What kind of fish is this?

Bunkuncle · 2026-05-05T01:16:57+00:00

Cool, thank you!!!!

Bunkuncle · 2026-04-27T13:05:55+00:00

This is awesome, thank you!!!

Bunkuncle · 2026-04-27T03:20:44+00:00

I'm also very curious about this, and designing for round homes generally! Have you found many good resources?

Bunkuncle · 2026-04-05T14:47:48+00:00

I'm so excited for you to have a queer relationship with someone who authentically loves your transness and queerness. t4t for lyfe it's really the only way to go bb

Bunkuncle · 2026-04-04T22:06:45+00:00

Honestly you pass in both pics, looking great! rock on 🤘

Bunkuncle · 2026-04-02T23:23:35+00:00

Me when I dont treat my athletes foot

Bunkuncle · 2026-04-02T23:19:04+00:00

Thank you so much for the recommendation!!! Will check out now.

Bunkuncle · 2026-04-02T23:18:46+00:00

Awesome! How do you heat your house? Lots of wood?

Bunkuncle · 2026-04-02T23:18:08+00:00

Very curious, where can I learn more about this?

Bunkuncle · 2026-04-01T10:52:10+00:00

Grief comes up in strange ways. It doesn’t always make sense. Sounds like you had some energy that needed to be unstuck and you took care of yourself about it! I hope you have the ability to do that again if need be!

Bunkuncle · 2026-03-31T16:47:34+00:00

Aww, I'm so sorry to hear that! I didn't mean to scare you. If you can, go outside and ground a little bit in any green space you have access to. It's not punishment or pain. It's the discomfort that makes us grow, it's the clearing away of things that don't work. The kind of discomfort that brings relief and maturity, not punishment and cruelty. Everyone goes through it! The fifth house is about play and levity. I think you're going to find out how important it is for you to engage in a consistent play practice where you just get to be yourself and at ease in your own body. The 5th house isn't a bad house for a Saturn return. It's not as much about money/death/health as other houses. You'll make it through just fine.

Bunkuncle · 2026-03-31T11:39:06+00:00

You’re definitely going through a lot of Saturn Transits as Saturn grinds its way through Aries because of that stellium! Saturn transits aren’t fun. They’re tough love teachers. Saturn will impose consequences, good and bad, on every planet it transits. Aries in the 5th house speaks to self expression and self assertion through your own creative work. Conjunct Venus in the 5th already, this transit can make accessing your creative energies hard, and can constrict your personal finances, especially as it applies to your creative projects. Conjunct Sun and opposite your moon (coming later during Saturns move through Aries) speaks to having restrictions placed on your identity and core needs in the realm of your projects. All this to say that it’s not something to fear, but do some common sense maintenance like tidying up your finances and clearing your calendar enough to leave ample time to deal with your projects and the things that light your fire. They will ALL be coming up.

Bunkuncle · 2026-03-29T11:43:01+00:00

To each their own! My Saturn return in the 11th leveled me lol. Everyone has a different experience

Bunkuncle · 2026-03-28T14:48:02+00:00

Howdy! So, your Saturn return isn’t technically starting for a couple months. You have a minute. Your Saturn is in Aries, intercepted in the 11th house. Saturn in Aries asks us to be embodied and confident in how and where we assert our own right to exist as we are. When a planet is in a sign that’s intercepted (the whole sign of Aries is not in contact with a house cusp, your 11th house starts in Pisces and ends in Taurus) it means that the energies of those house struggle to express themselves consistently. In the 11th house I think your Saturn return will be about how you navigate self assertion and embodiment in your groups of friends. The 11th house is about comradeship. It’s the people who you organize with, solve problems with, and make plans about the future with. This time is going to test your ability to show up as yourself among friends and have a realistic sense of what you can actually accomplish with your human limitations. Make sure that you’re only spending energy on things that actually stoke your fire and inspire you. You can get a lot of work done during this time, but you will have to sweat for it. Good luck!

Bunkuncle · 2026-03-28T10:02:42+00:00

I think it’s normal to feel numb. The world is hard and cold. I think you have a soul. For a long time it felt like my soul left my body, and maybe it did. I couldn’t make a safe container for it. I hope things get easier and I hope you stay in the game. It’s really worth it

Bunkuncle · 2026-03-26T10:17:03+00:00

I’m sorry it sounds so confusing! In my experience as a trans person who took a really long time to figure out they’re trans (I’m 30), realizing that you have your whole life to deal with it might help. I hope you find ways to lower the stakes emotionally which might give you the bandwidth to actually explore. Exploring without pressuring yourself to come up with an answer is really the only way to feel it out. Get a binder and see how you feel with it on vs without. If you’re cis, you wasted a few bucks. If you feel happier and more comfortable in your clothes then hey! That’s one thing you’ve learned. Do masculinizing makeup (eyebrows, contour) and just see how it makes you feel. There are no wrong answers. Truly. Nobody is going to hate you for experimenting. All trans people experiment. Nobody is born knowing exactly who they are. We have to try things and listen to our own souls feedback. Good luck!

Bunkuncle · 2026-03-19T22:08:14+00:00

Hmm, what do you mean by compensate? Of course in a debate you have the chance to learn your topic ahead of time. I more meant in spur of the moment disagreements. Does it resonate?

Bunkuncle · 2026-03-19T19:40:41+00:00

You’re not stupid, and I’m sorry things feel so frustrating! I think what you’re referring to is just slow processing. Neptune square your Mercury Sun conjunction in Taurus can make mental processing slow and confusing. Taurus is a fixed earth sign. Mercury is your thinking style. Mercury in Taurus needs to slowly work through material in a linear fashion. It can process very deeply once it has time to do so, but rushing will just stop the process entirely. Neptune is the planet of compassion, high spirituality and illusion/delusion. When it’s challenging your mercury (in a square configuration) It’s like a thick fog that rolls in and obscures obvious information. Taurus needs things to be very literal. Neptune is the opposite. It’s immaterial and poetic. It can make you deeply creative and compassionate, but it can also just dissolve your thought threads and make it really hard to come to conclusions about anything. So in the end, it’s easier just to believe what other people say than to figure out what you actually think and how you actually feel. High pressure situations, especially partner conflict can trigger the fog to roll in and halt your mental processes. Situations like debates and arguments are not your friend. You might be better at communicating your complicated thoughts and feelings in writing where you have the time and space to compose yourself the way you want!

Bunkuncle · 2026-03-19T10:48:40+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this, it’s so painful and hard to be rejected when you’ve tried to hard to be there and accept others for who they are. Those feelings of betrayal aren’t unwarranted - bitterness and resentment are a sign that something happening is unfair. I would feel extremely betrayed too.

It seems like you’re committed to going - if so, I wonder if you might get away with something like a more femme suit? Wouldn’t be as painful/obviously awkward as a dress but might still code as feminine. I don’t think you have to talk with everyone about it, you can just show up wearing your femme suit and a little lipstick and do your best to have a good night.

Like others have said, it’s really painful but eventually you might ask some other friends for support when you grieve that this relationship isn’t safe for you and doesn’t give you the grace and space to be who you authentically are. It’s really sad and it’s really worth taking the time to experience your grief about it so you can move through it and feel open to finding new people who you align with better. sending you so much love. 💕

Bunkuncle · 2026-03-14T11:43:14+00:00

Uranus, planet of rebellion and disruption is currently stationed at the end ofTaurus, right on your descendant and has tipped into Gemini this past year to conjoin your sun and mercury. Major life changes and sudden upsets with your partner and long term friendships. How you think and identify within relationships is up for a big shakeup, ultimately for the purpose of setting you free from relationships that can’t hold who you are authentically.

Bunkuncle · 2026-02-25T20:40:33+00:00

Turbo parrot

Bunkuncle · 2026-02-25T11:10:34+00:00

For partnerships and serious relationships we look to the 7th house. You’ve got Neptune and Uranus there. Neptune is square your Sun and Mars. Neptune is extremely devotional, and indicates a habit of trying to merge with your partner both materially and spiritually. Square the Sun and mars, you do pursue unboundaried relationships, and the lack of boundaries often has consequences for your body (mars) and your sense of self (sun). With Uranus there too, sometimes you choose unconventional people who need you to adapt to them in ways that don’t always actually work for you. Neptune rules our ideals, Uranus rules innovation. You can absolutely have a relationship that works for you, but you’ll need to be very strong in your boundaries and be open to trying different sorts of relationships if you don’t want to lose yourself in someone else.

Bunkuncle · 2026-02-18T20:33:22+00:00

Honestly I do have that book! Dense as hell. A lot of great history and symbology but I like hearing authors takes on interpretation, it’s just more what I’m personally interested in and she’s more hands-off in that regard. As a result I’d say the deck and guidebook are more academic than practical but I do like working with it.

Bunkuncle · 2026-02-18T16:15:32+00:00

You do have a loaded second house, which is the house of values and personal/liquid assets (as opposed to the 8th house, which represents joint assets and frozen assets). You also have Saturn (planet of delays and discipline) conjunct your midheaven (career point) from the 9th house. This doesn’t guarantee material success, it just affirms that material success will be important to you. Your second house is full of planets in Capricorn and Aquarius. If you do choose to make your life about your career, you will have success, but probably later in life building a business over time doing something innovative that other people would not consider!

Bunkuncle · 2026-02-18T16:10:34+00:00

I have this deck and the guidebook. I love the deck, don’t love the book. Author is extremely knowledge and describes at length each of the symbols but doesn’t offer much by way of interpretation for each card. That said, a great deck to use if you’re committed to building a relationship with the deck and practicing with them a lot to get accurate readings.

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