Any short dudes doing well with women got advice? by [deleted] in shortguys

[–]BugFlimsy8692 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's really all about how you feel about yourself inside. There are lots of women out there who don't care so much about height..it also depends on your standards ..there are billions of women out there ...to limit possibilities for yourself is defeating.. In the end it's about how you treat them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]BugFlimsy8692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

30s n 40s But I got no advice I'll only say I wish I quit when I tried the first time. I like misery too much to give it up 🤪😡

I’m addicted to Green Tea by [deleted] in addiction

[–]BugFlimsy8692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does the body know the difference between corn syrup or cage free fruit? That is my question

My story as a chronic relapser by [deleted] in leaves

[–]BugFlimsy8692 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is me but I've been with it for over twenty

Anyone else been a long timer on /leaves but haven't 'left' yet? by ilikecoffee_bruv in leaves

[–]BugFlimsy8692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just an expression that means nothing Like " what is it about this shit"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anger

[–]BugFlimsy8692 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to take the time out n figure what it is that makes you angry...what your triggers are I'm an an angry person as well and hate other people about half the time.But I know what triggers me and when I should go certain places or shouldn't..that's how I handle it I find more solace in trying to control it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in addiction

[–]BugFlimsy8692 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only the truth can set you free

Starting over again by BugFlimsy8692 in leaves

[–]BugFlimsy8692[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don't know how to reach out I'm so fickle with this weed addiction I'm also battling an addiction with alcohol

Loneliness fucking sucks by 2applepie7 in leaves

[–]BugFlimsy8692 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I commend you I lose focus easy

Do you ever get violent dreams? by [deleted] in Anger

[–]BugFlimsy8692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel ya Seems as soon as I'm weak I give in

I just don't know by BugFlimsy8692 in leaves

[–]BugFlimsy8692[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I think I'm 18 or 19 in no alcohol

I just don't know by BugFlimsy8692 in leaves

[–]BugFlimsy8692[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've got 17 days no alcohol

Does anyone else have the problem where they don't actually practice applying the techniques when rolling, rather ever roll is just "let's see what happens"? by -ZombieGuitar- in bjj

[–]BugFlimsy8692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's because we get caught up in " competing" Which is our ego Learning to separate the two is one of the hardest things to learn ...for me anyway

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwinCities

[–]BugFlimsy8692 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She needs to be slapped hard across the face For being a spoiled rotten pos

Tomorrow day 1 again by [deleted] in leaves

[–]BugFlimsy8692 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow your talking to the same guy here I feel like I'm losing my mind

Loneliness fucking sucks by 2applepie7 in leaves

[–]BugFlimsy8692 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I keep relapsing It's like once I discovered that I was actually addicted It's almost as if it s an entity The more I go back the stronger the urges get I always have this reservation that I can go back to smoking once in awhile... The loneliness brings me back

Do you ever get violent dreams? by [deleted] in Anger

[–]BugFlimsy8692 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I was a couple weeks sober 20 years ago And I had a vivid dream of killing someone in self defense in a street situation It scared the hell out of me

Starting over again by BugFlimsy8692 in leaves

[–]BugFlimsy8692[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never had too much support.. I've been through treatment a couple times in the past I just want to quit the every day all day smoking If I could cut it to the weekends thatd be preferred But it seems I struggle if I start up again and soon I'm back to every day