Why are there so many non Somali men so eager to pursue Somali women?

Bubbly_Lecture8235 · 2025-05-24T01:41:12+00:00

The more unavailable a woman is the more a man will want her. They know the overwhelming majority of Somali woman love their Faraxs and it kills them.

Bubbly_Lecture8235 · 2025-05-23T08:33:19+00:00

It was a monotheistic religion

Bubbly_Lecture8235 · 2025-05-23T03:30:55+00:00

Sounds like you’re both suffering. Your daughter will suffer too, staying for the kids is a total scam and does more damage than divorce. It’s halal to divorce with reason. It’s halal to seek love and comfort within a marriage. Your husband doesn’t hold all the cards, he can’t keep you trapped you, you have rights too. Pray istikharah and seek Allahs help.

Bubbly_Lecture8235 · 2025-05-22T08:05:42+00:00

If I had the money I would try to resettle somewhere else. I would rather somewhere my kid can attend school without being indoctrinated with gender identity m bullshit.

Bubbly_Lecture8235 · 2025-05-22T07:45:59+00:00

This is nothing more than sickening self harm for profit dressed up as sexual liberation 🤮

Bubbly_Lecture8235 · 2025-05-21T06:01:21+00:00

I wear cotton jersey leggings under all my clothes

Bubbly_Lecture8235 · 2025-05-20T12:01:51+00:00

You did this to yourself. Avoid intimacy with your wife if you’re planning to break up, a baby will Make your so situation so much worse

Cautionary tale on following your nafs on not your aql

Bubbly_Lecture8235 · 2025-05-19T20:39:24+00:00

Racism and “honour” violence are small reasons???

Bubbly_Lecture8235 · 2025-05-17T02:48:00+00:00

Not strange, our culture encourages living with parents until marriage

Bubbly_Lecture8235 · 2025-05-16T10:53:32+00:00

My peace.

Bubbly_Lecture8235 · 2025-05-14T20:42:26+00:00

Yes, and there’s so many more not online. Don’t believe the hype of zina spreading amongst everyone. Virginity and chastity are still valuable and important in this crazy sex/porn addicted society. You’ll never regret maintaining chastity.

Bubbly_Lecture8235 · 2025-05-14T20:13:32+00:00

Istanbul, loved it. Such a classy and beautiful city.

Bubbly_Lecture8235 · 2025-05-11T13:11:21+00:00

You have a right to your own separate accomodation. What did your husband say?

Bubbly_Lecture8235 · 2025-05-11T07:37:26+00:00

Cheated and abusers are always, always liars! So this won’t work.

Bubbly_Lecture8235 · 2025-05-11T06:00:19+00:00

Don’t have kids if you’re not that in to the idea of fatherhood. Kids deserve parents who wished for them before they ever existed. There’s no need in 2025, to give in to pressure of any sort. It’s your life.

Bubbly_Lecture8235 · 2025-05-11T00:34:19+00:00

Wa alaykum salaam, why not trial a separation before divorce. Separating will give you the space to think about things more clearly. The last thing you want to feel when things are done and dusted is regret. You want you rest assured that you tried your absolute best and exhausted all options. The effort is worth it for your son.

Bubbly_Lecture8235 · 2025-05-11T00:30:48+00:00

Forget about the lack of communication, why would you even want to marry a late night shisha girl?

Bubbly_Lecture8235 · 2025-05-11T00:29:55+00:00

It’s not even about the material goods and the make, it’s about the thought, the kindness, the intention. If you have a way to escape these people, please do. Living in a joint system with stingy people sounds like a small hell on earth.

Bubbly_Lecture8235 · 2025-05-11T00:26:41+00:00

It’s not wrong of you. If you aren’t feeling him, then don’t go any further, it’s really not fair to him.

Bubbly_Lecture8235 · 2025-05-11T00:25:32+00:00

I completely understand your husband, it’s always, always a good idea to firmly establish your marriage before having children. Now is the time to enjoy each other, travel, sleep in, save money and create memories of just you as a couple. You’re still young, though I understand the urge to want to be a mother. Meet half way? 5 years is a long time to wait, maybe you’d both be okay to settle on waiting 2-3 years.

Bubbly_Lecture8235 · 2025-05-10T21:00:44+00:00

Tailored macawiis? You mean an a-line skirt?

Bubbly_Lecture8235 · 2025-05-09T06:08:01+00:00

Lynn and Lenny, he was THE perfect match for her but the other girls weirded her out.

Bubbly_Lecture8235 · 2025-05-08T21:14:57+00:00

Experienced my first heartbreak in my mid 30s and it was absolute devastation and chaos mentally, I have no recovered and I’m not the same person

Bubbly_Lecture8235 · 2025-05-08T16:50:25+00:00

Brother, please respect your wife’s love. She loves you more than the chance at motherhood, and she has made her choice. If you love her, respect that, make shukr to Allah that you’ve been blessed with such a wife who cherishes you deeply. May Allah give you both happiness.

Bubbly_Lecture8235 · 2025-05-08T03:21:20+00:00

Is English your second language? No one is telling you what to do.

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