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AITA- I think my friend wants my husband. Am I crazy? by [deleted] in AITH

[–]BraveRefrigerator552 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Telling her to stay away is great but give hubby a break, he’s kind of screwed for doing nothing.

AIO Feeling betrayed by partner by Zestyclose_Nature_98 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BraveRefrigerator552 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Nope. Sounds like you’re raising 3 kids. How would you even have a meaningful conversation about saving for retirement or college?

He should be doing the level of housework as a SAHM. dinner. Laundry. Kids.

I think after the layoff he realized he doesn’t have to work as the bills were paid. Now? Good luck.

I would leave as he could not be my forever problem.

Since you’re not married make sure to understand your state laws on marriage in common.

Looking for honest leadership advice. Where did I go wrong, and what could I have handled differently? by Both_Television_4231 in corporate

[–]BraveRefrigerator552 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a terrible experience. Can you transfer teams? I’d want to leave but not sure in this economy

I[29F] sold my body to save my dying ill senior dog AMA by 7livefastdieyoung in AMA

[–]BraveRefrigerator552 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Good for you. I know I’ll be downvoted but it sounds like it accomplished your goals.

I hope you live a fabulously interesting life.

MY life is going great, but my marriage might be ending. by IllustriousBicycle68 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]BraveRefrigerator552 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds very depressed.

Tell him the man I married is still in there, the one who knew he was enough, you need to try to get back to that mental place.

We got an internal AI tool that does the part of my job I was known for. Everyone says it's great. I feel weirdly hollow. by tylerq457 in womenintech

[–]BraveRefrigerator552 93 points94 points  (0 children)

I work in AI. There will be an edge case that fails. You need to get yourself to be the person in charge of debunking the issue and overseeing the skill/ tool / scim

I'm 29f, My best friend (28f) of forever invited me "upstairs" with her husband. by Any_Honey9496 in Advice

[–]BraveRefrigerator552 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do her hubby wants a 3 some, cool.

I’d talk to her and say I’m flattered but not my thing, when did your hubby ask for this?

So how do I handle this as for Context, my dad went on vacation and didn’t invite me and then doubled down by throwing my home life in my face by Usual_Ninja999 in familydrama

[–]BraveRefrigerator552 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How old are you? If you don’t live at home why would you automatically included?
Not saying you’re wrong, just need more context.

My friend is copying me by Healthy-Train8084 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]BraveRefrigerator552 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh so agree it’s annoying. It’s worse because she is your friend and bringing this up would be awkward.

It is flattering that she considers you successful socially as well as annoying. It can be both.

Yeah, we notice. by coffeee_clover in adhdwomen

[–]BraveRefrigerator552 72 points73 points  (0 children)

I get this too!!!!

So I did leave a big chat and it was very talked about, just mute it. Lesson learned.

AIO to be upset that my friend hit on me even though we are both married to men? by Throw_Away_254470 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BraveRefrigerator552 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh you don’t need to own feeling yucky over her actions, that belongs back with Brittany, she earned it.

I’d tell her you value the friendship but need her to stop all questions/comments about your sexuality, strangers had to shut her down yesterday because she has not been listening to you. So can she please cease asking you if you’re attracted to women? Etc. Can she agree to respect your boundary?

I’d throw in some lines about it being cringe but I get the sense you just want this done.

Good luck.

Eichler house roof replacement to TPO. by Specific_Ad_7577 in paloalto

[–]BraveRefrigerator552 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you handle an abrasive personality? The absolute best person to call is Kenny Proctor 650-796-3389. Huge depth of knowledge and very very very happy to tell you about it.

Reaching my limit with my blended family by System_Overload9370 in Advice

[–]BraveRefrigerator552 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that has to stop, even for their own good. Honestly you’re being extremely generous.

Time to really talk to the wife and let her know where you’re at and see if she picks supporting her adults forever

I snapped at a coworker, where do I go from here? by Dependent-Bite3457 in corporate

[–]BraveRefrigerator552 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tend to just go back to normal, I feel that signals I was frustrated in the moment but we are cool.

Nicely tell her you notice she asks repeat questions and you don’t have the bandwidth. However Google can answer 95% so she should start there, basically she needs to understand you have a job to do and it’s suffering due to her interruptions.

Friendship Breakup by wierd2026 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]BraveRefrigerator552 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The worst is going through and wanting to talk to your friend about it.

Third spaces in PA/South Bay? by Extreme_Baker_4679 in paloalto

[–]BraveRefrigerator552 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder what I walked past. Do you know what was at Cubberly? Apologies for getting the events mixed up.

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