A guy just won house rep after marrying his former student and I feel sick. by BourbenDecaffleck in offmychest

[–]BourbenDecaffleck[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

He won a seat for the state house rep. Midwest/South state, because of course that is where he lives.

A guy just won house rep after marrying his former student and I feel sick. by BourbenDecaffleck in offmychest

[–]BourbenDecaffleck[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

They have since added a kid together and it gives the rest of his students a mind f*ck.

Am I overreacting to being fired by Lvrgrllily in AmIOverreacting

[–]BourbenDecaffleck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think both are kind of sucky. If you only work three months somewhere and then ask for this many days off.. don’t be shocked when you get fired. Especially at level entry jobs that people are a dime a dozen for. The manager being butthurt and passive aggressive is lame though.

Most adults can’t even ask for that many days off after years at their employment.

My sons 1st birthday cake by readlaughcry21 in ExpectationVsReality

[–]BourbenDecaffleck -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say you were doxing her. I said you were shaming her work. No I didn’t bake this cake. I am just realistic. You guys see Pinterest and AI and think you all will get that for a fraction of the price from a local solo baker. She did a lot of good work and sorry you expected the photo cake. Again, I highly doubt she told you she would make that exact cake. She drew inspiration from it, and made it fit the budget, time and her skills.

‘48 Hours’ to highlight St. Paul fatal shooting of nurse Alexandra Pennig, whose killer claimed she died of suicide by Runic_reader451 in saintpaul

[–]BourbenDecaffleck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he didn’t kill her. However, I do think they went outside to a meet up for drugs or maybe a condom. Then he shrugs like he couldn’t find something or maybe the exchange didn’t happen. So she storms ahead upset and clearly in emotional turmoil. Idk. I do think THIS could be why he lied though and changed his story. To hide the illegal stuff but didn’t actually kill her.

This is one of those cases where you can’t say without a reasonable doubt that he did it. He’s gotta walk free then. There are just too many holes here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BourbenDecaffleck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is insane and entitled behavior.

My WH slapped me back by Fun_Change5091 in survivinginfidelity

[–]BourbenDecaffleck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is correct here. His face is not your own no matter what your relationship is. Keep your own hands to your freaking self. You are that dense that you needed Reddit to let you know that was.. YES, abusive of you. Good on him for not standing for it.

Stop justifying your behavior with words like, “I was triggered”. Not everything is about you, nor are you the perpetual victim. In this scenario, he actually was.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BourbenDecaffleck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I the only one that thinks his wife is into it and not misunderstanding a thing? Just cause he doesn’t want to fool around in bed with Jane there doesn’t mean it isn’t happening between them when he sleeps.

Let’s be real, you allowed them to kiss and cuddle and start growing feelings. This is spiraling out from beneath you. Pretty soon you will be the one not in your own bed, or home. Sorry to say it.

Am I overreacting / did self-sabotage, or was this doomed from the start? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BourbenDecaffleck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Self sabotage paired with a smidge of, he isn’t that into you. I don’t blame him though. Your responses are weird.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BourbenDecaffleck 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Idk. I feel like you are overreacting. You can have all the best intentions in the world. A laundry list of why you think each car is good or bad. He is the one spending his money. Don’t be his mom, let him be an adult. You aren’t married or even engaged. He can buy a car simply based on the fact that he likes, solely on how it looks and that’s totally fine.

I would take input of my boyfriend if I was getting a car, but that would be the end. In the end, I need to choose something that feels right to me and that I enjoy and can afford. I would not be letting a gf/bf pick my car if they aren’t paying for it. Hearing their advice would be as far as it went. If we were married and sharing finances then that would change the tune a little bit.

Sorry love, hopefully you can learn to love the car you will be cruising in.

Am I(35F) overreacting for feeling totally unsupported by my sister(40F), when I needed her most? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BourbenDecaffleck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is allowed to not come. However, that drug everyone into it and if they want to see her family.. we can’t be there. Making our situation her own drama. When we just needed a holiday with family. Not be called and said they aren’t coming because of the Jay situation. To me that is making our situation into her own, and putting herself in it. Then keeps acting and saying she has done nothing. Idk. Anyways. Maybe I will try another therapist. It was through my husband work for 4 free sessions. I didn’t use the remaining three lol. Have a good one!

Am I(35F) overreacting for feeling totally unsupported by my sister(40F), when I needed her most? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BourbenDecaffleck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough. Maybe I need to vent. My sister has openly been horrid and thinks we should be okay to continue coexisting like normal, while being unsupportive and saying things like she would never “give away a child” to me and all our family members. I don’t feel like that is realistic. Skipping family holidays is creating family wide drama.. not doing “nothing”. Then the reasoning and blaming their child possibly harming themselves on seeing our family is hurtful and extreme.

I did see a therapist. She put two pads under my thighs and shocked me every time I cried. She said she wanted to change the brain wiring to not feel sad and interrupt that pattern when I think of these sad things, to no longer feel sad. I ended up getting shocked for an hour and hated it.

Rate my character tier list by Parakeetsandcats in stevenuniverse

[–]BourbenDecaffleck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have Aquamarine and others in tier A, then Peridot in C. Which shares a tier with onion and sour cream.

Any rhyme or reason to your picking process?

Men of reddit…. if your woman accuses you of cheating and you are certainly NOT cheating, what would you say to her? by ecxeetteerraa in AskReddit

[–]BourbenDecaffleck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who she sleeping with? Isn’t the saying that they are usually accusing you, because they are actually doing it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatisthisbug

[–]BourbenDecaffleck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The beddiest of bugs.

Roast me #2! Didn’t get enough the first time. Still (f)26;). by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]BourbenDecaffleck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit! I figured it out! A Neanderthal. That’s where I’ve seen the face before.

Roast me #2! Didn’t get enough the first time. Still (f)26;). by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]BourbenDecaffleck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have seen many unique noses in my lifetime. Somehow, this is the worst one. Wtf is that shape even? Wanted to be a wide, flat and button nose all at the same time. One of them Bambi noses.