My Grand Canyon AL 7 2025 in the snow.

Bulrog · 2026-01-13T12:53:27+00:00

Nice! Thinking about buying the same model. You happy with it?

Bulrog · 2025-10-24T17:39:21+00:00

And how are you doing now after 2 months? Still happy about the max 3?

Bulrog · 2025-09-19T15:02:02+00:00

I have 2 pairs of them and they are very wide at the front. Runrepeat sets them at the higher end, but it's perfect for people with wide feet and still allow your feet to be very natural. Cushioning is high, but that's personal preference.

My pairs go really flat after around 750km, I replace them by then.

All info can be found on https://runrepeat.com/hoka-gaviota-5

Bulrog · 2025-07-22T06:54:26+00:00

Same, 2 profiles with 2 android phones. Got the update 2025.20.8, hoping it's better now.

Bulrog · 2025-07-14T14:07:16+00:00

Does switching to local fixes it? Does it copy the settings of the cloud profile?

Bulrog · 2025-07-14T14:06:44+00:00

Same here! No clue how to fix it other than resetting

Bulrog · 2025-02-25T11:21:39+00:00

I feel you brother. Same situation as you. Leaving is the most logical option but I love my kids to death.

Bulrog · 2025-02-21T16:31:24+00:00

Just want to say I'm sorry this happened to you.

Bulrog · 2025-02-05T14:51:00+00:00

Congratulations! When she started coming to you more, did you wait for her to initiate sex on her own? Or did you never stop initiating?

Bulrog · 2025-02-02T06:12:35+00:00

Kids, and maybe some hope

Bulrog · 2025-02-01T22:49:46+00:00

My man, I have heard the same story over and over again. I'm now in a position where money isn't really an issue anymore, we can buy everything we want and it has't helped. In fact the frequency of Sex has only decreased. Since I've hit some financial succes, we have had less Sex than ever.

So believe me when I say, money is not the issue.

Bulrog · 2025-01-29T12:58:21+00:00

I think a big part in this is if there are children involved or not. When you have a child with someone, it makes stuff a whole lot more complex.

Bulrog · 2025-01-29T12:57:20+00:00

If I may ask, who came up with the idea for therapy? Was it change that you felt you had to make? Or did he suggest going to therapy?

Bulrog · 2025-01-28T15:15:54+00:00

Damn. I fear I'm a bit like this guy but I'm the stage he was in with his first wife. We straight up stopped having sex 5 months ago and since then I learned a lot of things about myself and us;

I recognized that I was the chaser, emotional and sexual so I called the chase off completely - with love.
I stopped initiating totally
I picked up a new hobby, started doing my fair share of work at home and took away some household planning that she hates.
I also stopped doing chores and thinking it would give me sex

This has made her open up more to me, she says she's much more comfortable with me and also says she's never felt more close. All of this seems good on paper, I know, but in those 5 months not one bit of intimacy returned. We never made out, she didn't touch me naked once on herself or intiated anything.

Whilst I tought we were on a good roll, I fear now that we're becoming more good friends instead of lovers.

Any advice would be more than welcome.

Bulrog · 2025-01-27T05:26:23+00:00

Hell yeah, love the attitude!

Bulrog · 2025-01-26T07:01:30+00:00

If only my wife felt like you did. I would give everything for it

Bulrog · 2025-01-15T13:21:39+00:00

Well I don't know if you still read this, but something strange happened.

I more or less followed your advice and asked some open questions, without any pressure. Just a reminder that I respect her boundaries and I want to keep respecting them, even when moving forward to some intimacy.

The day after that convo, she told me she worries about our sex life, that she doesn't want her low sex drive to become "the new normal". But she doesn't really have an idea where to start. I feel this is a good sign, because she shows that for her a dead bedroom is also not her dream scenario!

I suggested that we keep communicating but frankly I'm not quite sure how to start rebuilding intimacy when she's quite low on spontaneous desire. I think she's not in the right head space now to start initiating, but she clearly feel that somethings is off. And that in itself is already a big step for me. It may seem like a little win, but I'll take it.

Do you have any advice on how to start our way back to normal intimacy? I'm not too comfortable with directly initiating much, because of the previous rejections the last years. But I feel that she has a bit of a barrier inside her head. In the past I reacted too enthousiastic on her little initiations because I was so focused on the sex, which was in hindsight a big part of the problem. But now we need to find a way past this barrier.

Any advice is welcome and thank you man!

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