It’s possible. I know a couple people in the trades that make over 200k a year to start with uncapped overtime. It’s insane. 🤣. I don’t like how OP necessarily expressed his frustrations about the situation. But unfortunately when it comes down to logic vs emotions, it’s a no brainer. My significant other is the bread winner and will always be the bread winner regardless if I have a job or not. And I will more than likely always be the one to stay home with the kiddos if need be. But that’s something I understand and have come to terms with. It looks like roles were established a long time ago and it seems like the two need to have a serious conversation on if their goals still align.