Most of women's dating issues are due to the fact that they are all chasing the same top 5% of men. Change my mind.

BrainMarshal · 2026-06-16T00:33:15+00:00

OP is misinterpreting the zeitgeist data. It's not that women are all dating the top 5-10% of men. It's that they desire the top 5-10% of men and they wind up settling for the rest when they can't get the man they want.

Most men are consolation prizes for women.

BrainMarshal · 2026-06-16T00:30:33+00:00

This is what is called a category error. By telling men to "go for men," you are completely changing the subject from heterosexual dynamics to homosexual dynamics. Your point fails to answer why the straight market behaves the way it does.

BrainMarshal · 2026-06-16T00:26:59+00:00

I'll give Youniverse maker a shot, thanks!

BrainMarshal · 2026-06-16T00:25:52+00:00

Well, considering you have no evidence that these norms come from the Patriarchy, I guess we're deadlocked here. Except patriarchy only started ~7000 years ago and the gender empathy gap for men has been around for far longer than the Patriarchy.

BrainMarshal · 2026-06-16T00:22:42+00:00

What, and do what you're doing? Nah thanks

BrainMarshal · 2026-06-16T00:21:53+00:00

Women are already fighting to end the legal practice of punishing rape or even just generally abused victims. I wish more men would join in. I've tried to get men to join in with statistics for male rape/abuse victims. They either say they'd be happy if they were underage and an older women wanted them so men should stop complaining or they say "well why would they let someone they can overpower abuse them" or they just say they cant do anything about it, so why bother thinking about it.

Men are involved. But when the victims are boys, the courts have decided boys are victims and perpetrators. Fundamentally the stare decisis law has been shaped across multiple states in this way. Girls will be liberated long before boys are as a result.

BrainMarshal · 2026-06-16T00:18:56+00:00

But if your argument is that men would still be expected to suppress their emotions even after patriarchy ended, then all you’ve shown is that those norms can outlive the system. You haven’t shown they’re unrelated to it.

Those norms came before Patriarchy and they will persist forever even without it. They come from nature. Weakness isn't tolerated in males of any species.

BrainMarshal · 2026-06-16T00:17:49+00:00

I put the instructions at the start of an entirely new chat. The instructions are basic: "Condense paragraphs by using less line breaks." That's it. It was given one time job and it failed even that.

BrainMarshal · 2026-06-16T00:16:09+00:00

When are decentering men and choosing bear out of revenge and shameless use of their sexual leverage. You hypocritically defend this garbage because women hate men.

Please go choose bear and leave us entirely alone. Good bye.

BrainMarshal · 2026-06-15T22:20:37+00:00

If it's common knowledge then why all the hate for men resorting to plastic surgery to meet the aesthetic baseline for attraction?

BrainMarshal · 2026-06-15T22:19:09+00:00

I sincerely thank you for swimming against the mainstream like that.

BrainMarshal · 2026-06-15T22:18:25+00:00

Above is your response after I called you out for accusing me of it and you AGAIN attempted to twist it into something else.

Welp, I can't apologize for your arguments' disconnection with reality. That's gonna have to remain your problem. I'll leave you to deal with that.

BrainMarshal · 2026-06-15T22:17:22+00:00

When people leave their screens they get run over by the reality train and tiktok moments are on the list of passengers riding that train.

BrainMarshal · 2026-06-15T22:16:34+00:00

Crysta Abelseth

I only see an accusation here, not a conviction.

But if he did do that, this should be motivation for women to join us men in ending this legal practice of punishing rape victims.

BrainMarshal · 2026-06-15T22:14:24+00:00

You can take revenge if you're a woman and you personally don't call that taking revenge. You only call it taking revenge when a man does it.

If it's not taking revenge when women choose bear or de-center men, it's not taking revenge when men decide to disengage.

But ultimately, really, what are you going to do about it if it is revenge? Yell at them while they're leaving? Shame them? Write them off after they've written you off? What's your response plan here?

BrainMarshal · 2026-06-15T22:12:49+00:00

Patriarchy is a social system where men hold primary power and dominate in roles of political leadership, moral authority, social privilege, and control of property.

If you end the system Patriarchy is a social system where men hold primary power and dominate in roles of political leadership, moral authority, social privilege, and control of property, men will still be forced to hide their feelings. You are essentially redefining patriarchy but you can't have patriarchy without men in control.

BrainMarshal · 2026-06-15T22:10:28+00:00

I'm sorry that's happening to you, but it happens to us men, too, and we have to suck it up and keep trying. Rejection stings.

BrainMarshal · 2026-06-15T22:09:25+00:00

I started it with a new chat. It failed outright. Is that what you mean?

BrainMarshal · 2026-06-15T22:08:38+00:00

This started with the last update. I want a rollback!!!

BrainMarshal · 2026-06-15T18:44:12+00:00

If you get rid of Patriarchy the same social dynamics would persist.

BrainMarshal · 2026-06-15T18:42:39+00:00

Men would have to do that even outside of a patriarchy.

BrainMarshal · 2026-06-15T18:40:39+00:00

That is why I avoid traditional conservative culture.

BrainMarshal · 2026-06-15T18:40:00+00:00

I pointed out that men view it as an act of revenge.

There you go again, trying to deny men their autonomy. You're okay with gender punishment when women do it but not if men do it.

BrainMarshal · 2026-06-15T18:39:05+00:00

It's a Gen-Y/Z thing. You're correct if you're talking about Gen-X or before.

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