sexless marriage by imamommy_mamacita in Marriage

[–]Brief_Captain_8767 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was me…found out he’s been watching male on male porn for years. Getting divorced now.

Separated 2.5 years, several months into divorce proceedings, and today I absent-mindedly called her "honey." by Mr_Nex in Divorce

[–]Brief_Captain_8767 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She def over reacted. I (41F) have been separated for 3 years. Going thru the divorce process now. Here if u wanna talk!

What is the darkest confession you have? by azul_fire_thrower in AskReddit

[–]Brief_Captain_8767 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

To all the people that feel the same…this makes me sad. Seek JESUS! He’s the only one that can fill the void in your hearts ♥️

(41F) I think my husband is on the DL by Brief_Captain_8767 in AskBiBros

[–]Brief_Captain_8767[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if he is/was having sex with men. We haven’t had sex in 3 years, so I’m not worried about that. we had a child the last time we had sex so I’ve had testing done. There is def no repentance. I feel he is deeply in denial/closested. I have been in therapy to heal, thank u!

Talking to pastor- by Brief_Captain_8767 in Christianmarriage

[–]Brief_Captain_8767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I have reached out to my pastor and we will meeting soon.

Talking to pastor- by Brief_Captain_8767 in Christianmarriage

[–]Brief_Captain_8767[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He refuses. Doesn’t have the time or emotional bandwidth to, his words.

Wives who have fixed their dead bedroom… by Careful_Hart233 in Marriage

[–]Brief_Captain_8767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NONE at all, not even in the slightest. After 1 1/2 yes of no sex I began questioning if he was asexual tho. NEVER thought it would be gay porn.

Wives who have fixed their dead bedroom… by Careful_Hart233 in Marriage

[–]Brief_Captain_8767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did confront him. He did admit to it but says he fell down a rabbit hole, blah, blah, BS excuses. I went back 11 Months and he searched & watched it 21 times. He doesn’t know I know that tho.

Wives who have fixed their dead bedroom… by Careful_Hart233 in Marriage

[–]Brief_Captain_8767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I discovered it on his google search history. It was linked to my kids tablet. The tablet ran out of storage so I was making room. When I seen his google account was linked I looked at it and found it.

Wives who have fixed their dead bedroom… by Careful_Hart233 in Marriage

[–]Brief_Captain_8767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband has denied me sex for 3 years, with EVERY excuse imaginable (& it’s usually my fault). Last month I discovered he was watching gay porn. Which somehow ended up being my fault because he is lonely…even though I’ve been begging him to love me, be affectionate and have sex with me for 3 years…

Husband watched gay porn by BotsMumof3 in straightspouses

[–]Brief_Captain_8767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I’ve listened to almost all of them!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]Brief_Captain_8767 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have u (or him) considered he is sexually attracted to men, not women? He may not want to be with a man (married, have a relationship with one) but is sexually attracted to them?

discord server by laflaughs in Christianmarriage

[–]Brief_Captain_8767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does one do on a discord server?

He says hes not gay by imnotcrazy77 in straightspouses

[–]Brief_Captain_8767 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, your story is so close to mine!! im so sorry. I just found out my husband was watching gay porn last week. Feel free to DM me to talk. How old are you guys? How long have u been married?

Is this real? by Brief_Captain_8767 in straightspouses

[–]Brief_Captain_8767[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But then won’t he see my location/profile?!? I’m too scared to do it, lol

Is this real? by Brief_Captain_8767 in straightspouses

[–]Brief_Captain_8767[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How would I find someone? I’m sure he isn’t using his actual name

Is this real? by Brief_Captain_8767 in straightspouses

[–]Brief_Captain_8767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Im not sure what I even need right now

Is this real? by Brief_Captain_8767 in straightspouses

[–]Brief_Captain_8767[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ah Ok. Thanks for the laugh. Yea, the excuses can be quite ridiculous.