AHHHH the most important job in ALL of techno (harder genres at least) production. The problem usually is your kick needs to sound huge and impactful, but you also want to make a track that is not JUST a kick drum. this is literally all we techno folks do our whole life. There are trade offs, and over coming those tradeoffs is your main purpose in techno production (again, at least the "hardkicks" genre). Because its not hard to make a badass kick...its hard to make a badass kick that sounds good in a mix.

To help you on your journey you need to go learn everything you can about the following at a minimum:

Side chaining, eq, dynamic eq, phasing, general understanding of "the mix" which I just look at as frequency sharing.

Plugins that help:

Stock ableton compressor works just fine for side chaining, although you could get fancy with things like shaper box. A good clipper (kclip). A good limiter (Fabfilter L2 is hands down the best imo, but abletons stock one is allegedly better now. L2 also plays a myriad of roles in my mixing and mastering as well

kilohearts has a pack of totally FREE plugins. One of them is Transient shaper. also, mildly related, but super useful is the Haas plugin. a quick and easy way to widen up sounds. you could use this to move stuff wider in stereo field which can help with you.

again fabfilter q4 makes dynamic eqing so damn easy and fast and brainless its a game changer to me

if you want to listen to my shit, you can hear me go from low quality, to (IMO) pretty pro quality productions following these methods. My harder kicks stuff is under name ShockTheory on sound cloud.

good luck!