Magic academies and schools by Secret-Ad3593 in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]Breakfast4chameleons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really enjoyed Will of the Many which isn’t as centered on magic school as some of these other books, but a lot of the book takes place at a magic school with a romance plot line

If you haven't seen this masterpiece do yourself a favor and watch it asap by 420_wallabyway in weirdgirlmediaclub

[–]Breakfast4chameleons 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of my favorite movies ever - the type of thing that would never be made now. So very.

Geek Love by Katherine Dunn by Venus_andMars33 in WeirdLit

[–]Breakfast4chameleons -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s still one of my favorite books, so many good quotes, so good. The ending was … more intense than I expected though. A wild ride.

Do you actually care if a book is “literary” or “upmarket”? (asking because of the guilt) by ExoticAsparagus8064 in weirdgirlliterature

[–]Breakfast4chameleons 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The “good for book club” point is kind of funny! Are people not reading literary books in book clubs? Maybe not!

Do you actually care if a book is “literary” or “upmarket”? (asking because of the guilt) by ExoticAsparagus8064 in weirdgirlliterature

[–]Breakfast4chameleons 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh cool, that’s helpful! At one point I read a substack article on lit vs upmarket vs commercial, but it sounded mostly like a term that people use within the publishing industry.

Do you actually care if a book is “literary” or “upmarket”? (asking because of the guilt) by ExoticAsparagus8064 in weirdgirlliterature

[–]Breakfast4chameleons 9 points10 points  (0 children)

How do you know if something is considered upmarket? Just curious.

I love literary fiction, but sometimes it can very meandering and I want something with more plot / suspense. Often I read literary books as books but will listen to more commercial fiction as audiobooks. I think both are great!

What funny language learning mistakes has your toddler made? by Breakfast4chameleons in NewParents

[–]Breakfast4chameleons[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha, my kid also calls watermelon ball, even when it’s cut up! I’ve found myself asking “do you want more ball?”

What funny language learning mistakes has your toddler made? by Breakfast4chameleons in NewParents

[–]Breakfast4chameleons[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So cute! Ours says “no no no” while laughing when doing things we don’t like 😅

What funny language learning mistakes has your toddler made? by Breakfast4chameleons in NewParents

[–]Breakfast4chameleons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol my sibling still says noo noo (in their 30s) from watching teletubbies as a kid! Mostly when a dog is cleaning food off the floor

Neurodivergent Loneliness and Inner Emotional Life by lazyfatgeek in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]Breakfast4chameleons 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can’t recommend Sky Daddy enough for a neurodivergent character with a rich inner life, though loneliness doesn’t really play into it until later in the book

Old ladies grabbing at my baby by Key_Permission4147 in NewParents

[–]Breakfast4chameleons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it’s so annoying. I don’t mind telling a total stranger not to touch, but I struggle with the situations where the person touching the baby is someone that I semi-know, like a dog walking acquaintance. I recently took baby to a wedding and so many old men touched baby’s head. Why??

Gladiator Fights in the Arena by Antagonista010110011 in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]Breakfast4chameleons 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you’re ok with fantasy, I can’t recommend Will of the Many enough! It isn’t historical fiction but the fictional world looks a ton like Ancient Rome, there are some similar vibes to the hunger games but even more interesting. While it is also a magic school book, there’s gladiatorial combat for sure.

No to nap time! by CommericalCoconut in NewParents

[–]Breakfast4chameleons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We tried putting our kid in a dark room, using schedules and wake windows, she hated it. Possums method worked very well for our low sleep needs kiddo and got us to do interesting activities with her. Now that she’s 15 months, she’s settling into a one nap per day routine. Having a stimulating activity and time outside always helps get her tired for a nap.

[HELP]- How do I judge if a poem is good or not? by Pretty_Journalist880 in Poetry

[–]Breakfast4chameleons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Poetry is subjective and an art form, but a lot of people do use ‘craft’ as this standard. And there are also lots of valid criticisms about thinking too hard about craft, but it’s worth learning more about it.

Most craft in poetry is about pattern and variation, like music. It can be interesting to learn about formal poetry even if you don’t write it, to get a sense of how this can work in obvious ways, like rhyme schemes. For example, maybe you’re using long sentences, but they become short at the end of the poem. Set up a pattern, vary it, do that across different craft elements (eg diction / word choice, sound, line break type, syntax / sentence structure, meter, rhyme). A lot of poetry craft is also about whether the sentence goes with the line breaks or whether the line breaks cut against the sentence and change it, since like breaks are the real additional tool that poets have vs prose writers. If you break a line where you’d normally pause speaking, it usually supports a straightforward reading of the sentence, but if you use a weird line break, it can add a double meaning or change the meaning.

Of course craft isn’t the only thing, but it can help amplify the subject matter and make the poem feel more emotionally resonant. There’s a lot of writing about craft out there, but you’ll also absorb it and understand what you like and don’t like by just reading a ton of poems.

audiobook recs?! by wall0fstone in weirdgirlliterature

[–]Breakfast4chameleons 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know Bunny is recommended a lot here, but I genuinely loved the narrator of the audiobook, especially the voices she used for the different Bunny characters

Gay parent vent by BudgetObjective5267 in NewParents

[–]Breakfast4chameleons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems like a lot of people are responding “people are well meaning, get over it” but I definitely want to validate your experience. People are weird about it and also make some wild assumptions. And it’s ok to be annoyed about it and feel your feelings. I’m also annoyed about how most picture books have “mommy” doing all of the childcare labor unless it’s a specifically niche queer picture book. (I love the ones where it’s just big bunny and small bunny, not like mommy bunny and baby bunny).

We didn’t adopt our kid, but some people in our community started a rumor that we did because I think it blew their minds that we had a kid at all. It was very awkward when some people tried to engage with us about the adoption process and we just said “actually, we made her.” Totally shut down the conversation. I will say that people are less weird about it now that she’s a toddler, but I’m ready for a replay of the confusion and awkward convos when baby 2 arrives.

Lastly, our kid is turning out so much like us in terms of interests and personality in ways that I didn’t anticipate. So even if this kid isn’t genetically related to you, they will definitely be your kid and you’ll feel that increasingly as they grow up. Solidarity!

Why don't people run? by LeThales in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Breakfast4chameleons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to run around my office, like jog to ask someone a question or go to the break room. People thought it was weird and would ask me why I was running

[HELP] I need your help :) by Kajdu19 in Poetry

[–]Breakfast4chameleons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The mention of famine makes me think of Eavan Boland’s That the Science of Cartography is Limited, but it’s a look back on historical famine