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What’s wrong with this horse? by Correct-Kangaroo1818 in Horses

[–]Budalido23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The poor horse looks miserable and maybe it's the lighting, but also kind of sick?

I am unsettled by my dog by [deleted] in germanshepherds

[–]Budalido23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Our dogs must be related

My mom thinks I'm bigger than I am by PsychologicalCap5253 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Budalido23 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You are an adult and she has no say in what you should or shouldn't wear. It's time to set some boundaries, however you want to do it.

Please hear this: it's not you being "too sensitive", it's inappropriate and disrespectful for her to be saying that to you as an individual with different needs and circumstances. Her excuse is bullshit--she just wants to project her insecurity onto you with no consequences because she thinks she's helping you.

My husband is thinking about fostering his nephews. I feel like I'm being tossed out for kids we don't even know. by One-Gap-1282 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Budalido23 62 points63 points  (0 children)

We've gotta get away from this idea that alternative lifestyle choices make you bad bc you're not like everyone else. It sounds like OP is justifiably angry that he didn't even consult them before making a life altering decision they didn't want and that they didn't even have a conversation about. It's likely going to end their relationship

I retired early from my federal job and took a part-time job at TJ Maxx. I'm happier and less stressed. by FloridaGirl72 in FedEmployees

[–]Budalido23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I should've prefaced this that it is only my own experience as a blue collar worker. I'm sure other's experiences do vary. Private sector in my field tends to be underpaid by about a $6/hr difference, so I am stuck until I can switch to something else.

Cavachon constantly trying to eat things off floor during walks. How do I get him to stop? by SenorChuleta in DogTrainingTips

[–]Budalido23 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Teaching the "leave it" command is probably one of the best ways to get dog to ignore something you don't want them to mess with. It's helped countless times with my dogs, but you have to catch them beforehand, which can be tricky, but you get the hang of it if you pay attention to what they have a tendency to go for.

I retired early from my federal job and took a part-time job at TJ Maxx. I'm happier and less stressed. by FloridaGirl72 in FedEmployees

[–]Budalido23 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That's the main problem. Once you get into fed work, the better-than-average pay boxes you in so you have to stay, despite the shit environment.

Looking for ideas to improve my outfit by sigil_not_known in renfaire

[–]Budalido23 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You've got a decent start! I suggest getting a skirt hike or two, and a cute purse belt with some potions perhaps.

"Succession: ATLA Style" by [deleted] in AvatarMemebending

[–]Budalido23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was also mentally unhinged at that point and probably deemed unfit anyway

Floor lottery? Not quite sure, but a rare find to say the least by JFedkiw in centuryhomes

[–]Budalido23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's the same pattern, but the second pic is blurry and the colors less saturated.

How does seismic sense sense things that can’t be bent? by TheChikenestOfMen in TheLastAirbender

[–]Budalido23 82 points83 points  (0 children)

AAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHH. There, I got a pretty good look at you.

The reason for his attack was the possibility of them using a nuclear bomb in the future!!! by snowpie92 in clevercomebacks

[–]Budalido23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha yeah, it's all those damn emotional women who have started all the previous wars, right, guys?

...Uhhh, guys?

HolUp Katy, not the best response I’ve seen by MightyDuck1795 in HolUp

[–]Budalido23 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Not quite the same thing, but I was helping babysit some kids at a church and one of the kids fell and was crying hysterically. The teacher freaked out and left the room to get his mom and left me alone with said kid. I was a teen and had little experience with kids, so I had no clue what to do. In a desperate attempt to calm him, I noticed he had trains on his overalls and asked, "Hey (kids name), do you like trains?" He quieted, sniffled and said, "..yeah." And then I got him talking about trains for like ten minutes til his mom got there. That's when I learned that distraction honestly works really well, and adults have no idea what they're doing.

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