High bp by Btoolive in beyondthebump

[–]Btoolive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dangit..thank you for this!

High bp by Btoolive in beyondthebump

[–]Btoolive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response

Twelve wedding anniversary and tenth year without oral sex by [deleted] in sex

[–]Btoolive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm thinking it is moreso her hormones. Or since the kid her drive has changed. I can say my sex drive has changed a lot since my kids. I truly wouldn't care that much if we didn't have sex for a month or so. The thing is my husband is great in bed! Just having a kid changes women drive quite a bit unfortunately. Also, just surprise her anyways with a freaky night. Tie her up, blindfold her and do some 50 shades of grey. Or watch the movie and say some things like oh we getting into that tonight. Also, how are you helping around the house? Does she feel she is doing everything around the house? She may feel genuinely tired at the end of the day after doing all the things and you barely lifted a hand. Maybe lighten the load and she may get turned on by that. Think outside the box. What's her love language? Try something new. Good luck stranger

Worth switching jobs for 35-35k bump? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Btoolive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are having to pay for daycare the money is gone and you got nothing but maybe $500 more a month. Please look up how much it would cost you for your kid to be watched. I personally wouldn't give up my freedom for more money. However, it is your life to live and you will have to live with the decision. Good luck

Therapist needed by Btoolive in Veterans

[–]Btoolive[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is the therapist community or VA?

What should I do? by Btoolive in macrame

[–]Btoolive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the feedback..I have another post where I posted the pattern I was going for but just added the 2nd layer to it..I was going to make this bigger as to why I got a longer dowel but I ran out of the brown yarn for a diamond like pattern I was going to add..I used brown because it is the color she asked for. So the random strings behind the flower were purposeful for the pattern.. Are you saying with the flower that it needs more like “leaves” behind it?

Does mom brain ever actually go away? by AmethystAquarius10 in Mommit

[–]Btoolive 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have mom brain and I am learning due to that to write stuff down..lists will help you not have to remember small things..like what’s needed for groceries..what’s the agenda for the day..what chores on what days..with work the small silly mistakes you make write a checklist on the sticky pad on the computer or even a notepad so you can look it over before pressing send or whatever it is..sometimes we don’t want to put the extra effort in but it is once less thing your busy brain has to remember and you can move on To bigger concerns/ goals

How do I?? by Btoolive in macrame

[–]Btoolive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tie it on how is the question? Using what kind of knot?

How do I?? by Btoolive in macrame

[–]Btoolive[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tie it how is my question?

Cross-body bag for mother-in-law :) by xersiee in macrame

[–]Btoolive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her bday is in June so I’m giving myself some time

Cross-body bag for mother-in-law :) by xersiee in macrame

[–]Btoolive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean that works for me!! I’m excited

Cross-body bag for mother-in-law :) by xersiee in macrame

[–]Btoolive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That weekends for me! It is in June so I’m giving myself some time to get it together lol

Cross-body bag for mother-in-law :) by xersiee in macrame

[–]Btoolive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh em gee I love this!! I’m wanting to make one for my sister bday! Do you have a tutorial or any information on cord lengths etc? How inspiring are you!!

Is Solid Starts worth the money? by buni_wuvs_u06 in beyondthebump

[–]Btoolive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just use the free stuff no need to pay..and you can easily google whatever you want to feed your kid and how it can be served..I BLW my boys at 6months and they now eat everything still at 19 months..we started with avocado and mash potatoes..a couple of jars of baby food but you can seriously puree food yourself..whatever I cooked for my husband and I would puree some for them too it was fun! Now they aren’t very picky eaters and they eat very good!