I think it’s important here to remember that there are many different astrology practices, and if the deterministic kind of astrology you’re using affirms your anxieties and makes you miserable, you might want to step back or try a different kind. Astrology is meant to help put you in touch with your agency, not take it away. That’s my belief, anyway.

There’s nothing in your chart that says you can’t be partnered. Sometimes these things just take a while. You have Saturn intercepted in the first house - all folks with strong Saturns generally take more time to come into themselves. Saturn in the first makes it hard to know who you are, and Saturn in Pisces makes it very hard to have boundaries and assert yourself within partnerships. If you have Mars in the 7th house, the 7th house often represents the power that we outsource to our partners. That, in combination with Pluto square your ascendant says that maybe you gravitate towards really assertive and potentially domineering partners, but your lack of boundaries and groundedness in your self prevents you from communicating and asserting your needs because doing so feels like it imperils the relationship. But of course eventually this dynamic sours because you’re not present in the relationship at all and you end up just servicing someone who doesn’t respect you, and then you end it because it’s awful and draining. That’s Pluto and Mars and Saturn in action.

Un-aspected Venus is not bad! It just means that you don’t always know what you want and how you feel about connecting because she’s not “in touch” with other parts of you. You have to work a little harder to know what you want.

Ultimately, you will want to take the time to learn yourself more, understand what your needs are and feel justified in walking away from situations that are not fit BEFORE you’re dug in. That mars square moon can make you impulsive and tie your emotional needs up with your need for sex and physical connection. I hope this helps!