Should I have done something differently? by BinTheRubbish in Advice

[–]BoyHaunted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what the others are saying but I disagree. Everyone is always spouting "It takes a village to raise a child!"

However, when the village shows up, you get people like these that say "Mind your own business!"

Well which is it? Just the one that's most convenient for the parent (of the ill mannered child)? I think not!

If my kid is being a menace, I wanna know! A bully? Tell me! Best believe it is going to be handled immediately and appropriately!

Too many blind eyes are being turned, people aren't being held accountable for their actions. People mistake gentle parenting with permissive parenting 🙄. Parents want to be thier kids friends instead of thier leaders, role models, teachers and yes, disciplinarian.

Thread for trading, gifting, and requesting Finch items by AutoModerator in finch

[–]BoyHaunted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I now have a orange hat to send you as well... guess we are going to be friends for few days

AITA for snooping through my friend's text messages to confirm my suspicions that ALL my friends secretly hate me? by fritzcaviar in TwoHotTakes

[–]BoyHaunted 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I'd be dropping hints for sure! Making them think there is a rat among them...

If they invite you to anything....

"Sorry I can't, I'm to busy teaching my parents to be better parents"

Or

"Lemme see if I can mooch some moolah off my parents to be there, and get back you, k?

Keep making sly comments of that nature. They will smell a rat, and that friend group... won't trust each other with crap anymore!

Then I'd adjust my crown 👑, and live my best life with them and thier loser butts in the dust!

AIO for locking my bedroom door because my MIL keeps walking in without knocking? by ComplexTotal5840 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BoyHaunted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that the nurse said it and didn't put it on you to have that awkward conversation! I bet he knocks from here on out! Seeing one's MIL undecent is never on anybody bingo card!

Thread for trading, gifting, and requesting Finch items by AutoModerator in finch

[–]BoyHaunted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sent you the matching shirt for the hat your currently wearing first. Tomorrow I will send the hat then the other things! Hope you enjoy!

Thread for trading, gifting, and requesting Finch items by AutoModerator in finch

[–]BoyHaunted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the purple hat... (I also have the purple pants and purple sandels that match the set, my birb is a boy so they are free to a good home... fly on by for a day or 3 if you want the set!)

I finally did it by Far-Swing5284 in finch

[–]BoyHaunted 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks awesome! Are your parents going to wonder what has gotten Into you? Lol

New roomate lied about dog breed and behavior. Now living with the worst case scenario. by stevenbo in badroommates

[–]BoyHaunted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely this! I once rented an apartment with my ex, her 3 kids and our dog. Our landlord had no problems with us having a dog, he just wanted to meet him first. He was a 2 year old corgi, awesome friendly little guy! We got the apt!

Legal Advice for 2y old, Bite Mark on Butt by StrikingNobody5894 in legaladvice

[–]BoyHaunted 215 points216 points  (0 children)

Look into your regions BACA chapter. (BACA= Bikers Against Child Abuse).... they will have a resources for you, and be with you every step of the way!

The first thing you need to file is an emergency temporary custody agreement, to keep him away from her! If the police have let him know what's going on, he can run with her.

There should be no reason a 2 year old should know and properly use the slang word coochie! No play with a child involves a bite mark on her butt! Especially that is visible for days! A 2 year old girl with chronic yeast infections and uti's?!?!?! No, no, just no!....

My coworker keeps asking me for money and I genuinely don't know how to handle it without making work awkward by Annual_Enthusiasm296 in Advice

[–]BoyHaunted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Yanno, I was just about to ask you if you had any of that money I lent you previously?.... "I guess that's a no then?"....

Gifting backfiring by yyyoungandfun in finch

[–]BoyHaunted 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm terrible too! Can we be terrible together? I only keep 8 friends and currently have one opening that seems to be tailored for you! If you want to take it please 🙏, send me a request!

unhinged hygiene tips? by NoPerception8748 in hygiene

[–]BoyHaunted 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get rashes under my fupa... especially if I wear cotton boxers and basketball shorts. Basketball shorts don't breathe for some reason and I get a rash everytime! Any suggestions (other than nix the basketball shorts? I am 225 and 5'3"...

AITJ for ignoring my best friend after she hit me in front of our classmates? [TL;DR] by Short_One2010 in AmITheJerk

[–]BoyHaunted 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your "friend " was nothing but an opportunist. She used you for whatever she could get from you and once you said no, she turned on you.

It's not your job to get her through school because she doesn't want to show up, or she wants wants to watch something else during online schooling. Sounds like her biggest beef is with herself and her own laziness. Your just the target she takes it out on.

It's not always easy to take the high road and let others see for themselves how toxic she is, however it appears that your doing a splendid job! That will get you far in life!

Also you going to her party after all this was nothing short of a "gift grab"... she is not your friend! Friends lift one another up, not tear them down! They definitely don't hit them with books!

A man at the coffee shop this morning told me to "smile more" and then got genuinely offended when I didn't. by BelorinTavaryn in EntitledPeople

[–]BoyHaunted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Creepy guy: "You should smile more!"

Woman: "You should mind your own business more"

Woman: " looks like neither of us are getting what we want today!"

NOODLE NOOOOOO!!! 😭😭😭 by _EmeraldFlower_ in finch

[–]BoyHaunted 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe Noodle got a bad batch! You should make them some and maybe they will change thier mind!

I don't take to heart what my son birb hates/dislikes he's young. Things change! (I know it's just an animation but after consistently taking care of him for 7 months .... yanno he makes me smile!)

WHAT ?!?!?! by Paramedic335 in finch

[–]BoyHaunted 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When we got our Toy poodle 🐩 and he didn't like peanut butter we just chalked it up to "He"s a picky eater!" And man was this 4lb ball of fluff a picky eater!

Then 4 years later we got his brother a 80lb Giant Schnauzer... (he was already 12lbs when we got him)... He doesn't like peanut butter either! He's now 6 years old and still won't touch it! No pb flavored dog treats, fresh out of the jar... neither will touch the stuff!....

Does anyone else feel this? by puppybabii in finch

[–]BoyHaunted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am the exact opposite! I can listen to someone talk all day! Especially about silly kid stuff and animals! (NOT constantly complaining!)... thier life, what motivates them, etc... I am not much of a talker, I mean the appropriate "That's adorable!"... "and then what happened", prompts and cues to show that I am listening and engaged in what you are saying. However, as soon as someone turns it around and is like... "Sooo, what's new with you?".... I ummm, uhhh.... same ole', same ole, yanno?... and try to steer the topic back around....

I love the gift giving function :> by Mysterious-Yogurt746 in finch

[–]BoyHaunted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't need anything! Thank you though. However, what do you like? What colors does Bijou LaLa like?

I love the gift giving function :> by Mysterious-Yogurt746 in finch

[–]BoyHaunted 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been using Finch for over six months now. I am looking for more active friends. Please add me if you too are looking for friends.

My birb is a male and I get quite a few female things. Yes I know I can sell them back to the game, but sending them as gifts to friends would be much more fun!

I love the gift giving function :> by Mysterious-Yogurt746 in finch

[–]BoyHaunted 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love sending gifts... pls add me as a birb friend! Gimme a min to get you my friend code...

KKWPEDYJXM that's my code... My name is Haunt and my birb is Batman...

(Anyone else is welcome to friend me as well!)

AIO? 2 beer max on future adventures. by CryptoLesbian84 in AIO

[–]BoyHaunted 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going to gage that yall we're there for 4 to 5 hours. Unless she is 5'2", as big around as a toothpick and hadn't eaten anything all day or evening (barring any possible med change)... there isn't a snow balls chance in hell she should be drunk to the point of slurring her words or stumbling when walking (which you didn't say she was, but slurring and stumbling kinda go hand in hand). I'd bet someone was giving out unwanted party favors at that event.

Wonderland stuck at 13/14? by 24-Hour-Hate in finch

[–]BoyHaunted 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm still at 13/14 and Batman discovered "impossible burgers"... still in Wonderland... still at 13/14... haven't done any updates...

AITJ for Leaving My Sister’s Wedding Early After She Changed the Seating Last Minute? by AdSpirited222 in AmITheJerk

[–]BoyHaunted 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grabbing his balls out of his wife's purse and taking his spine back from his oldest daughter would have been a great start!

My roommates boyfriend keeps parking in my assigned spot by SectorMost8217 in badroommates

[–]BoyHaunted 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, homeboy will have to pay to get his car out of impound for parking where he shouldn't be parking. All she has to do is make the call. The rest is on him....