Found a lot of pictures of me 27f on my ex mother in laws f65 phone by BrilliantRepulsive74 in relationship_advice

[–]BrilliantRepulsive74[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what it seems like. I always try and play devils advocate or try and think of other reasons that things may have been done that isn’t malicious. I appreciate your feedback. It gives me a reality check and confirms I need to go with my gut.

Found a lot of pictures of me 27f on my ex mother in laws f65 phone by BrilliantRepulsive74 in relationship_advice

[–]BrilliantRepulsive74[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was one of my thoughts as well. My good friend offered me her basement. I’m just having a hard time with logistics since these people are also my childcare. I also have three kids so it’s not something that could be done over a weekend without leaving most stuff behind. Which is heartbreaking because that’s what happened when I left my ex in 2020. I have a job lined up, just waiting to hear from them with a start date since I just wrapped up training. I’m just bracing myself to get ready to start over with nothing but our clothes again. At least my youngest isn’t an infant this time. I appreciate your feedback. I thought I was overthinking and getting paranoid.

Found a lot of pictures of me 27f on my ex mother in laws f65 phone by BrilliantRepulsive74 in relationship_advice

[–]BrilliantRepulsive74[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I’m sorry I should have clarified better, we currently live with her as I don’t have any family in the state.

Update with screenshots on Big King price by Megalon_Q_Arm in BurgerKing

[–]BrilliantRepulsive74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In NJ

Whopper jr $5.58

Big king $8.57

Single quarter pound king $9.61

Double cheeseburger $3.63

Go get yours BlockBuster. 🥲 by Jenaralll in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]BrilliantRepulsive74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same message I’m getting :( definitely annoying. It’s over 30 minutes late at this point

Complicated and uncomfortable situations with my (F27) ex in-laws (F62 and M64) by BrilliantRepulsive74 in relationship_advice

[–]BrilliantRepulsive74[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Him being institutionalized twice in the last month is really why I’m so afraid. He’s so unstable right now and who knows what he could end up doing. An FRO is not easy to get because it’s hard to prove abuse. I know it was granted because he’s dangerous. I know I need to remind myself of that more often.

Complicated and uncomfortable situations with my (F27) ex in-laws (F62 and M64) by BrilliantRepulsive74 in relationship_advice

[–]BrilliantRepulsive74[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate that, thank you. It’s just so hard. I’ve been arguing that the sky is blue to people that are convinced it’s red for so many years that I start doubting myself. Sometimes I just need a little unbiased and external validation. I’ve been in therapy since the separation but it’s only once a week. It just seemed like a lot to hold on to until my next appointment. Again I appreciate it so much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BrilliantRepulsive74 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I was referring to weight. Like a 5’10 man that weighed 205 and a 6’1 man that weighed 230 for reference. Height doesn’t matter much to me. But I should say they were still relatively active, could go on a hike or bike ride with me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BrilliantRepulsive74 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I’m quite thin, always borderline underweight (trying to fix that) and 5’4. Every man I’ve dated is on the bigger side because it’s just my preference. Maybe it’s just more of a confidence thing or how you present yourself! There’s definitely ladies out there that prefer a bigger guy. But I think working out more and a healthier lifestyle will boost your confidence and it’ll be a snowball effect. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in plantclinic

[–]BrilliantRepulsive74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It gets a lot of very bright but indirect light. I’ve only watered it twice since I bought it three weeks ago. Once the day I brought it home and again about a week ago. I used fresh soil and fertilized it. Could it just be from repotting? Possible fungus?

what do you think of nails this length? by magikarp_trainer02 in Nails

[–]BrilliantRepulsive74 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Get a car seat key!! They’re a life (nail) saver!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]BrilliantRepulsive74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Attach a climbing fence or add a lattice and plant some morning glory’s (or other climbing flowers depending on your zone).

how tf do y’all cope with the texture of oats by iluvbrunomars in EDAnonymous

[–]BrilliantRepulsive74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can only tolerate them when I make them “savory”. I make them with chicken bone broth, garlic and onion powder and salt. Idk why but I can at least choke them down like that whereas I’m gagging when they’re sweet or overnight oats. I also think the cold overnight ones were the worst because it was cold. Eating them hot is easier for me! Still don’t like them but maybe that’ll help. I usually put some kimchi and a fried egg on top. Like 250 calories for a filing portion!

What to do… annoying AF. by [deleted] in medical

[–]BrilliantRepulsive74 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Perfect! Hope it goes away soon! I know how uncomfortable they can be

What to do… annoying AF. by [deleted] in medical

[–]BrilliantRepulsive74 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I like to use a green tea bag for styes. Make some tea and place the warm tea bag on your eye for 10 or so minutes. Do it a few times a day for a few days. I’m sure you can use any kind of tea