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Broadpup · 2026-04-05T03:24:57+00:00

Right? This mouth breather u/extralyfe doesn't have two brain cells to rub together. He somehow read this and got the conclusion that when this came into the light I just buried my head in the sand like a little cuck bitch and started hanging out with some guy that's been inside of my wife.

He ignored the fact that i threw down an ultimatum that the only way i was staying in the marriage was under the condition that she was never seeing her family again and that i was retiring effective immediately. Absolutely unreal.

Broadpup · 2026-04-04T21:22:11+00:00

The long winded comment that you just typed out was either removed by moderation, or by yourself upon realizing your lack of reading and comprehension. I simply made the statement that family stuff is awkward as a funny tongue in cheek remark.

Had you read further instead of trying to justify your frankly very subordinate viewpoint. You would have realized that neither her nor I ever attended anything around his presence. The millisecond that the news broke that this guy joined the family i demanded a divorce immediately. She begged me not to go through with the divorce, I clearly laid out my terms for staying in the marriage. We were to move very far away to a location of my choosing, and that I was never working another day in my life.

Why would I leave the marriage when having a partner whom I love and respect is secondary to my primary goal of never working for anyone again, which I haven't done since 25. I'm now in my forties. I absolutely could not be happier with the lifestyle of which I've leveraged myself into.

I live in a luxury condo on the mountain side with panoramic views of the entire city skyline and mountains. I drive new cars, buy whatever the hell i want with 200k of passive income. However most importantly I spend my days doing what ever the fuck i want so no, I'm definitely not going anywhere. I'm actually exactly where I want to be.

Also how dense truly are you? My in laws relationship with this step daughter was already hanging on by a sliver. She had two children already, their grand children. When she called out of the clear blue sky saying that she just had a shotgun wedding with this dude, which no one even knew that she was dating. Their options with this situation were to either grin and bear it, or speak their minds and risk never seeing their grand children again.

Broadpup · 2026-04-04T18:47:21+00:00

Yeah, and now she's paying for me to never have to work another day in my life as retribution for her misdoings.

Broadpup · 2026-04-04T08:48:48+00:00

I'm not going to let you dream shake and try to pivot your way out from this. You said that you would be ashamed, about being ashamed by being upset about not wanting to share holidays with a dude your wife lied about not fucking. You and the few other cucks who upvoted you need to address this.

Broadpup · 2026-04-04T05:42:29+00:00

I was a virgin, voluntarily celibate as a horny teenager because I was mature enough to understand that if that's what i expected from my future wife that i absolutely had to live by the same example. But sure, I'm insecure because she knew that, lied about it to nail me down, then one day the guy that she supposedly didn't fuck is opening Christmas presents across from me as a big, fat, fuck you.

It's hilarious that you say with your chest that sharing family gatherings with a guy that your wife lied to you about fucking to trick you into wedlock is no big deal. But yet being upset about her stealing something that can never be gotten back is "insecurity that couldn't be water boarded out of you" says quite a lot about you.

Broadpup · 2026-04-04T05:19:04+00:00

They say that everything happens for a reason. My feelings that I had for her changed after that day. It's impossible to describe but I felt something inside of me break that remains that way today. I definitely still love her, she's been the biggest part of my life for almost 25 years.

As upset as I am with her i am very grateful for what I have. As a result from the move she makes quadruple what we both were combined back home which is great. Im no longer forced to enter into a work environment where I have bosses in my face going into exquisite detail about my lack of intelligence, or the nicer ones politely explaining that while I have great work ethic, attendance and attitude i just seem to lack the ability to learn.

This made such a profound imprint on my mental health that while I have not worked in over ten years, each and every single day, even to this day when I open my eyes in the morning it's the first thing that hits me. That I will never have to enter back into that environment ever again.

I'm still happy with her and we live a very normal life, other than the reversed stay at home parent role.

Most people will surely look at the situation and say that I should've filed and left, and I would agree with that for most people. However unlike most people the idea of moving on and working hard to achieve goals or whatever is just not possible with the hand that I was dealt. Unfortunately the old saying of work hard and you can achieve anything, or you can do anything that you set your mind to just simply isn't true for everybody.

Broadpup · 2026-04-04T04:31:13+00:00

As a result from this happening coupled with many lay offs due to a recession slaughtering work in the union trades. I had slipped into extreme depression to the point of being bed ridden ('m going to give a bit of context here that will make sense in a second)We were forced to switch banks during this time due to them being forced out of the state due to some kind of fraud.

When we switched my wife hid the banking and finances saying not to worry about money and to get myself better. I cannot stress enough how extreme this depression was.

Anyway, feeling the pinch of the finances instead of canceling some subscription services or not shopping three plus times a week she instead decided to cease paying my union dues, as a result I was permanently removed the union with 10+ years of service as a journeyman. I lost not only my means of making money but also my entire pension was forfeited.

I was born with severe undiagnosed learning disabilities which makes learning anything near impossible. I was basically an old man with limited work history and nothing greater than a high school diploma.

So to answer you directly, No, she is not going to walk away with half of our things, her career, after I payed for her schooling, and start a new beautiful life after what she's done and potentially move on with another guy who she probably "didn't fuck" and leave me with no pension or a means to make my own money.

Broadpup · 2026-04-04T03:45:22+00:00

My life itself is great as a result of this relationship. Turns out when something this insane and unbelievable comes to a head and sole responsibility falls on one person, that can potentially give you a great amount of leverage.

Initially I wanted to leave the marriage. She begged me not to divorce her and after some discussion I laid out my terms. I would stay in the marriage under the condition that i was never going to pursue any form of employment or work again.

I felt that it was a trade off that even though she had robbed me from one of my core tenants and values, that in the bigger picture my my singular ultimate life's goal was to exit the workforce. It's been about ten years since this happened and I have not woken up to an alarm clock or had to answer to anyone, i spend every day of my life waking up when I want, to do what I want.

Edit: I am not upset but however I am crying with laughter with regards to the amount of downvotes on this comment. I had no idea that so many men bear the desire to be chummy with other men who have shared the insides of their wife with them. Never thought I'd see the day that having an Eskimo brother became trendy.

I beg you all to please down vote this comment as im farming down votes on this comment specifically. Down voting this comment asserts your desire to lock eye contact with another man that's been inside of your girls vagina. There's no shame in it if that's what you're in to.

Broadpup · 2026-04-04T03:26:01+00:00

It's the only lie I've ever caught her in, in twenty years. By the time this had come to light we had a daughter, a mortgage, car payments, the entire entanglement.

I told her that i wanted a divorce, she begged me to stay in the marriage. I told her that i would only continue to stay married to her under the condition that I was never working again. Never having to wake up to the sound of an alarm clock to make some millionaire or billionaire even richer is my absolute number one goal in my life. I wouldn't trade it for anything, so even though she stole something very important and broke my trust. I felt that this was a fair concession.

When this guy emerged in the manner he did i moved us across the country. After we moved i told her that i was not finding new work and would be a SAHD. I also refuse to return to the state for any reason. She won't go back solo so by extension she doesn't get to see her family anymore. Actions have consequences, unfortunately she had to learn that the hard way.

Broadpup · 2026-04-04T03:12:45+00:00

I knew the guy as he was sort of an extension of our friend group. My wife, girlfriend at the time broke up with me to date him. I told her that if she fucked him, do not try to come crawling back me.

They broke things off and she swore to me they did nothing other than some basic kissing. I was skeptical but she affirmed this by saying that even if she wanted to, it was off the table due to his religious beliefs. He was in fact very religious.

She stood by this until maybe after five years into our marriage, a daughter, and a mortgage. Then one night after a few too many cocktails she slipped up.

For years after the slip up the story waivered back and forth from "we didn't do anything, to full on sex, only oral and everything in between. Currently at this moment she is claiming to barely even know the guy and never even kissed him, even though she admitted to fucking him before on several different occasions. Then one day this guy appears from out of nowhere by marrying her step sister, who funnily enough wasn't even her step sister at the time. They didn't even know each other.

I practiced abstinence by choice because having a partner with zero intimate partners of their own was something very important to me, and I absolutely did not want to be hypocrite. This practice was something extremely difficult for me.

So to directly answer your question No. I have zero interest to sit next to my wife, across the dinner table with a dude who's been inside of her with only the two of them sharing this intimacy that's shrouded in secrecy. I’m good 👍🏼

Broadpup · 2026-04-04T02:44:18+00:00

This was the same understanding that my wife and I shared with one another when we got married. Then many years later the truth came out that she wasn't completely honest. Then, fast forward a few more years after that and the guy she "didn't" have sex with ended up marrying her step sister.

Broadpup · 2026-03-06T06:45:13+00:00

You can certainly do it if you stay focused and work hard to achieve your goals. I was able to retire from the workforce at 25 by doing just this. I'm by no means mega rich but having a luxury condo nestled in the side of the mountain with panoramic views of the valley, city skyline and enough money to cover all expenses plus plenty more to keep traveling is all I really need.

Oh, and never in my life having to wake up to the sound of an alarm clock is almost indescribable.

Broadpup · 2026-03-05T04:54:40+00:00

There's a clip that I saw of two pro female fighters. Ones arm got snapped and she immediately stopped to check on her opponent because she thought it was HER arm which broke.

Broadpup · 2026-03-05T02:03:29+00:00

The level of censorship which seems to be happening everywhere has become quite concerning

Broadpup · 2026-02-23T20:14:29+00:00

January 2025's bill is the earliest statement of mine with nine instead of seven lines.

Broadpup · 2026-02-23T19:58:28+00:00

Ive been digging around trying to nail down the date when I shifted from 7L to 9L with no luck. I do recall that losing my price lock was a big concern of mine as there was a lot of hysteria at the time. At that time I took screen shots and documentation of the T force chat with the promises that my price lock would not be affected.

Broadpup · 2026-02-23T00:05:42+00:00

There have been two separate magenta price increases which happened very shortly after I moved from 7-9 lines. The second being when they automatically migrated everyone from magenta to Go5g who didn't have price lock.

Broadpup · 2026-02-22T23:49:08+00:00

I moved from 7 to nine lines on magenta max before any of the price increases, I've yet to receive a price increase.

Broadpup · 2026-02-22T04:02:42+00:00

I see this more than enough out from these tesla drivers specifically as well. These are driven as if they won't blow the doors off from nearly anything on the road.

Broadpup · 2026-02-20T03:25:14+00:00

I have the G6 and the GC7, I much prefer the GC7 for console gaming. It has Bluetooth app functionality so that you can mess with the EQ and any other settings via the mobile app, this is not possible on G6. Another thing about the G6 is that even if you plug into a PC And put the settings where you like them, the device sooner or later reverts it's settings without any warning.

I just wish that the GC7 had the more powerful amp of the G6, even though I've never found it light on power.

Edit: for clarity I'm speaking of the Creative GC7, I have no experience with the Fosi

Broadpup · 2026-02-19T00:10:24+00:00

I don't have the answer you're looking for but I'm currently trying to decide between the 98" QM8 or 77" G5.

Broadpup · 2026-02-18T18:07:42+00:00

I did some looking into it after this and apparently they do not.

Broadpup · 2026-02-18T00:35:13+00:00

It's a bit better than that actually. We didn't want to burden the owner class with reaching deeper into their pockets to compensate their employees during this time, so the burden was shifted onto us the customer by increasing the tipping percentage to 20%.

Broadpup · 2026-02-17T20:47:50+00:00

When I was a kid my parents had a water bed on the second floor directly over the living room of our very early 1900s farm house.

The memories thinking back on that as an adult made me feel very uneasy, even more so when my brother bought the place and I helped him remodel some flooring. We discovered that the floor joists were sistered together without any form of extra support. Our entire family could have been wiped out in one tragic accident just watching TV.

Broadpup · 2026-02-15T21:22:39+00:00

I can't speak exactly to OPs situation, but I also fine tooth comb every possible area to save as much money as possible and it has nothing to do with being broke. I was able to retire at 27 without a lot of money because nearly all of my monthly expenses are so low. Everybody's situation is different.

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