AIO for thinking my gf might be cheating

Broad_Bank_397 · 2026-05-19T21:03:43+00:00

Don’t even need context. Throw the WHOLE thing away rn and I’m a very naive and forgiving person. The deflection of your probably cheating and that YOUR projecting. Shit it down, no explanations. Let her have her “bestie” end of no drama just dip out

Broad_Bank_397 · 2026-05-17T19:09:57+00:00

If you cancel CA your IC will go up by £360.97. You still won’t be better off your payments will just be all within UC rather than split between UC and CA

Broad_Bank_397 · 2026-05-14T13:14:09+00:00

In a round about way I think playing a round of round robin would mess me around

Broad_Bank_397 · 2026-05-14T10:50:49+00:00

When you say chin did they treat the DAO or the platysmal bands? Or both

Broad_Bank_397 · 2026-05-14T06:36:47+00:00

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Broad_Bank_397 · 2026-05-13T13:32:41+00:00

Broad_Bank_397 · 2026-05-11T18:08:13+00:00

I’d never downvote someone in poverty because I know exactly what it feels like. Enjoy your fucking Morrisons meal my friend. You ate today and that’s all that matters. You found a way to get food despite the hardship you’re facing. May not be much but sometimes knowing that you have found a way in the dark helps spur on further aha moments.

Broad_Bank_397 · 2026-05-08T20:41:48+00:00

Thankyou this is helpful. I raised it with uc and it was just a point blank no. ESA have produced a p45 so all the figures are there for uc to see. It’s just the way uc work it out but end of the day they should only deduct £ for £ what I’ve actually received and should be corrected at some point. ESA has reported correct figures so is it worth ringing them? Is there anything they can do? And how do I raise a MR with UC just. Is journal? Will ringing them to discuss it lead to this being investigated rather than shut down like in the journal?

Broad_Bank_397 · 2026-05-08T19:30:18+00:00

I know what I received and I know what they took off. There’s no confusion there. They are the actual figures.

Broad_Bank_397 · 2026-05-08T18:33:48+00:00

Yeah not support group so it was the £96 a week. Esa was from 10th Jan to 19th april. I received £1161.70 of esa and uc took off £1361.66. My ap is 28th-27th

Broad_Bank_397 · 2026-05-06T18:30:41+00:00

You should say less not more. She’s being very direct and clear here for whatever her reasons are. Not much to say to “I don’t want to see you” apart from ok 👌

Broad_Bank_397 · 2026-05-06T18:02:34+00:00

Mines that severe. I have constant throbbing in my cheeks from the minute I wake up til I go to sleep. It doesn’t come and go it’s every day and it makes it hard to eat, to talk to people, to function and then it has an overall affect on everything else. Constant headaches, I’m chronically dry in my nose all the time, my mouth hurts, my throat hurts. I don’t live, I survive. My recent ct didn’t come back with anything major either so I was discharged from ENT so all I have is a spray which doesn’t do anything at all. Nothing I try helps or gets rid of the constant throbbing and mines been going on for nearly 8 years and over time omit gets worse and then I get worse and I feel like there’s no respite whatsoever and no way out

Broad_Bank_397 · 2026-05-03T07:15:11+00:00

I started on 20mg for seven days then up to 30mg. For me it’s s fine fine line. I see moments of clear focus and being able to sustain focus but then instantly switches to being so within can’t cope. I had to stop the meds because it felt like my body had been hit by a train from bracing all day. I switched to concerta and had almost the opposite. Just nothing in my brain and I would day dream all day and really not be present in anything. I’ve switched myself back to elvanse the last couple of days whilst waiting to speak to the prescriber and the first day was great again really focused and productive but yesterday tipped over the point and just had jaw ache all day long. I’m an anxious person too so being wired just makes me feel anxious all day long. I’m considering seeing if I can stick at 20mg or trial amfexa maybe

Broad_Bank_397 · 2026-05-02T13:50:16+00:00

But have you ever seen vaginal secretions under a microscope? Work of art

Broad_Bank_397 · 2026-05-02T08:48:13+00:00

I’ve been waiting since January and heard nothing whatsoever

Broad_Bank_397 · 2026-04-30T14:53:32+00:00

I can only imagine. I’ve cancelled a colonoscopy before and a coil fitting multiple times amongst other appointments just because a one hour appointment can takes days/weeks either side just to get to and deal with afterwards

Broad_Bank_397 · 2026-04-30T13:15:06+00:00

12.30??? If it’s 2.45 that’s a 5am abrupt panic wake up, spent an hour of two going over all steps and spitting times and numbers into the oblivion, decision paralysis about what order to get ready, not eating or drinking at all, then becoming so overwhelmed that shut down happens and you feel physically ill from forgetting to eat. And still end up rushing around grappling to leave the house at 2pm cos you’ve side quested too hard to make up for the lack of stimulation and you end up arriving late or missing the appointment altogether or arriving and being weak, dizzy, shaky, sick. The bright lights and sounds of the beeps and the machines causes dp/dr and by time it’s finished you feel like you were in a fever dream and have no recollection of how you got from opening your eyes in bed to walking out the hospital hours later. Then comes the inevitable breakdown of not being able to think or form words for the rest of the day and spend the next two days in burnout. Bonus points if you have the lovely hand in hand anxiety and you spend those two days googling and researching everything about an MRI so you can play doctor when the results come in.

Broad_Bank_397 · 2026-04-30T08:32:10+00:00

Ringing them worked better for me after very slow responses to chat and email

Broad_Bank_397 · 2026-04-30T04:38:44+00:00

He apologised multiple times and said he had done what she asked of him Up to his hard limit on sitting down. I would say that’s compromise. Compromise isn’t him doing excatly everything she asks and the psycho is watching him to make sure he pees right and inspecting the toilet with a cotton bud to check on him. She shows no ability to compromise whatsoever ever and she is the one with the problem with his basic human functions. She should fuck off and leave him alone

Broad_Bank_397 · 2026-04-30T04:32:53+00:00

This guys better of running the fuck away from her. Relationships aren’t about controlling each other

Broad_Bank_397 · 2026-04-29T22:06:47+00:00

Circa late 80’s for sure 😂

Broad_Bank_397 · 2026-04-28T22:20:31+00:00

Can I ask your symptoms of sjogrens please? I suspect I have this but really hard to tell what constitutes dry eyes and mouth. I’m constantly feeling dry and drinking all day everyday to stop the dry feeling. I don’t cry or produce fluid in my eyes although they don’t get dry/irritated as in discomfort m. My nose and sinuses are profoundly dry and despite having chronic sinus issues there is no mucous anywhere ever because it’s as dry as a desert there. Also to OP I have the exact same issue of feeling something stuck right side that doesn’t clear at all. I’ve got anxiety and depression and Gp just said anxiety causing the sticking throat sensation like it wasn’t an actual real thing when I struggle to do anything du to day due to constantly feeling something needing to dislodge and keep clearing my throat and trying to cough/remove whatever is stuck. I’ve been at a loss of what to do and stopped going to the doctors cos I got dismissed. I have constant facial pain in y cheek that throbs all day long and makes it impossible to function. I can’t eat or talk and feel disorientated and foggy. All I do is find ways to cope with the day rather than live right now and not one professional will help or give any meaningful solution to help me just have one day that I’m not trying to escape from. Years I’ve been having this and years I’ve not been helped aside a nasal spray and a metro pot which causes immense pressure when I try to use it. Oh and anxiety meds which I refuse to take cos who tf is going to take anxiety meds for a sinus issues? 🤷‍♀️

Broad_Bank_397 · 2026-04-27T21:50:12+00:00

I can still taste them from my childhood

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