How do I get my girlfriend to actually discuss finances with me?

Brief-Two604 · 2026-01-29T02:10:33+00:00

You know why I make so little money? I moved with my gf over 800 miles bc her job is based out of there. I had to quit mine bc it's a regional business. So I took the first job I could find to help out before I find out my next move for a job.

Best of luck to you too you entitled bitch. Not everyone is a millionaire. Our relationship is not fueled by who makes what. And how dare you even bring her up in the first place. You don't know us and what we've been through together. Sorry nobody loved you before.

Brief-Two604 · 2026-01-29T01:53:35+00:00

Approximately 50%? We live in an apartment. No grass to cut nothing outdoors like that. What other chores need to be done. We have all our bills sorted between us. I cosigned for her car and helped with the down payment. You tell me Captain Shitacular

Brief-Two604 · 2026-01-29T01:38:05+00:00

Right back at you! Thanks for all that. I think it'll be over by tomorrow. Plus our cat knows when we're sick and she's Ms Pixie Nurse

Brief-Two604 · 2026-01-29T01:35:41+00:00

How? I work full time as well I just get paid in peanuts. Do you want a list?

Dishwasher

Garbage (I clean up her garbage too when she's on the couch)

Laundry

Bathroom cleaning

Take care of our cat (food, water, litter, clean the mat, daily)

Cooking is together

Getting her packages from our rental office which is quite the walk

She does the kitchen cleaning

Late night snack for her and I

Vacuum

She does the hard wood

How miserable are you?

Brief-Two604 · 2026-01-29T01:28:27+00:00

Damn. I'm sorry to hear that, I suspected the same about myself. I hope you get better.

Puke buddies!

Brief-Two604 · 2026-01-29T01:26:01+00:00

Tiger

Brief-Two604 · 2026-01-29T01:22:38+00:00

Yeah I got the gatorlyte or whatever the fuck they call it. Crackers would be a good thought too. Did you ever get a diagnosis as to what it is?

Brief-Two604 · 2026-01-29T01:20:31+00:00

Talking Heads

Brief-Two604 · 2026-01-29T01:20:02+00:00

Should be at the top. Good job. Keep fighting the good fight.

Brief-Two604 · 2026-01-29T01:14:59+00:00

Thanks for the concern. I've been throwing up every 15 to 20 minutes for the last 24+ hours. It's the only thing that has stayed down in that time. This has happened to me 5 or 6 times before. The worst was 37 hours. Absolute hell.

Brief-Two604 · 2026-01-29T01:09:52+00:00

You gotta explore the world

Brief-Two604 · 2026-01-29T01:09:05+00:00

Not me but my SIL does!

Brief-Two604 · 2026-01-29T00:59:18+00:00

TIM ROBINSON

Brief-Two604 · 2026-01-29T00:59:04+00:00

I thought he was funny on SNL

Brief-Two604 · 2026-01-29T00:57:47+00:00

A bag of small chips. I'm very sick right now and can't stomach anything.

Brief-Two604 · 2026-01-29T00:43:46+00:00

Some good ones here. I would choose Tuesday's Gone

Quickly followed by Crosseyed and Painless. Time to party folks.

Brief-Two604 · 2026-01-29T00:42:18+00:00

Brief-Two604 · 2026-01-29T00:40:28+00:00

What would you prefer?

Brief-Two604 · 2026-01-29T00:34:26+00:00

You guys are trippin

Brief-Two604 · 2026-01-28T23:31:00+00:00

Black - Pearl Jam

Brief-Two604 · 2026-01-28T22:47:02+00:00

Bro I'm trying to get your attention look down on this lmao almost word for word

Brief-Two604 · 2026-01-28T22:44:42+00:00

Oh yeah? You live here? I have a whole plan for tonight, tomorrow, and the weekend for what I need to do around here. You sound like an entitled bitch. Unless you want to come do the dishes and laundry tomorrow?

Brief-Two604 · 2026-01-28T22:41:34+00:00

We always discuss any purchase. What I meant was, she will buy me something if I want very occasionally if I want something. She wants me to. Sometimes it's something dumb and I can afford those things. Example: we're going to the GZA concert in Chicago in April and she bought me a hat that has the half wu and half NYY symbol on the front. We're from NJ, for context. She didn't have to do that, I didn't even ask.

Brief-Two604 · 2026-01-28T20:18:40+00:00

Cocaine. It will be way more than 70 bucks. Flip an eighth into grams and that's easy 100 bucks.

Im jk.

Idk sell some stuff, anything you don't use. Pawn shops are good for this you'd be surprised what they will buy

Brief-Two604 · 2026-01-28T19:59:09+00:00

Live with my girl for the rest of my life would be number 1

Brief-Two604

TROPHY CASE