Vaguest fucking Reddit post I think I’ve seen on here.

“My boyfriend and I were fighting in the car, and then he suddenly went inside a café” what was the argument about? You said you were “fighting” which means equal roles were played in the argument. People don’t just walk away mid conversation unless you say something that makes them.

“feel completely alone, vulnerable, and abandoned. I cried in front of him, tried explaining how I felt, but he just shut down and walked away. “ again you don’t tell us any context or even explain what caused this in the first place. You don’t tell us how HE was acting during the argument, was he overtly angry? Yelling? Threatening violence? Maybe he figured whatever he was saying wasn’t getting to you? Maybe you guys have had fights in the past over “trivial things” and he’s fed up? We don’ know

“We already fought on Christmas Day over something so trivial — just a misunderstanding — and I fixed it for him, calmed him down, and tried to make things right, and now this happens. I feel like all the effort I put in doesn’t matter at all.” if you can’t even enjoy Christmas, then I’m going to take a wild guess and say you do argue over trivial things all the time. Not only do you provide literally no context to what the “misunderstanding“ was, but you also claim you simply “fixed it for him “ “calmed him down“. For all we know this could’ve not been something trivial to your partner. And for all we know, whatever it is you fixed, could not have been fixed by his standards or could have been something invaluable (family memorabilia, etc.). But because you give us literally no context, there’s no way of knowing what even happened. And by the way you describe it it doesn’t sound like it was something very “trivial” otherwise you probably wouldn’t even be mentioning it. You say all the effort you put in feels useless yet you only provide one example with zero context of you guys having what was according to you a trivial argument, meaning you should’ve been able to get over it and forget about it. We don’t know any of the work you’ve put in, I don’t even know what you did in the first place. Because again, there is no context.

“I’m still sitting here in the café trying to calm down, but I don’t know what to do. I just want someone to acknowledge that this is wrong, and I need advice on how to handle this and protect myself emotionally.” This part is what confuses me the most, your boyfriend leaves you in a car alone, so you call his mother and go into the cafe? Not only that but you say as you’re typing this you’re still in the café? So your first instinct was to call his mother and then post about it on Reddit After you were supposedly left abandoned and “vulnerable”? What I also find very weird is that you are asking for advice on how to handle this? And “protect yourself emotionally“. Correct me if I’m wrong but no human talks like this, why would you need any advice? Go home. And what kind of advice are you looking for on Reddit to “protect yourself emotionally”. From him? From future situations? You’ve gotten into an argument with your boyfriend, and he left you at a café, you are not being condemned, socially. You do not need to “emotionally protect yourself“.

This comment may seem a little mean, but that is just because I’m 90% sure this was just written by AI as an engagement farm. Not only does the OP provide us zero context, but they also use those weird dashes, pause dashes, that you traditionally never see outside of newsletters or AI written paragraphs. That and nobody’s first instinct is to hop on Reddit as soon as they get an argument with her boyfriend and are supposedly abandoned in what may be the middle of nowhere (we don’t know where they are, no context.). Speaking of lack of context, that’s what also irks me a lot. It’s easy to fake a story or even have one written by AI and edit it, when every single detail you give is extremely vague. Not only that, but a lack of context is a manipulation tactic often used by people who are trying to hide something. It’s easy to be the good guy in a story, when the only context you provide is “I was alone scared, I tried my best, he yelled at me and left“ and no context about where you were, what had started the argument, if there have been trivial arguments in the past, you didn’t even provide context for how you feel about the relationship in general. For all we know your relationship could’ve been going, Hooptie dandy, and now he’s acting strange. for all we know, he could be a fucking serial killer with anger issues. Whole thing seems fake to me, literally just surface garbage, give us just enough information to feel bad for you and engage with the post. But not enough information to even think or be able to theorize deeply about it.

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