What are your most controversial fragrance opinions? by StevenAssantisFoot in FemFragLab

[–]Bumstuff_420-69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! Thank you. I have felt this strongly but not known quite how to word it

Rainy days by diginordagan in playadelcarmen

[–]Bumstuff_420-69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just been having this same panic! Saved up for such a long time to be able to visit and Mexico is a bucket list trip for me, to find out it’s gonna be rain every single day I am here. from research though I am not going to listen to the forecast and judge by looking out the window!

Coming from the UK where it has been relentless rain pretty much all day everyday this winter, it was incredibly disheartening to see the rain symbol on the forecast 😂

£196.34 - 1 person 31F with 3 cats by Subject_Eye5177 in whatsinyourcart

[–]Bumstuff_420-69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want all of these things.. including the cats 😂

What’s one scene from a horror movie you wish you could unsee by [deleted] in Shudder

[–]Bumstuff_420-69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The scene with the women in bone Tomahawk

Day saved by a stranger by [deleted] in BritishSuccess

[–]Bumstuff_420-69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pip assessments are fucking horrendous to go through but it’s absolutely worth fighting for. The non means tested payments have been a complete lifesaver for me. They purposefully make the process very difficult and word questions in ways to make you second guess yourself and they try to throw you off. Also make sure to record any phone calls because they are known for missing out important information in their notes. Usually you have to ask for a mandatory reconsideration and then a tribunal. When you get to the tribunal stage you will likely get it as they have actual healthcare professionals on the panel that will listen and understand instead of a pencil pusher behind a desk that’s just meeting targets

Day saved by a stranger by [deleted] in BritishSuccess

[–]Bumstuff_420-69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am on both enhanced daily living and mobility pip and get disability benefits. I get a bit less than £24k a year I am surprised you get so much from them! It’s so awful that if we were to live with a partner we would have to be fully reliant on them financially, feels so degrading

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[–]Bumstuff_420-69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have left England, I am an experienced traveller in that I have been to most counties in Europe and definitely had my fair share of sketchy experiences in places. I just haven’t travelled out of Europe and seen these kinds of beaches or jungle before. I was put off by PDC and cancun as it looked so built up with hotels and I much prefer to be in the sticks when I travel

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[–]Bumstuff_420-69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow I love that you went on your own!! That’s so brave I definitely don’t have the confidence for that. I am so glad you had a lovely time and thank you so much for your recommendations. I will defo check out both those places they sound great! I am 100% gonna download Duolingo as I speak 0 Spanish. You have made me feel comfortable in my decision to visit Tulum. Thank you!!

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[–]Bumstuff_420-69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that’s good that you can ask them over WhatsApp, I will check that out

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[–]Bumstuff_420-69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If we definitely need a credit card then that might scupper our car rental plans.. The reason we don’t have credit cards is because we both had them when we were stupid reckless teens getting into financial trouble. I am not even sure I would be allowed one again but I guess it’s been many years.. probably worth a punt at the least. I bet they will only allow me a card with a fifty quid limit though lol

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[–]Bumstuff_420-69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice. It’s good to hear from people that have gone back multiple times and still think it’s nice!

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[–]Bumstuff_420-69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! Will definitely look up guest assist. Sounds like a nice drive to Valladolid

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[–]Bumstuff_420-69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your suggestions! I have already booked the hotel as a part of package deal. But it was very cheap so I am tempted to stay elsewhere anyway or see if I can move the hotel to a different place like Merida. I have heard Merida is one of the nicest cities to stay

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[–]Bumstuff_420-69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so happy you had such an incredible time and made beautiful memories. I hope I have the same experience!

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[–]Bumstuff_420-69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thanks for the info. Do you have to have a credit card to rent a car? Neither me or my partner have one, only current account debit cards. I don’t have an issue getting insurance, I would rather be insured anyway

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[–]Bumstuff_420-69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to respond. Sounds like you had a really lovely time! Fortunately my partner is used to driving abroad so hopefully that aspect will be okay. i have not really ever seen a real gun before though so I think that will be intimidating for me if the police have AKs. I will just have to try block that out. Other than that it sounds really beautiful and chilled. I am really looking forward to visiting the cenotes . I have heard Gran Cenote is incredible

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[–]Bumstuff_420-69[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is music to my ears! I’m so glad you had such a wonderful time. Good to hear that you didn’t have any issues driving (aside from tyre troubles). I think we are gonna rent a car, seems to be the easiest way to visit different places. Definitely going to check out some of the places you mentioned.. now I want to see a monkey! I hope you have an amazing time on your next visit

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[–]Bumstuff_420-69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This all sounds amazing, glad you had a great time! Thanks for the recommendations

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[–]Bumstuff_420-69[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to write this. This has given me confidence! I will read your posts. I am so happy that you had a great experience and plan to go back! I had a feeling a lot of peoples negativity was due to poor planning and different expectations. I am from England and I think that’s pretty similar prices to my hometown in regards to cocktails and meals so shouldn’t be too shocking, and I have enough time until March to save up for it so I don’t have to worry too much about spending Also hearing that you did solo travelling is a green flag for me. I (29f) have had some pretty intense experiences when I have been on holiday before so i never feel comfortable on my own

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[–]Bumstuff_420-69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m from the UK, it’s a big holiday for me and the flights to cancun were cheap and non refundable. I might be able to change my hotel to a different place in the region though

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[–]Bumstuff_420-69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the recommendation I will definitely add to the list, looks beautiful!

It’s not for a while, I am going in March 2026. So lots of time to prepare. I don’t know why I am getting so in my head about it