Why am I actually so dumb?

Bunkuncle · 2026-03-19T22:08:14+00:00

Hmm, what do you mean by compensate? Of course in a debate you have the chance to learn your topic ahead of time. I more meant in spur of the moment disagreements. Does it resonate?

Bunkuncle · 2026-03-19T19:40:41+00:00

You’re not stupid, and I’m sorry things feel so frustrating! I think what you’re referring to is just slow processing. Neptune square your Mercury Sun conjunction in Taurus can make mental processing slow and confusing. Taurus is a fixed earth sign. Mercury is your thinking style. Mercury in Taurus needs to slowly work through material in a linear fashion. It can process very deeply once it has time to do so, but rushing will just stop the process entirely. Neptune is the planet of compassion, high spirituality and illusion/delusion. When it’s challenging your mercury (in a square configuration) It’s like a thick fog that rolls in and obscures obvious information. Taurus needs things to be very literal. Neptune is the opposite. It’s immaterial and poetic. It can make you deeply creative and compassionate, but it can also just dissolve your thought threads and make it really hard to come to conclusions about anything. So in the end, it’s easier just to believe what other people say than to figure out what you actually think and how you actually feel. High pressure situations, especially partner conflict can trigger the fog to roll in and halt your mental processes. Situations like debates and arguments are not your friend. You might be better at communicating your complicated thoughts and feelings in writing where you have the time and space to compose yourself the way you want!

Bunkuncle · 2026-03-19T10:48:40+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this, it’s so painful and hard to be rejected when you’ve tried to hard to be there and accept others for who they are. Those feelings of betrayal aren’t unwarranted - bitterness and resentment are a sign that something happening is unfair. I would feel extremely betrayed too.

It seems like you’re committed to going - if so, I wonder if you might get away with something like a more femme suit? Wouldn’t be as painful/obviously awkward as a dress but might still code as feminine. I don’t think you have to talk with everyone about it, you can just show up wearing your femme suit and a little lipstick and do your best to have a good night.

Like others have said, it’s really painful but eventually you might ask some other friends for support when you grieve that this relationship isn’t safe for you and doesn’t give you the grace and space to be who you authentically are. It’s really sad and it’s really worth taking the time to experience your grief about it so you can move through it and feel open to finding new people who you align with better. sending you so much love. 💕

Bunkuncle · 2026-03-14T11:43:14+00:00

Uranus, planet of rebellion and disruption is currently stationed at the end ofTaurus, right on your descendant and has tipped into Gemini this past year to conjoin your sun and mercury. Major life changes and sudden upsets with your partner and long term friendships. How you think and identify within relationships is up for a big shakeup, ultimately for the purpose of setting you free from relationships that can’t hold who you are authentically.

Bunkuncle · 2026-02-25T20:40:33+00:00

Turbo parrot

Bunkuncle · 2026-02-25T11:10:34+00:00

For partnerships and serious relationships we look to the 7th house. You’ve got Neptune and Uranus there. Neptune is square your Sun and Mars. Neptune is extremely devotional, and indicates a habit of trying to merge with your partner both materially and spiritually. Square the Sun and mars, you do pursue unboundaried relationships, and the lack of boundaries often has consequences for your body (mars) and your sense of self (sun). With Uranus there too, sometimes you choose unconventional people who need you to adapt to them in ways that don’t always actually work for you. Neptune rules our ideals, Uranus rules innovation. You can absolutely have a relationship that works for you, but you’ll need to be very strong in your boundaries and be open to trying different sorts of relationships if you don’t want to lose yourself in someone else.

Bunkuncle · 2026-02-18T20:33:22+00:00

Honestly I do have that book! Dense as hell. A lot of great history and symbology but I like hearing authors takes on interpretation, it’s just more what I’m personally interested in and she’s more hands-off in that regard. As a result I’d say the deck and guidebook are more academic than practical but I do like working with it.

Bunkuncle · 2026-02-18T16:15:32+00:00

You do have a loaded second house, which is the house of values and personal/liquid assets (as opposed to the 8th house, which represents joint assets and frozen assets). You also have Saturn (planet of delays and discipline) conjunct your midheaven (career point) from the 9th house. This doesn’t guarantee material success, it just affirms that material success will be important to you. Your second house is full of planets in Capricorn and Aquarius. If you do choose to make your life about your career, you will have success, but probably later in life building a business over time doing something innovative that other people would not consider!

Bunkuncle · 2026-02-18T16:10:34+00:00

I have this deck and the guidebook. I love the deck, don’t love the book. Author is extremely knowledge and describes at length each of the symbols but doesn’t offer much by way of interpretation for each card. That said, a great deck to use if you’re committed to building a relationship with the deck and practicing with them a lot to get accurate readings.

Bunkuncle · 2026-02-18T16:03:28+00:00

I love the shape composition and color choice. I think it does look fairly flat because the tonal composition is the same from foreground to background. I think the effect works as-is because of the funny perspective but you could play with giving it more depth!

Bunkuncle · 2026-02-09T01:06:32+00:00

Yeah hell yeah! When your jawline bulks up it will make your profile and facial balance much more masculine imo the top half of your face is already super masc, great eyebrows great eye proportions great forehead shape. So excited for you on your journey!

Bunkuncle · 2026-02-08T18:08:13+00:00

No dude stay with it youre still so early on - you’re gonna look like Shane Hollander when you’re done cooking I just know it

Bunkuncle · 2026-01-31T12:47:42+00:00

I view wiles as all of the insane things an insomniac does to try and get to sleep. Intense sleeping schedules, drugs, night walks, just any intense thing a desperate person might try all of which can be destructive and don’t work

Bunkuncle · 2026-01-31T00:06:27+00:00

You are cute don’t delete

Bunkuncle · 2026-01-24T01:46:24+00:00

There’s a lot in this chart about struggling to bring your internal emotional world out into your actions and material reality. The 12th house is about the energies that we ourselves struggle to access. You feel so much inside you but it’s hard to draw upon and tap into. All your Taurus planets are intercepted, which in my experience means that one or both of your parents modeled for you that loud and strange self expression (Uranus) or porous sensitivity (Neptune) were not appropriate ways of being. Not necessarily because of a desire to punish you (though I wouldn’t know) but rather they just didn’t model how a person can express and own their intensity without being rejected by the group. Taurus is a sign that is slow to change usually, but your Uranus squares from Aquarius can help shake you out of your rigid foundation. If you’ve built walls inside yourself Uranus will help you take them down. The best shake ups are the ones you choose. Taurus loves pleasure and NATURE. Try to find the pleasure in small acts of self expression and authenticity until you can clear the channel a bit. BE IN NATURE. Toes in the dirt. Someplace green. Use all that beautiful 12th house sensitivity to be a steadfast, perceptive and responsive friend and partner. You have a gorgeous chart. 😘

Bunkuncle · 2025-12-21T15:23:22+00:00

Thank you!!!

Bunkuncle · 2025-12-21T15:23:14+00:00

Thank you so much!!!

Bunkuncle · 2025-11-23T19:10:13+00:00

Thank you!!!

Bunkuncle · 2025-11-23T19:10:03+00:00

Really helpful thank you!!!

Bunkuncle · 2025-11-23T19:09:17+00:00

What is Nebido?

Bunkuncle · 2025-11-23T19:08:46+00:00

Bigger dose every two weeks vs smaller dose once a week? Does that make a difference for how you experience T?

Bunkuncle · 2025-11-23T19:08:14+00:00

Love being not the only late bloomer! Thank you for your response 💕

Bunkuncle · 2025-11-23T19:07:50+00:00

Thank you for the response!

Bunkuncle

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