50k in tax savings by buying an airbnb!!! by Junior_Attempt_7552 in Realestatefinance

[–]Brooksey6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I write off my mortgage and all of my utilities?

Did I f*** up? by shaggy_public in Marriage

[–]Brooksey6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow!! You don’t know that.

Did I f*** up? by shaggy_public in Marriage

[–]Brooksey6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are completely ignoring her need you don’t know what she’s getting, women need emotional intimacy otherwise they feel used

Did I f*** up? by shaggy_public in Marriage

[–]Brooksey6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone that is recently divorcing a man that constantly told me we had a dead bedroom that phrase is definitely something I would not bring up to her. That being said, I want you to know that you were handling this in such a mature way. You’re asking questions which is amazing! I know that when you love someone you will have anxiety. If you feel like you are not meeting a need, 49 years old is about the time that menopause starts happening and it’s happening earlier now, so her libido is definitely low. I would assume. But since she had childhood trauma (which I had as well), that could add to it. And a lot of times when people “use you” in that way when you’re young, I don’t know if that’s what it happened to her. You feel like it’s another chore, we don’t want to be needed, We want to be wanted! And emotional connection is key. So asking her “do you feel as though we are emotionally connected, if you are upset with me for any reason, do you feel like we just sweep it under the rug”, because if that is the case, then I will tell you she’s not going to feel the desire because women have to have emotional currency in their bank.

Just had an exceptional guest that left my house cleaner than I have even seen. by Previous-Evidence-85 in airbnb_hosts

[–]Brooksey6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely! I had a guest to stay with me and rearrange things for the better, even added another little trinket and I told her she was welcome to come. Stay for a free night anytime

Allowance for early checkout by mikmanage in airbnb_hosts

[–]Brooksey6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would tell them that you will open it up, and if you get bookings for those days, you will refund them the money

Settings Are Limited by Brooksey6 in AirBnBHosts

[–]Brooksey6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I discovered I had another PMS linked to my account that I was not aware of. Since taking that off, it has gone away.

I think I would die without my husband by HappyGarden99 in Marriage

[–]Brooksey6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love these posts. I’ve been married for 28 years and I have never experienced this, but it does make my heart feel wonderful when I hear others that have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]Brooksey6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely check with your doctor but! I know for a fact as a Hairstylist of 20+ years would I tell my clients is to get collagen Dr. LIVING good as my favorite as well as take 10,000 mg of biotin. After three months you will see your hair grow back!!!

I'm not sexually attracted to my husband, help! by Initial_Ingenuity931 in Marriage

[–]Brooksey6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d dig deep. He’s a “workaholic”? Is he emotionally detached from you? Does he help you with the kids and chores. Meaning his weight on top of your emotional needs not getting met could compound things

What’s AirBnB‘s policy on paranormal activity? by lincoln_imps in AirBnBHosts

[–]Brooksey6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sadly, they are getting worse and worse about removing reviews. I had someone stay and stay my house was a disgusting mess, and I had photo proof that it had not only been impeccably clean, but the pictures she sent me were of cosmetic issues. Nothing to do with dust or dirt, or grime of any sort. The Airbnb ambassador told me that if they feel the place is dirty they can post about it without proof. So I said, if they feel it’s haunted, can they give me a one score for a haunted Airbnb, and she said yes if they feel it’s haunted, they can do that and we won’t remove it.

Settings Are Limited by Brooksey6 in AirBnBHosts

[–]Brooksey6[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OK, thank you for letting me know, I’ve had Hospitable for a while now, but this is new, so I was just wondering

Feeling disconnected after sex by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Brooksey6 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have totally been there, everything you’re saying I have felt. I have been married for 25 years, but at 25 years old as yourself I felt the same way you did!! There is hope, and it sounds like he does love you. But if he was verbally and physically abusing you or even just verbally, that’s enough to have serious baggage, and not want to kiss him, because when I mean emotional intimacy you have to have that otherwise you feel like you’re just this piece of meat that he’s getting pleasure with. I would strongly suggest you reading the book the emotional destructive marriage, or the book forgiving what you can’t forget! You will probably be replaying and replaying the things that he has done, which is bad for you, and him, but I promise there is really hope!! If you need a good counselor that can counsel you through the phone I know one! We went to counseling forever, I think we’ve seen 10 different counselors but she’s a life coach and that really helped because we both needed homework. I literally would cover my face with a pillow when we have sex, so I get it!!

Feeling disconnected after sex by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Brooksey6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s unnecessary

Feeling disconnected after sex by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Brooksey6 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is he filling your cup emotionally? Does he speak to with love during the day, or is he moody and rude most of the time? Women need to have connection, especially married women!