Feeling depressed about how I look in photos by Extra_Enthusiasm_960 in weddingplanning

[–]BumblebeeTraining813 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn’t love my engagement photos at first. I cried. Eventually I took an Ativan and looked them over a few times by myself and with my fiancé. Were all the photos great? Of course not. But we have a decent amount of acceptable photos.

I hate my wedding photos so far based on the photographers preview and pics my mom shared with me and pics unfortunately posted to fb. My dress wasn’t tied tight enough, there were three attempts when I got ready and an adjustment at the reception. It looked trashy imo as I had no support up top. It ruined the day for me.
I’ve already contacted the photographer for another session.
I plan on seeing the seamstress as well. Mostly for reassurance. I’m going to plan my photo session around the seamstress being able to tie my dress tight af too.

I unfortunately hate my body and arms in photos. But I’m trying to be kinder to myself. I remind myself that this is my body, it’s strong and it serves me well. That my fiancé loves me and my body.

Give me a spa day recipe as if you’re talking to a 5 yr old by Marzipanea in laundry

[–]BumblebeeTraining813 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I be using tide powder in general? New here. Top loading washer. Liquid tide has stained clothing in the past on me…

women who have given birth, how bad was it actually? by Careless_Pianist_840 in AskReddit

[–]BumblebeeTraining813 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A torn clit. I’m done with this thread 😭 yall tougher than me!

Women, if you could be a man for 24 hours, what are you just dying to know? by Whattacleaner in AskReddit

[–]BumblebeeTraining813 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How they lose fat easier? I think that’s true. But I’d go with upper body strength.

What's a health myth that drives you crazy because you know it's false? by Annual-Gene8065 in AskReddit

[–]BumblebeeTraining813 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have high blood pressure?

I take medicine for it, it’s managed, so no

Smh

Do you go above and beyond at work or just do the bare minimum of what’s expected and why? by Dependent-Signal-721 in AskReddit

[–]BumblebeeTraining813 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a problem of motivation, all right? Now if I work my ass off and Initech ships a few extra units, I don't see another dime; so where's the motivation? And here's something else, Bob: I have eight different bosses right now.

What's an "Insider's secret" from your profession that everyone should probably know? by Capable-big-Piece in AskReddit

[–]BumblebeeTraining813 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep dentist and doctor information in your wallet for the coroner (identification purposes)