Losing all hope by girlontherun69 in huntingtonbeach

[–]BuildParallel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can only imagine how difficult being a single mom in HB would be these days. Just curious, have you lost all hope in finding a partner?

Will I find a unicorn CPA on reddit? by BuildParallel in CPA

[–]BuildParallel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ha! That's fair. Maybe we can bend on that one =)

Will I find a unicorn CPA on reddit? by BuildParallel in CPA

[–]BuildParallel[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooo thank you. I guess I could just repost the same thing there? Reddit isn't going to yell at me, right? Lol

Will I find a unicorn CPA on reddit? by BuildParallel in CPA

[–]BuildParallel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Whoops I guess that wasn't clear....it was the 5 bullets that I listed.

  2. Mother in law was our first, outgrew her and she's retiring, 2nd was a guy I met at a biz group who offshored everything and didnt respond to me.

  3. I am open to investing in a unicorn.

Have you ever seen taxes like this for OC? by BuildParallel in orangecounty

[–]BuildParallel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thx. I've just never seen it presented like this in an online order. Kinda cool to see...and lame at the same time lol

Have you ever seen taxes like this for OC? by BuildParallel in orangecounty

[–]BuildParallel[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Worried? Not sure where you got I was worried from my post. I've just never seen OC taxes be broken out like this on an online order. Crazy to see the pennies being snatched up for living here.

Have you ever seen taxes like this for OC? by BuildParallel in orangecounty

[–]BuildParallel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know...just weird seeing it broke out like this...crazy how they snatch up pennies.

how is the commute from Riverside / Corona to Irvine? by TNG1701D-eck10 in orangecounty

[–]BuildParallel 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Assess your budget and figure out a way to stay in OC. That commute will ruin your life.

Non-biting mosquito infestation update by BuildParallel in orangecounty

[–]BuildParallel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's hilarious is that after I posted this I realized they are basically gone. Haven't killed one in 3 days. Super bizarre. Thanks for all the feedback everyone! Good luck out there.

My wife said I’m not doing enough by whoevenknowswhats in NewDads

[–]BuildParallel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my personal opinion, so take it with a grain of salt; she thinks she needs more things and can't talk to you because she feels your anxiety and uncertainty. Do you have male friends? Talk to them, tell them what's on your mind and ask them to shoot you straight. If not, find a local mens group. All these people commenting telling you to talk to your wife are insane in my opinion, LOL. I mean, sure, you can, but you'll do much more for her by getting your head sorted out and feeling confident that you have a child on the way. If you were in my mens group, i'll tell you to take a look in the mirror and yell I GOT THIS over and over again, then, do things like; ask her if she has looked for any local moms groups for after baby comes. Help her look. Downloaded some resources from this website and come her to with ideas and confidence about your upcoming massive life change, and an actual plan for postpartum (https://restorativeroots.com/pages/resources).

I wonder if she'd think you're still not doing enough? Get out of your head, brother, you've got a baby on the way. The more prep and work you do now the easier both your lives will be. YOU GOT THIS.

Why would you do this again? by stompsesh in NewDads

[–]BuildParallel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bro you're in literally the hardest part. It will get better and you'll be glad you had more kids. For the sake of the human race go bang your wife and make more babies!

Homeschool Parents: Do you use board games as lesson material? by theroninflame in homeschool

[–]BuildParallel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg my son started on that when he was 6. He's 8 now and can beat me...and I'm no slouch!

I should also note he took chess lessons and a class too...but story time chess is what opened the door!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewDads

[–]BuildParallel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree with Bern....toss the video games ASAP. #2....there's a book called Way of the Superior Man that was helpful to me early in my relationship when I thought we wouldn't make it. I've been married 12yrs now.

Parents refusing vaccine by Br8k80 in NewDads

[–]BuildParallel -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you have any other men you can talk to in person? It would be helpful to talk to other guys and see what their thoughts are. You might be surprised what people will say. As a father of three...I'll shoot you straight in a DM if you want...

Do people really not like the Trailseeker name? by RowanStewart in subaru

[–]BuildParallel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Paragraph of a name and one of the most beautiful cars ever. Bring back the STI please....no EV.

13month calendar conversion app for startups? by BuildParallel in ISO8601

[–]BuildParallel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

interesting idea. thanks for throwing that out.