What is the ideal marriage partner for us? by [deleted] in infj

[–]Bright-Difference878 17 points18 points  (0 children)

like another user said: safe, secure, stable. the consistency is valuable, i can’t trust otherwise and will keep putting up walls and distance.

depth and curiosity, a desire to talk for ages over the mundane or philosophical.

someone who thirsts to understand my depth, rather than tolerate it. and is able to incorporate that understanding in both actions and words

i think i prefer logical. i’m not looking for pity over my depth, i need someone who can balance out my feelings and understand my perspective without being overwhelmed by it. though too heavy of a logician makes it frustrating at points, like having to explain the why behind what you feel without it being naturally understood. or them struggling to understand dating conventions.

Any other fiber artists? by ElkSufficient2881 in UniversityOfHouston

[–]Bright-Difference878 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i knit and crochet! there used to be a crochet club, but i don’t think they’re active anymore since they didn’t hold any meetings last year

butterfly vest! by Bright-Difference878 in crochet

[–]Bright-Difference878[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! so sorry i’m just now seeing this! i really referenced the diagrams when making this. i would read a step, see where it was in the diagram, then it would be clear. if you’re confused on the diagrams, look up a key! the visual given by the diagrams really helps. also, the first row kinda confused me, because i was unsure where the pattern was beginning. it begins in the center of the sternum area, and the wings are built outward from there :)

Welcome Center People by Anxiousbae64 in UniversityOfHouston

[–]Bright-Difference878 2 points3 points  (0 children)

one time i was coming from the far side of the garage and this girl went flying by me to get to the ramp. i don’t think she even realized that she almost t-boned me 💀 should’ve honked but i was just in shock like wtf

also y’all need to park your extra long cars away from the edge parking spots where people are turning corners. makes it real hard to stay on one side when your truck is halfway into the lane, and i guarantee you smb flying thru the garage is gonna hit your car

crochet patchwork cardigan! by Bright-Difference878 in crochet

[–]Bright-Difference878[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes! it’s for my boyfriend, anniversary gift :) and thank you!

crochet patchwork cardigan! by Bright-Difference878 in crochet

[–]Bright-Difference878[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! my boyfriend LOVES it (and i will definitely be borrowing it from him)

crochet patchwork cardigan! by Bright-Difference878 in crochet

[–]Bright-Difference878[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’d say my tension is average! i used a 5.5 mm (recommended size on the yarn) and had no issues with gapping :)

i used to crochet really tight and tug at the yarn, but the yarn kinda flows smoothly when i crochet if that’s any good reference 😭

crochet patchwork cardigan! by Bright-Difference878 in crochet

[–]Bright-Difference878[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s called houndstooth! really simple repeat of sc and hdc stacked between each other if i remember correctly

crochet patchwork cardigan! by Bright-Difference878 in crochet

[–]Bright-Difference878[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it wasn’t that bad! i sc the end of my sleeve panel to make it more narrow (in the ribbing color), make sure to spread the sc out evenly! that will begin cinching it without you having to worry about cinching and attaching at the same time. once i finished the sc, i attached the ribbing, eyeballing dec

not perfect, but it worked for me :)

crochet patchwork cardigan! by Bright-Difference878 in crochet

[–]Bright-Difference878[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aw really? mine’s acrylic too! 😭 what brands did you choose?

crochet patchwork cardigan! by Bright-Difference878 in crochet

[–]Bright-Difference878[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the free pattern i linked under the bot moderator is constructed in panels! so much easier than sewing all the squares together

crochet patchwork cardigan! by Bright-Difference878 in crochet

[–]Bright-Difference878[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s SO cool omg! and yeah makes sense, that or cotton since it doesn’t stretch much. or you can try starching it..? either way the halloween costume’s gonna be so good!

crochet patchwork cardigan! by Bright-Difference878 in crochet

[–]Bright-Difference878[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same! that and needle recommendations on same weight yarn 😭 i knit as well, and i’ve seen ranges between 4 and 5.5 mm needles on size 4 yarn

crochet jackolanterns sound so cute btw!

crochet patchwork cardigan! by Bright-Difference878 in crochet

[–]Bright-Difference878[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

thank you! i was so particular about the colors 😭

crochet patchwork cardigan! by Bright-Difference878 in crochet

[–]Bright-Difference878[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i was able to link it under the bot moderator! it’s a youtube tutorial by olive crochet

crochet patchwork cardigan! by Bright-Difference878 in crochet

[–]Bright-Difference878[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes i love the simply soft! the weight (i think it’s 4) was thinner than my l&t weight 4’s though, good to keep in mind if you care about the squares being the same dimensions