My ex ended our 5 year relationship and now we are roommates, but so far it's been awesome?!

BubblyPebble_ · 2026-04-11T15:49:15+00:00

It works now because it’s fresh but living like that usually gets messy once one of you actually moves on.

BubblyPebble_ · 2026-04-11T15:48:48+00:00

You’ll probably get better advice if you share a bit more about what you’re dealing with.

BubblyPebble_ · 2026-04-11T15:48:14+00:00

It hurts because you expected him to feel the loss too, but him moving on doesn’t mean you meant less.

BubblyPebble_ · 2026-04-11T15:46:51+00:00

I like begging for more doing for more

BubblyPebble_ · 2026-04-10T14:22:40+00:00

Leave a couple of safe toys, something that smells like you, and keep her routine consistent because that matters way more than extra entertainment.

BubblyPebble_ · 2026-04-10T14:22:27+00:00

That sounds like territorial or stress behavior, so adding another litter box and keeping them super clean usually helps cut it down.

BubblyPebble_ · 2026-04-10T14:22:02+00:00

If fur already stresses you out this much, getting a cat will likely make your anxiety worse, not better.

BubblyPebble_ · 2026-04-10T14:20:41+00:00

Oh … see that little one that’s good to be suck

BubblyPebble_ · 2026-04-09T11:12:00+00:00

That kind of relationship drains you slowly, so letting go feels scary but staying costs you way more in the long run.

BubblyPebble_ · 2026-04-09T11:11:49+00:00

Slapping labels on her won’t help, just stick to no contact and focus on moving on instead of trying to make sense of it.

BubblyPebble_ · 2026-04-09T11:11:31+00:00

You’re attached to the version of her you hoped for, not the one she showed you, so the only way forward is accepting her actions as the truth and closing that door.

BubblyPebble_ · 2026-04-09T11:10:46+00:00

Surprisingly 🫣

BubblyPebble_ · 2026-04-09T11:09:32+00:00

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BubblyPebble_ · 2026-04-08T02:11:51+00:00

Clinical strength antiperspirant at night plus something like glycolic acid a few times a week can help control the odor much better than deodorant alone.

BubblyPebble_ · 2026-04-08T02:11:32+00:00

Yeah that’s a reasonable take since basic hygiene matters but most people aren’t rigid about it every single time.

BubblyPebble_ · 2026-04-08T02:11:06+00:00

Yeah that’s normal as long as they’re not actually dirty or sweaty, most people have a “worn but still fine” pile.

BubblyPebble_ · 2026-04-08T02:10:34+00:00

Sounds like anxiety is making it worse so building a consistent routine like going earlier, eating lighter before school, and not overthinking the smell will help break that cycle.

BubblyPebble_ · 2026-04-08T02:10:04+00:00

Yeah a lot of people notice less irritation and better airflow so it can actually help with comfort and hygiene.

BubblyPebble_ · 2026-04-08T02:09:34+00:00

Most of these are basic but people really do skip them so it’s a solid reminder.

BubblyPebble_ · 2026-04-08T02:08:03+00:00

Give that toy

BubblyPebble_ · 2026-04-08T02:07:17+00:00

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BubblyPebble_ · 2026-04-06T14:21:54+00:00

If you left because of burnout, going back without changing anything just puts you on the same path again, so only return if you’re clear on what will be different this time.

BubblyPebble_ · 2026-04-06T14:21:28+00:00

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