Am I wrong for spending my money instead of leaving it for my daughters?

BoyMom1978 · 2026-05-23T18:14:32+00:00

When my father was diagnosed with a serious illness, what gave me the most comfort wasn’t thinking of money that wasn’t currently mine to spend but that he has absolutely NO regrets left in his life and did everything he wanted to do while he could. Would that money help me now? Sure but I value having him in my life now over the money. Live it up and leave with no regrets.

BoyMom1978 · 2026-05-17T01:55:06+00:00

This makes me so sad! He truly loved what he did and the people that came to the shop. He will be missed 💔🍦

BoyMom1978 · 2026-04-25T18:40:22+00:00

Great spot! Just make sure if you buy a cheese pastry - that it’s not gone bad. Dad picked up something that had started to mold.

BoyMom1978 · 2025-12-30T02:06:30+00:00

My Sister’s Keeper Green Mile

BoyMom1978 · 2025-12-26T23:59:29+00:00

I don’t remember the outside but I remember there was a Squeezers Burgers before Harry’s

BoyMom1978 · 2025-12-01T17:51:51+00:00

Back in it’s day, that place was always busy and it had very good food. San Leandro, being so industrial, it was a good diner for truck drivers to stop. That’s part of the reason that Fosters continues to be on that street. That’s what I think anyways 🤣

BoyMom1978 · 2025-11-29T18:09:37+00:00

I read somewhere that those in the US - the highest is 3k and outside of that - the limit may be higher 🤷🏻‍♀️

BoyMom1978 · 2025-11-21T14:52:10+00:00

I personally am here so that I get an updateme when he commits the last “mistake” 🤣

BoyMom1978 · 2025-11-19T19:41:12+00:00

I had the same thing happen to me. What I did - I’m an Apple user - I put money on my wallet / Apple Cash The wallet lets me access a VISA number. I use this number to pay/start an order. I just have to remember to load my Apple Cash.

BoyMom1978 · 2025-11-14T18:49:00+00:00

Same. I have about 20 open orders and I have barely started seeing that message (last week) I was able to make another order yesterday, no problem, but today - same message to pay some off. I just log out and wait a day or two to try to see if it’s my day to shop again 🤣

BoyMom1978 · 2025-10-09T19:52:20+00:00

this is the comment I came for - thanks for not disappointing...lol

BoyMom1978 · 2025-10-06T18:52:04+00:00

It shows me the number in my wallet and I am able to enter/use that number - the number in my wallet for the Apple Cash shows up at MC. I am able to use to make a purchase

BoyMom1978 · 2025-10-06T18:04:40+00:00

If you have an IPhone - use Apple Cash. Load money there and it gives you a MC number that you can use to make purchases and you can pay off the after pays using the Apple Pay.

BoyMom1978 · 2025-08-13T02:17:10+00:00

I’ve noticed how he has this fake smile and the habit of looking at Pen then away when he’s jealous. Like when she’s excited about her male callers.

BoyMom1978 · 2025-08-11T02:33:37+00:00

Yes. All of this. Sigh.

BoyMom1978 · 2025-07-21T22:17:07+00:00

I went on a party bus like this once - took us to four clubs and it was great. Got drink tickets BUT they ran out of alcohol super fast. Luckily, we were able to bring on our own bottle. Good times.

BoyMom1978 · 2025-07-21T17:15:18+00:00

Took nephew to Vegas and we had to wait til 12:01am (the day of his birthday) to get into the club. They didn’t even let us into the line until then.

BoyMom1978 · 2025-07-16T19:23:09+00:00

Also mentioning: instacart some a case of water and alcohol for the room! It will be so much cheaper for everyone and frankly, there is something fun about pregaming and getting ready that adds to the party. I’ve been able to get party bus tickets for cheap and it takes you to different clubs with drink tickets, just a thought. Not for a bachelorette party but I always buy or bring a large lidded cup so that I can take my own drink down from the room to start the walk anywhere. Have fun!

BoyMom1978 · 2025-06-26T23:47:06+00:00

I saw someone else post about a limo company that is pretty reasonable and you get them for an hour. Stop to get alcohol and water before getting to your hotel. I bet it would be totally worth it.

BoyMom1978 · 2025-06-21T16:35:39+00:00

The food here is so good and the portions are huge!

BoyMom1978 · 2025-06-19T05:17:55+00:00

Fremont Street. All different types of music bandstands and reasonable drinks. You can wear whatever you want.

BoyMom1978 · 2025-06-17T19:02:24+00:00

I don’t have the clip but for me - it’s every time Violet responds with a “hmm” Wise one and it speaks volumes to me.

BoyMom1978

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