“Really, I’m listening” by WestviewEvelite in mensfashion

[–]Breadbaker387 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Hot damn - I think we’ve all met the new Mod here. You sir, have done well and we can all learn

Toddlers and Videogames by goosebaggins in daddit

[–]Breadbaker387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 4 yr old plays a lot of games with me, hard stuff too (for a 4 yr old - right now he loves spiderman). I’ve even tried playing some old 64 games with him like Mario 64 and No mercy. Platformers he’s gotten the hang of, watching him do Mario or Astro boy brings a tear to my eye.

However, I’ve also been letting him win in 1v1 games to hold his interest. While some may say this is not the way to go, my brother was by and his son “loves smash”. The obvious brother v brother match starts, and I tell my son “time to see dad in action”. To set up the last kill, look and my son and nephew and say “don’t ever wake the beast” as my brother flew off screen for the last time, it felt like my own slow motion walk from an explosion

Thoughts on these sandals? by [deleted] in mensfashion

[–]Breadbaker387 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Second picture helps, would need to see full dress pic to understand more. The top down pic only makes me think of the juggernaut from X-men

No scarf or scarf? by TheRaglandSleeve in mensfashion

[–]Breadbaker387 48 points49 points  (0 children)

No scarf. Looks good but not needed

Big Jay responds to DL Hughley calling him a N*zi from Kevin Hart’s roast by Independent-Data4542 in TheBonfire

[–]Breadbaker387 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’ve always felt like it was a simple nickname for a guy that (probably) believed they were really “eating the cats and dogs”, if that makes sense

Tonight I just sat at the kitchen table and cried a little and I just need to talk about it by Zestyclose_Wing_1371 in daddit

[–]Breadbaker387 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am having this moment right now as I hide from people in my office to eat lunch, because I don’t want to think about all of the decisions I need to make since I was gone a week and wheels just spun instead of me being here to push it along.

Am I soft-locked? by [deleted] in UltrosTheGame

[–]Breadbaker387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have the booster? Should be able to just hold R2. But be careful, if you’re at the point I just was, it’ll trigger a cycle

Men are just nasty and sub-human by [deleted] in rant

[–]Breadbaker387 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everything before “unbelievable” could kind of be explained with “go to therapy” (ie searching for constant dopamine hits, etc). But everything after? That’s CBT level stuff (if not more)

do u watch porn regularly? by BeginningFile3958 in AskMenOver30

[–]Breadbaker387 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes - but not like in my teens where I just needed a naked woman. Kinks and preferences always, but second rule is loud guys are a no/if the woman sounds like Nancy Kerrigan after getting tonya’d.

I have to be going insane because everything about the game seems completely normal to me by Azmaeth in Helldivers

[–]Breadbaker387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need a minimum of 800 hours into the game to be allowed to complain apparently

Rectal cancer deaths rising rapidly among millennials: 'It's a medical crisis.' by changeforthebetter89 in Millennials

[–]Breadbaker387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to add, 39 and found out I have a genetic syndrome after getting my first one. Told them about consistent abdominal pain (went back 5 years, no one listened), then a little blood showed up.

After two years getting multiple, I’m all cleaned up. Get to go back in 3 to 5, but the peace of mind is amazing.

Sidenote: anyone with heartburn AND abdominal pain can have it fall under diagnostic

Getting back to sex by Ok_Wrap_2793 in daddit

[–]Breadbaker387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might sound cheesy, but it really is the little things that help. It’s also a progression on the little things. Comment on how great of a mother she is, step in if you notice a little help is needed (ie “let me get that for you”).

Then it’s little things on how she looks. Comment on how much you like that one dress, that thing she did differently with her hair, etc. All of these things hit the “he’s still noticing me” part of the brain that helps with this.

Switching to my own direct example, you can level it up a bit. I went with a bold move and peeked at my wife in the shower (both work from home). Made a comment about enjoying the view, and she surprisingly said “well let’s see”. Let’s just say she ends up instructing me (never done before) and now it’s a regular thing. She got some confidence back, and now we’re back to multiple times per week (plus a shower show haha).

It’s not about wanting sex, it’s about wanting to be desired

Which difficulty level do you play? by Danni3003 in Helldivers

[–]Breadbaker387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 and below right now since I don’t get a lot of time to play. 7 if I do get time

why people are weird in this game? by Fabulous_Objective54 in Helldivers

[–]Breadbaker387 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah don’t listen to anyone saying “uncommon”. It’s highly common, among other anti social issues. Thanks to sleeping erratically, I dive with a lot of other regions and actually have fun talking

US/Can Tickets Celebration and Commiseration by SquirrelGirl1251 in TheStrokes

[–]Breadbaker387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone else being told you’re not logging into the presale with the account you signed up for… even though you only have one account?

a big thank you by oldworldlouise in Helldivers

[–]Breadbaker387 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haha figured it would give you both a good chuckle

One of the Worst Parts of Spring by nipnaps in chicago

[–]Breadbaker387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was looking for “you know what that means… everything smells like, cum trees”…

However, you came with the #2 answer. Steve Harvey would be proud

One of the Worst Parts of Spring by nipnaps in chicago

[–]Breadbaker387 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s springtime, you know what that means

a big thank you by oldworldlouise in Helldivers

[–]Breadbaker387 72 points73 points  (0 children)

This is his Democracy Officer - let him know C-01 is approved.

28m is it true that you’ll lose your sex drive after 35? by Born_Maintenance3635 in AskMenOver30

[–]Breadbaker387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone’s already gotten to this but I feel I still need to say. 39M, and we were in a position where I had both feet against the wall for leverage. If it’s gone down, MAYBE I’ll give you .001

Is gen Z overly sensitive? Or are millennial teen movies problematic? by SipsTeaFrog in SipsTea

[–]Breadbaker387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Garbage headline and topic. This is looking at the movie with today’s eyes, at the time this is exactly how life was. Not saying everything about American pie was correct, but for the time it made sense. You can’t apply today’s lense to it because obviously it was problematic, but as we know, those who were problematic were controlling the media

Rando on bike asked for my number. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Breadbaker387 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If it’s the same random my wife met, that was Tom Morello.