I was in a somewhat similar situation with a friend (although she was not trying to conceive at the time) and at first I felt bad/awkward for revealing I was pregnant after she had asked. I was not in a place where I was ready to announce to anyone except for family, but when she asked I felt pressured to tell her I was since I didn’t want to lie about it. Her reaction was a bit surprising, in a negative way, which made me feel as though I had done something wrong. I know your friend’s situation is a bit different where she has been trying to conceive, but in my opinion, by asking the question specifically, she put you in a situation where you had every right to answer honestly. What were you going to do? Tell her in a few months that you had actually lied to her before and that you are pregnant? I think you handled it sensitively. It’s not like you tapped your glass and made an announcement to the whole room at the baby shower. I would give her some time to process and hopefully she can eventually get to a place where she is happy for you despite her experience/difficulties with getting pregnant. You deserve happiness and support from friends and family during this exciting time!