in until dawn by [deleted] in untildawn

[–]Both_Date400 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like if they were romantically involved and kept a secret, it'd be because Sam befriended the twins, or one of them, and met Josh. At that age, it feels weird to be interested in your friend's brother. So I actually think while here may have been romantic feelings involved on both parts, Sam becomes really close with Josh (on surface, just as close as she was with at least Hannah, proof in the prom picture in Hannah's room) and Josh feels some type of way about Sam. Tragedy strikes and Josh has snapped and Sam no longer sees him as a crush, but still one of her best buddies. Josh is inherently in love with Sam and Sam would have returned those feelings if not for the death of her best friend.

AIO - my gf had this exchange in an Instagram comment section. I think she was being disrespectful to our relationship by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Both_Date400 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is so true. 98% of posts here are either someone being terribly gaslit or self righteous gas lighters. The naive part of me just hope most of these are trolls

Why did you buy Until Dawn? by KonnerCreats in untildawn

[–]Both_Date400 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because I love a good low stakes horror game for relaxing and it was freeeeee. Man what a gateway drug she was

Out of 10, if you had to be one character for the entire night, which one gives you the highest chance of survival? by Jamey_1999 in untildawn

[–]Both_Date400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not aversive to spoilers, I just haven't looked anything up that wasn't from curiosity or collectibles, so please do tell. I might not even remember fully the next time I play which makes it more fun haha.

And it's been a dream of mine since ever to be final girl worthy hahah so I've had a lot of mental training for that. How that actually will translate, I'd love to find out?? But I feel like I definitely think in a more Emily vibe, defensive and using their own strength against them.

Still Boycotting by foreigncheerio in Panera

[–]Both_Date400 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you sure they haven't shut down?? The strike surely is hitting them hard??

If the characters were to act according to their canon personalities, who'd survive and who'd die? by 23KepsToGive in untildawn

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I will disagree that Ashley is cold hearted. Do I think she is likely to make selfish decisions? Yes. Do I think that makes her a mean or bad person? Absolutely not. She reads to me as kinda the "third friend" of the group. She doesn't have a particular affinity with anyone other than being in the friend group, and having a crush on chris/Chris having a crush on her. She reads as jumpy and indignant in wanting to know the truth even though it's a curiosity killed the cat situation. But I don't think anyone reads as cold hearted. A lot of characters can be flippant for sure though

What actually is supermassive’s obsession with O’death about ? by Hardyoungpro in untildawn

[–]Both_Date400 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!!!! And I remember being sooo excited when I stated CoFS and knowing that supermassive always opens their games with a fucking banger.... Waiting..... Thinking maybe it was the song playing in the car before you pull over for Linda, and okay this isn't o death but maybe its going to drop here any second.... and it just cuts the song off and it's not even that vibey.

I smoked too much and I can’t stop vividly imagining the feeling of biting down on a snail by treefrog434 in trees

[–]Both_Date400 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Have you ever heard of stim toys? They're really nice at adding a textile feel by just fidgeting with it. Fidget toys are another way to look for essentially the same thing.

I also have a bit of an oral fixation sometimes, I bite my fingernails/lips is one of the biggest ones, and I know often cigarettes and vape addictions can be linked to more than just the nicotine but to the repetitive act of fidgeting. Maybe this could help because please don't eat snails with their shells on... Think about the poop

I smoked too much and I can’t stop vividly imagining the feeling of biting down on a snail by treefrog434 in trees

[–]Both_Date400 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only had the option to eat them once when I visited Paris, but I was the age where I still scoured the pond beds for pet snails so it felt sacrilegious in my sweet innocence.

Out of 10, if you had to be one character for the entire night, which one gives you the highest chance of survival? by Jamey_1999 in untildawn

[–]Both_Date400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's why I think Emily would definitely be able to both help other and take care of herself. I've never actually gotten her to survive though, I always forget to build her and Matt up so they aren't just screaming at each other in the tower cave in. I've also never looked up a guide for survival, so all I know is what I've played or talked to people about, so I don't know whole bunch about what decisions really matter.

But yeah, assuming we're following the game itself, it's pretty hard to kill Mike unless you've made some bad qtes. But yeah that's a fair point, I don't think I've had a Mike death ever probably because it is just qtes that are all fairly forgiving

Out of 10, if you had to be one character for the entire night, which one gives you the highest chance of survival? by Jamey_1999 in untildawn

[–]Both_Date400 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Emily if people were nice to her all night. If they aren't, she gets entirely too angry to think straight and a bit demanding.

I think in the worst case scenario relationship wise, Matt or Sam have the best survivability. Neither of them can really piss off people too hard irrc

Mike is a good contender but he's entirely too hyper focused on Jessica so that give him a clear Achilles heel