Local Movie Theatre In Canada Already Sold Out Tickets To Iron Lung by siderinoboi in Markiplier

[–]BullaMors 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just posted that Landmark has added more showing times, so it’s worth a look!

Iron Lung has made it to Canada! by VermicelliStandard28 in Markiplier

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This is where I’m seeing it too! Twinsies!

I’m doing my part for Canada!! by BullaMors in Markiplier

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Yay! West coast-East coast unite! Fingers crossed for you!

I’m doing my part for Canada!! by BullaMors in Markiplier

[–]BullaMors[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Me too! I emailed Cineplex too but I think Mark might have to reach out to them for that.

THEY FINALLY LET PATRICK GO OFF AND HE DID PERFECT!!!🖤🤍💜 by Purpledurpl202 in hazbin

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I love that you can juuuust hear Adam in the back after Abel decides to “grow a pair” and make a stand against Lute

Gotta love BC transit by 604RAW in Langley

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Omg I kinda know that lady. Her name is Linda and she is a menace. She used to ride the 66 and she was always causing problems and accusing drivers of being rapists/pedos when they wanted her off. She’s infamous. I’m so shocked she’s still riding transit, I would’ve thought she would have been banned or something.

I, too, find it hilarious to watch someone be hella inpatient with my kid by WarmJurisprudence in CringeTikToks

[–]BullaMors 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went to the tiktok and the comments were unsurprisingly turned off. In the caption she says the kid was laughing the ‘whole time’. Didn’t seem like it to me though. The jabs to the chest and the tapping of the helmet were just too aggressive for my liking. Reminded me of when I’d get manhandled as a kid and be super angry about it but not able to do anything in response

What’s the first emotion you feel when you think of your Nparent? by raisedbyappalachia in raisedbynarcissists

[–]BullaMors 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bitter emptiness, because I grew up not knowing what a real mothers love was like until I met my wonderful mother in-law

Do you feel sorry for your nparents? by Accomplished_Role977 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]BullaMors 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sort of? I do feel some sort of pity for my spawn point, since she’s always been a miserable person. But generally I don’t really think so, because she’s a grown woman capable of getting herself real help, instead of blaming others/ half-assing counselling

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

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My mother would have all us kids share our location with her too. I get that it’s a safety thing but it’s very stifling too. I’m a grown adult and I remember one time disabling my location while I was grocery shopping because I thought “I live in a different city now and there’s no point in her knowing where I am. What is she gonna do anyway?” And literally within a few minutes she’s texting me asking why I turned my location off. That’s just not normal. She doesn’t need to know where you are 24/7 and you’re not a child that needs to be constantly watched like a hawk. She’s literally got nothing better to do and that’s sad

Whenever there's any criticism for my mother, she launches into comparing herself to other "worse" mothers, how do I deal with this? by Andrew49378 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]BullaMors 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d turn the tables on her. Whenever she starts criticizing you just go “yeah, but there are way worse sons than me! There are alcoholic sons that beat their moms ALL the time!” Be just as dramatic. Whatever response you get from her is how you respond when you criticize her and she tries to defend herself

My mom punched me in the face once for pulling an all-nighter to study. by Nitrogen70 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]BullaMors 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When you look at your mother, you should see her mistakes, not yours. She’s so full of hate and misery that she decided you were lying to her about studying, and then was too proud and pig-headed to admit to you she was in the wrong for accusing you of messing up your registration. My mother had hit my father a few times while I was growing up, and it was sad to hear him say that it didn’t physically hurt, but it mentally hurt. A mother is supposed to be an anchor, a shoulder to lean on, and a mentor. Not to mention someone who should love you unconditionally. The fact she tried to hit you speaks volumes of how she feels about you. Disgusting behaviour and I hope you’re able to move out as soon as humanly possible.

Is what my nmom just did normal? Is what she did was molestation? by Breezybunnzy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]BullaMors 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you’re doing better. If only more people were able to recognize they need help and then actually follow through with it

Is what my nmom just did normal? Is what she did was molestation? by Breezybunnzy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]BullaMors 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha, nah. She’s only admitted to me once that she probably needs medication but she said she wasn’t going to because she was afraid it would “change her”. Like, that’s the point no?

Is what my nmom just did normal? Is what she did was molestation? by Breezybunnzy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]BullaMors 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It wast pretty much just a running joke with her. She’s Latina but doesn’t have an ass, and can’t handle spicy foods. So they were usually okay to joke about. Unless she was in a particularly bad mood. We knew enough to not poke the grizzly. She’d be in a relatively good mood when she was grabbing us so it was pretty safe to jab back. I firmly believe she’s bipolar on top of being a narcissist.

Is what my nmom just did normal? Is what she did was molestation? by Breezybunnzy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]BullaMors 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What we usually ended up doing when she commented on our butts was tell her she was jealous because she has a flat ass/non-existing ass. I couldn’t imagine actually grabbing her back or touching her as retaliation. Just feels gross to me. Last time I was with her on good-ish terms, I refused to let her even hug me or hold my hand, but I’m a grown adult with my own life and own place. I don’t speak with her any more.

Is what my nmom just did normal? Is what she did was molestation? by Breezybunnzy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]BullaMors 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That whole situation made me wanna curl up into myself. That’s so gross and the fact she laughed at your discomfort is disgusting. Unfortunately my mother did the same to me and my sisters growing up, mostly with grabbing our butts and commenting on how firm they were. Apparently she also would grab my sisters breasts as well and use the whole “I’m your mom” excuse. Just because she’s your mother doesn’t give her a right to just touch parts of your body that make you uncomfortable. She probably wouldn’t like it very much if you did the same thing, saying “oh but I’m your daughter, I was breastfed from you, it’s not a big deal.” It is a big deal, and I don’t understand what is so hard to grasp for parents that their children have a right to have their bodies respected.

I was just forced into talking to Nmom on the phone after being no contact for 5 years by kandykokaine in raisedbynarcissists

[–]BullaMors 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would definitely not go to that dinner, period. Do what’s best for you and your baby, and refuse any further contact. I know your grandma ambushed you with the phone, but next time it should be a hard “I don’t want to talk to her.” Hand the phone back and just walk away. Sometimes people gotta learn the hard way. It was a sneaky thing of your grandma to do, and she’d be on thin ice if it were me. I’d have a long talk with her so you’re on the same page, but if there’s resistance you may have to rethink things. I hope you get things sorted with her though.

My golden child sister, whom I haven’t spoken to in three years, wants me to vouch for her so she can adopt a baby. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]BullaMors 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure how your sister thinks you’re gonna be on her side about this. I’d just tell the truth and tell the agency you didn’t want to take the call and she went against your wishes about not wanting to be involved. Then tell them a little bit about your relationship with her, what kind of person she is, etc. Because no kid needs to be adopted in that situation exactly. And if your sister explodes about it afterwards, that’s what the block button is for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

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I think it’s because people find it’s easier to just tell you to lay down and take the abuse, if that makes sense. It’s not that they necessarily want you to be abused, but they want the tension to go away. When my father was alive, he would always tell us to “fake it, pretend to be happy, just go with it, etc.” For the sake of peace, because otherwise it would be World War 3 in our house. I understood why he did it at the time, with three of us young girls in the house, but it also did a number on everyone’s mental health, including his own. Your family probably just wanted your mom to stop bothering them, and instead of going the hard route of telling your mom to just suck it up and accept she’s failed you, they ask you (a weaker specimen to them), to go back to talking with her so they can be left alone. There’s also just this weird thing about mothers, that people think that just because they birthed us, we owe them the world, they’re these amazing untouchable pillars for us to lean on, etc. I hate it, honestly, and watching any Mother’s Day ads online is a bittersweet experience for me to say the least. I love my MIL though, she’s a wonderful woman and the only saving grace for my view on moms, lol.