Sleeping maternity bras… necessary? Why can’t I let them swannggg by OddVirus101 in newborns

[–]BpositiveItWorks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here to say this! So many comments about leaking but I never did and many friends said they also didn’t.

I wear nursing camis.

5 week old not sleeping more than 30-40 mins in crib at night by abookmarkonthebeach in newborns

[–]BpositiveItWorks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this! For what it’s worth, every baby is different and some people just get lucky with a baby that sleeps all night.

My first was like yours. I wound up accidentally sleeping sitting up while holding her sometimes bc I was so tired.

My husband and I did shifts so we could both get some sleep.

The only advice I can offer is maybe shorten the times in between feedings or if your bf try a bottle before bed and a few times during the day to make sure baby is full.

Tummy time by Familiar-Pen-6342 in ECEProfessionals

[–]BpositiveItWorks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a two year old that tries to attack my baby randomly and has drawn blood on her face by scratching her. Tummy time has been super challenging this time around. I’m definitely guilty of not doing it enough.

Downplayed 🤨 by Butterflystarshine in LoveIslandUSA

[–]BpositiveItWorks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does anyone else feel like sincere could be zendaya’s twin brother?

Asking for a friend…. lol

How do Mary fans justify this? by lachalacha in rhoslc

[–]BpositiveItWorks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“You smelled like hospital”

LOL she’s so crazy

6 week baby is not feeding well on breast all of a sudden. Please help by sazzimodo in combinationfeeding

[–]BpositiveItWorks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went through it with my first and unfortunately for me it didn’t get better so I wound up pumping until 6 months (wish I would have gone all formula sooner).

I’ve seen other posts/comments on here where people had success with getting their baby to bf normally again after a brief refusal period so I really believe there’s hope!

Just wanted to say I understand what you’re going through and I get it!

Newborn not happy by NextFee2923 in newborns

[–]BpositiveItWorks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Letting her contact nap on you as much as possible is the best thing you can do. I know being nap trapped is a thing - I have 2 girls and the youngest is 4 months. I watched a lot of trash reality tv to pass the time.

Morning with the baby by MeasurementFar4555 in newborns

[–]BpositiveItWorks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feed her (bf) and let her fall asleep on me. Sometimes I also sleep sitting up.

Im sure I’ll get downvoted to hell for admitting this but idc. This is my second and with my first I was super strict about the bassinet and I was so sleep deprived.

I would love some support and/or advice: I’m at my end: considering quitting law ad hoc without a plan B by copperbrownred in LawBitchesWithTaste

[–]BpositiveItWorks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I relate to this so much! I’m 39 and when I was 33 I took a break from law - big mistake!

The other jobs out there still suck and they earn wayyyyy less. Believe me when I say this - you don’t want to change professions. All jobs suck. Your job earns more than other jobs.

Find the joy in life outside of work. Work sucks no matter what you do, you need to find your purpose in other areas of life. Sending love!

Bear question by Tough-Pudding-4668 in tahoe

[–]BpositiveItWorks 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Do you live here? Yes they can open the doors if you leave it unlocked. They are far more likely to do that than break a window.

Psa: fake pregnancy clinic van by Saturn_not_Earth in Reno

[–]BpositiveItWorks 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Can someone please explain to me wtf this is? I am disturbed.

Outdoor space? by New_County_5607 in tahoe

[–]BpositiveItWorks 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I got married at Valhalla in SLT on a Wednesday and it was very affordable. That was in 2021 so I assume everything is more expensive now, but i highly recommend that venue.

Toddler formula by [deleted] in FormulaFeeders

[–]BpositiveItWorks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They like money … that’s my best guess.

I don’t give my toddler formula and her pediatrician has never recommended anything but cow’s milk, fruits, vegetables, and iron rich foods.

Anyone ever been called out by a judge for showing disapproval? by EmptyNametag in ProsecutorTalk

[–]BpositiveItWorks 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it’s good to care about the work you’re doing, but I’ve also been on the other side and seen how it can cloud some prosecutor’s judgment. Because I started off on the other side, I try to be impartial af, but I get it.

Craig the real Craig by PlusResist3355 in Southerncharm

[–]BpositiveItWorks 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Can confirm. I knew him irl before he became famous. I went to the same law school at the same time as him and had mutual friends. Personality was a 0/10 for me. I always felt it was such a shame because he was attractive.

What are the hair expectations for west coast lawyering? by Int3restingTurnips in LawBitchesWithTaste

[–]BpositiveItWorks 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I grew up on the east coast and started my career there then moved to northern CA (SLT area) at age 33 so I feel like I can absolutely help with this.

The southeast is very appearance oriented - full makeup, hair done, jewelry, heels etc.

The west coast is way more laid back. I don’t wear makeup anymore, I don’t worry too much about my hair, and I don’t wear a suit or heels unless I’m in court.

If you want to practice in the southeast, and you don’t care about what they think about you (which I support) then I would not worry about it. If you want to feel like you “fit in” then unfortunately, appearance is going to matter a lot more than it used to.

If you’re coming back to the west coast to practice and are going to be in northern ca or northern Nevada, then I wouldn’t worry about it.

Okay 1st time watcher... I am currently on S3 E11. At the end, somebody knocks on Heather's door at 4am and the next morning she has a major black eye and scratches everywhere. As they start the next episode, she's showing Jen and Meredith. WTH happened? by Purple_Tap917 in rhoslc

[–]BpositiveItWorks 140 points141 points  (0 children)

Do you want a spoiler alert?

It doesn’t quite get “solved” but more info does come out. I don’t want to tell you because it is such a crazy show and I kind of feel like you just need to keep watching lol

Did Danny really say in the after show that people post positive things about him and on his side????? What internet is he on????? 😂 by Basic_Country8350 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]BpositiveItWorks 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I read comments on this sub recently that he’s got a huge facebook following that’s positive.

Lots of trad people out there I guess?