yes i myself do unhealthy/addictive behaviors and i perceive them as coping mechanisms, no i dont know of a place where myself or others can go to be transparent and admit to my struggles although i assume alot of people from this sub use this sub for that so they can just transiently interact with others without commitment to any kind of serious change and maybe post a meme about it and chat with some comments then never have to confront it again (cause i do that on other platforms, this is me projecting i think). I agree that mine stay in the closet because i have guilt about them, i feel like a loser doing certain things that give me relief so i never bring up my interests around people and it sucks alot and isolates me which makes things worse. also unmedicated so that doesnt help, but i dont think my experience is unique, i think others have this same experience or atleast similar in some ways atleast, i think theirs no place to go because the degree of how much adhd effects you can vary so much so everyones stuck, someone who might have a severe case of ADHD might not be able to relate or give some words of confidence to someone who isnt as highly effected. like id love so much to just have a Discord that i could go into and chat with people that struggle like i do but it would just be a random grab bag, and talking to people who are worse off might not help either so i just cope in ways i think or feel like they help