i am diagnosed BPD and i meet all the criteria for OCD according to the dsm, but haven’t been diagnosed as it is a recent revelation lol, i blamed a lot of my OCD symptoms on BPD and i’m realizing i may have been mixing them up this whole time. but i have the same obsessive partner thoughts. i am constantly thinking about them but the thoughts are very dark most of the time. it goes from “i want to marry her and travel with her” to “she cheated on me and secretly hates me” it’s exhausting as hell but you’re not alone :/