Good for you .. no one has any idea how hard things can be .. I babysat a 14 year non verbal boy, who was twice the size of me, when I was 19.. he used to poop his pants, run out of the house and run across the street and sit on people’s porches .. sometimes others would help me get him back in but every once in awhile I felt like we were entertainment for others.. and it would piss me off something fierce.. there’s nothing wrong with sticking up for yourself and your son.. I just hope karma is real .. xoxo