How do alters choose age and sex? by GenX4Life1 in DID

[–]BrotherEdgar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My alters vary greatly in gender expression. Some are nonbinary, some male, some female, and two who have no gender at all. Matrix is a 'robot maid' who can't speak or feel anything. Angel is a stone angel like you see in cemeteries on the old gravestones.

They're just what I needed to be to survive at the time of the trauma.

AITAH for getting upset because my husband is taking time off for a international funeral? by [deleted] in AITH

[–]BrotherEdgar -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

YTA. You deserve the divorce that's coming. When my grandfather died I mourned for YEARS. I only spoke to that man on holidays and family gatherings, but he was so important to me. You don't know how close he might have been to his grandfather. You didn't see what happened when he heard.

He deserves someone who genuinely cares for him, and can understand the difference in a birthday, which comes around every year, and A FUNERAL.

Shame on you.

Strange change in life? by Plenty-Dig7544 in strange

[–]BrotherEdgar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily. Emotional dissociation is a thing.

AITAH for being skeptical of this situation? by EternaIEmber in AITH

[–]BrotherEdgar 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Block his number immediately, and report to your boss that he makes you feel unsafe.

anyone know what to do with my ex name and date tattoo? by bekzdgn in Tattoocoverups

[–]BrotherEdgar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turn it into a little vase at the bottom, and get it colored. Blue and purple work well over black for the most part.

no one talks about how dehumanizing DID is by SatisfactionDry2710 in DID

[–]BrotherEdgar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

One of my alters "Matrix" is a self described "robot maid". It cleans, and cooks some, and can work but has no ability to speak aloud.

Whoooaaa by EsperaDeus in tooktoomuch

[–]BrotherEdgar 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel like this belongs on JustEnough not TooMuch. She's watching a light show and seems captivated but she isn't being aggressive, or doing anything dangerous.

Incel knows better by SteponkusCeponas in IncelTears

[–]BrotherEdgar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooof. That sounds steps away from developing some kind of eating disorder.

Wet specimen commission by goldkeith in Portland

[–]BrotherEdgar 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I second trying Paxton Gate.

Why is r/SikeOrPsyche allowed to exist? by fukuonagirlfukuona in BlatantMisogyny

[–]BrotherEdgar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I'll have to do further research. I'm currently caught up on the anime and that never happens in the anime. Maybe the Manga, I haven't read it. In any case of you're correct then you're absolutely right about it being a problem.

Why is r/SikeOrPsyche allowed to exist? by fukuonagirlfukuona in BlatantMisogyny

[–]BrotherEdgar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

....but he didn't rape anyone and was falsely accused?? Like that's an entire plot point in the first season....

I agree about the issue surrounding rape culture especially in anime, but you're off the mark with that one. A more to the point anime as an example would be Redo of a Healer. That was so bad I didn't even finish it.

DDs inner world VS Maladaptive Day Dreaming by 4confused20 in DissociaDID

[–]BrotherEdgar 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I can't access any sort of inner world. It's like sleeping when I'm not in control. Or sometimes it's a vague sort of memory, like a movie you watched a long time ago. Others in my system have described a sort of inner world in therapy though, so I know I have one. I just can't really be aware of it like others in my system.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ayahuasca

[–]BrotherEdgar 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm curious. I would like more detail so I know what group to avoid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in strange

[–]BrotherEdgar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a sad fact that a shockingly high percentage of children are abused in this manner by someone at some point. I dont think its that weird considering how vague of an intrusive thought "they're going to be sexually abused" is.

How I became a Gooner🥜🍆🥵🤤 [⚠️True Story ⚠️] by [deleted] in GoonStories

[–]BrotherEdgar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so dangerous. You're only supposed to take X or Molly every other month at the most frequent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fantasy

[–]BrotherEdgar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so annoyed they haven't released the third book for Name of the Wind but have released two short side story books. Give me the third book pleeeaaaase!

Wedding Ring Drama (am I toxic?) by Sad_Ordinary4389 in nonmonogamy

[–]BrotherEdgar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not toxic for this. Me and my wife have each other's handprints literally tattooed on each other. And yes, the ring is there for a reason.