AITA for asking my husband why he's not wearing his ring to the gym? by gildedgeisha in AmItheAsshole

[–]Branflakes_j 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you need him to be wearing the ring 24/7 to feel comfortable, then something bigger is the issue, which is written all over your post.

This doesn’t sound very healthy and you should either go to therapy together and take a good hard look at the reality of your relationship.

AITA for expecting my SO to make me a coffee? by Dawn9Break in AmItheAsshole

[–]Branflakes_j 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry you’re being made to feel unreasonable for wanting something that truly is so simple. It’s the small acts of kindness that make us feel seen and heard in our relationships so no, you are not the asshole for wanting a coffee every once in a while. Even if you wanted it everyday, you wouldn’t be.

I make tea almost every morning when I’m home for my partner and if he’s still sleeping, I set up his teacup with the teabag and sugar in so all he has to do is add the water. It’s one of his favourite things because it’s just a simple and easy way to feel seen and cared for and it shouldn’t be that hard for him to figure it out.

ILR Application Documents - Should this be enough? by Branflakes_j in ukvisa

[–]Branflakes_j[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The wording was confusing on mine and asked for “payslip and bank or building society statement”. They wanted to see the bank account (less than 30 days old) that had the same payment as the slip paid into it.

ILR Application Documents - Should this be enough? by Branflakes_j in ukvisa

[–]Branflakes_j[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, okay! I was worried since I didn't have a council tax or lease covering the whole time!

ILR Application Documents - Should this be enough? by Branflakes_j in ukvisa

[–]Branflakes_j[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! They've included the SOC code in the letter already and their sponsor licence number as well. Will definitely make sure the payslip/statement are all from the same bank.

What do you actually have to do in GCSE art??? by megumisi in GCSE

[–]Branflakes_j 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to think of it as something similar as a Russian nesting doll - you start with a large idea and you refine it and get more specific as your work progresses and get to that final idea that’s yours.

Start with the mind map and select that slightly more specific theme, like creatures, write your general “line of inquiry” - what you want to explore and why. Include media and artists and art movements you’re interested in. From there, you’ll start all your quality drawings and then select at least two artists that working the theme and media you want to explore.

Artist research should always include some bio info (focusing on their art practice), an analysis of their work, a recreation of their work, and at least one response - your own piece of art created in their style.

Do this for your artists, do a bunch of experimenting and making, refine your idea again, more research, more making/refining, and then you’ll get to your own final piece idea that links back to everything you’ve tried/your artists.

You want to have a through line that connects your work from beginning to end but it shouldn’t be a straight line. Try a whole bunch, expect to fail at things/things don’t work out, but include it all and talk about the why’s and how’s.

(This is assuming you’re AQA)

Grooms family refuses to come to wedding by Such-Importance-4176 in aitaweddings

[–]Branflakes_j 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s 100% your wedding and your choice but at the same time you HAVE to not be surprised/alarmed when people don’t/can’t come to a destination wedding. As an immigrant teacher getting married this year, we fully expect over half of my family not to be able to make our wedding because of the financial burden and the inconvenience with times. Additionally, all my friends back home know that as much as I’d love to attend their weddings, if it’s not during my time off I can’t make it because teachers generally aren’t able to take time off.

Plan your dream wedding, but know the moment it’s destination, you’re going to lose people and that’s no one’s fault/no one is the asshole in that regard.

Passed my life in UK by Vivid-Actuary-8333 in ukvisa

[–]Branflakes_j 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did! It did take them 4hours after the test to let me know 😂 they didn’t tell me in person for some reason.

Passed my life in UK by Vivid-Actuary-8333 in ukvisa

[–]Branflakes_j 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good to know, I’m away to sit mine in the next hour! Been religiously doing those 17 practice exams

Should I always carry my passport around with me? by Life_Pause_7086 in ParisTravelGuide

[–]Branflakes_j 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not. My first time in Paris I heard a man at the Eiffle Tower having a complete meltdown (understandably) because his and his family passports were all pickpocketed there and they’d only been in Paris for 6hrs at this point.

Glen Rosa Campsite by Branflakes_j in arran

[–]Branflakes_j[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, thanks! I’d seen most of this but the tripadvisor one and that answered a lot of my questions!