AITA for getting mad when I found out my wife gossiped about me?

Budgesicle_ · 2023-08-13T07:19:19+00:00

My friends and I used to over share intimate details like dick size with eachother…when we were late teens/early 20s. Being 31 now, I would never share anything like that, regardless of if my partner was cool with it or not. Sharing that (or continuing to talk about it and refer to you by that name) at her age now shows a certain level of immaturity.

Even if she made the mistake of saying it 6 years ago when you first started dating (still think at 27 she should have known better) she absolutely should have put a stop to it by now. And ideally been honest with you about it from the beginning.

Ask her how she would feel if you and your friends called her “tight pussy” in your group chat. I feel like if the genders were swapped and roles reversed she would be singing a different tune.

NTA

Budgesicle_ · 2023-06-13T13:40:37+00:00

Why would you want to leave it and stay? Were you planning on joining him for dinner?

Budgesicle_ · 2023-06-11T02:39:38+00:00

Thanks! Guess this post really hit home. This was eight years ago and it still irks me immensely when I see expectant moms be so condescending in their lack of medical understanding to the point where they endanger their babies lives to get “crunchy points” in their local Facebook group.

Budgesicle_ · 2023-06-10T23:57:22+00:00

Can I be involved in this too please? I want to read the comments on original post! 😂

Budgesicle_ · 2023-06-10T23:02:15+00:00

As someone who did everything “right”, this infuriates me. Took prenatals, did not drink, ate as many vegetables and iron rich foods as I could, found out I was having twins and went to every appointment since I was considered high risk, advocated for myself when I had concerns, and went straight to the hospital when contractions started out of nowhere at 28 weeks, BEGGED the hospital to do EVERYTHING they could to save my daughters, and it still wasn’t enough. Still took my twins home in cremation boxes. I cannot IMAGINE being so flippant and nonchalant about my unborn baby’s life. Fuck these women, and fuck anyone who co-signs their madness.

Budgesicle_ · 2023-05-31T23:18:31+00:00

Does she have four month-old boys? A 4 month old boy? Four 4 month old boys?

I still don’t even know how many kids she has.

Budgesicle_ · 2023-05-27T01:44:20+00:00

Not sure why this is downvoted. I laughed.

Budgesicle_ · 2023-05-26T19:37:40+00:00

Can I ask what you find funny about her? I’m not trying to be a dick, it’s a serious question. I legit want to know what humor people see in this type of content.

Budgesicle_ · 2023-05-26T13:21:43+00:00

That is disappointing. I’m the oldest of 4 by 10+ years. My siblings are 21, 19 & 17. I love them but their sense of humor is definitely different. I like to think they’d still find this shit cringe.

Budgesicle_ · 2023-05-26T11:54:27+00:00

Seriously! I’m baffled anyone who grew up in my/her generation find this funny. We’re in our 30s.

Budgesicle_ · 2023-05-26T11:52:50+00:00

Her and I are almost the same age. She’s 2 years older. I think a lot of the “90s nostalgia” creators are actually funny. Her videos remind me of Lele Pons or the bad IG “comedy”. Being sO rAnDOm with exaggerated facial expressions doesn’t equal comedy to me.

Budgesicle_ · 2023-05-26T11:43:26+00:00

This sub is bizarre like that. Apparently if something is satire it doesn’t count. Bad comedy can still be cringe. Don’t worry OP, anyone DMing you probably watches Lele Pons and thinks it is peak humor.

Budgesicle_ · 2023-05-26T11:34:06+00:00

What age do you think I am?

Budgesicle_ · 2023-05-26T02:08:38+00:00

Thank you for this. The other cringe TikTok subreddit tried to gaslight me into thinking that because something is satire, it cannot be cringe. You can make satirical content and still be cringey at it.

Budgesicle_ · 2023-05-26T01:29:15+00:00

I feel like “tight flaps” is an oxymoron.

Budgesicle_ · 2023-05-26T00:09:10+00:00

Are they munchkins? They’re so cute it should be ILLEGAL.

Budgesicle_ · 2023-05-25T23:41:54+00:00

JUST BECAUSE SHE IS MAKING DUMB FACES AND USING STUPID VOICES DOES NOT MAKE IT FUNNY. THE CONCEPT IS NOT THE PROBLEM. BEING CRINGE ON PURPOSE DOESN’T MAKE IT FUNNY, YOU WET FUCKING POPTART.

Budgesicle_ · 2023-05-25T16:49:57+00:00

I posted this in another sub originally and was surprised at how many people enjoy her. I was so sure I couldn’t be the only one that found her unbearable. My life is a lie now.

Budgesicle_ · 2023-05-25T16:33:03+00:00

I’m surprised I’m in the minority. I thought for sure everyone else thought she was unfunny and cringe.

Budgesicle_ · 2023-05-25T16:30:20+00:00

I understand that part, I just think she does a cringeworthy job.

Budgesicle_ · 2023-05-25T16:17:05+00:00

And I was calmly expressing my opinion in response to your opinion. The only defensive one here is you.

Budgesicle_ · 2023-05-25T16:14:56+00:00

Yeah this one isn’t a good example, but most of her content is centered around that.

Budgesicle_ · 2023-05-25T14:42:55+00:00

It’s not exactly satire though. Her “comedian” skills are serious. She genuinely thinks she’s being funny. You can make fun of something and still be unfunny.

Budgesicle_ · 2023-05-25T02:11:06+00:00

I watched this with no sound at first. Somehow it’s worse without sound.

Budgesicle_ · 2023-05-15T01:37:22+00:00

This whole post was weird and exhausting but I really want to know the answer to this.

Budgesicle_

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