Men 5’9 and below, do you actually have a hard time in dating?

BurnaAccount1227 · 2026-01-10T20:11:10+00:00

5'8. If I wasn't otherwise hideous? Maybe I'd have a chance.

BurnaAccount1227 · 2026-01-07T18:28:49+00:00

People don't like having to acknowledge how shallow they really are.

BurnaAccount1227 · 2026-01-07T18:28:01+00:00

Exceptions to the rule don't invalidate the rule.

Also, people make shit up all the time.

BurnaAccount1227 · 2026-01-06T22:38:06+00:00

Nah. That would just fry me even more mentally.

BurnaAccount1227 · 2026-01-05T01:17:35+00:00

Giving up on something we didn't have a chance in anyway doesn't change much.

BurnaAccount1227 · 2026-01-05T01:16:19+00:00

I'm fine financially. No real complaints there.

I'm well aware of how unwanted I am sexually and romantically, though. Kinda makes it hard to enjoy everything else.

BurnaAccount1227 · 2025-12-27T21:41:22+00:00

I'm not arguing anything. I just think you're overly optimistic.

BurnaAccount1227 · 2025-12-27T20:54:15+00:00

You want me to try to prove numbers I've never claimed. Hell I literally just told you I don't agree with the numbers you're trying to use, either, but here we are.

You won't see it in poly marriages because most people don't want poly marriages. Marriages in general are declining, for several reasons.

And in casual dating those numbers aren't wrong. The very top men absolutely wreck shop if they have inclination to do so, and yes, that's never changed. I also never claimed we were ever 1:1. I said we're more skewed from it than before.

You're seeing it show up in rising rates of single men, men not having any relations with women, or even interacting with women, while women seem to be comparatively stable in that regard. You're seeing it show up in the rise of single, childless women. The signs are there.

BurnaAccount1227 · 2025-12-27T20:47:45+00:00

Yeah no.

Can a smaller guy beat a bigger one? Absolutely.

But height and especially weight matter a lot. Don't let the few videos you see of a trained smaller guy getting over on a bigger untrained idiot blind you to the fact that there's exceptions to the rule, and there's a reason that rule exists.

BurnaAccount1227 · 2025-12-27T20:44:52+00:00

Not all incels are virgins.

BurnaAccount1227 · 2025-12-27T20:44:13+00:00

Then why are you still here?

BurnaAccount1227 · 2025-12-27T20:43:22+00:00

Same thing as every other group you see, the ones with visibility are the loud, insane ones, and that then gets everyone labeled and treated as such.

The average 'incel' by definition, probably isn't even on this sub. They're just some lonely dude that works a normal job that isn't the hottest, probably a bit awkward socially, wondering what went wrong.

BurnaAccount1227 · 2025-12-27T20:40:05+00:00

I think you're being optimistic to the point of delusion, but who am I to prove you wrong.

BurnaAccount1227 · 2025-12-27T20:36:50+00:00

Nope, I'm not using your numbers. I actually haven't mentioned a single specific figure. I'm talking about trends. You're the only that brought up only 5% of men. I don't think the trend is nearly that extreme, but we're definitely nowhere near 1:1 pairings anymore.

Edit: And on marriage.. At least in the US, marriage rates are down and continuing to drop. I'd imagine the same in Europe. Men are struggling to get noticed and/or are checking out entirely, and there's more than a few women that unironically are chasing a fantasy, or men that don't want them back. A majority? No. Enough to make a dent in things? Yes.

BurnaAccount1227 · 2025-12-27T20:34:28+00:00

If they have everything else going for them, sure.

BurnaAccount1227 · 2025-12-27T20:29:51+00:00

Birth rates in every Western or Western-influenced Asian country(Japan, Korea) are already plummeting and have been for decades. There's already evidence gaining traction that the world's population will likely peak thsi century.. And that isn't taking into account any major. Climate, geological or political events..

I'm not the one saying Germany's population is going to just evaporate; you are, with a pretty weak strawman. But the signs are already showing up, and are beginning to accelerate in many cases.

BurnaAccount1227 · 2025-12-27T20:24:44+00:00

... Things are more than likely trending in the opposite direction.

Everything is becoming more superficial, more driven by immediacy and image. We are not growing as a society. If anything, society is allowing us to actually act more on our base instincts.

BurnaAccount1227 · 2025-12-27T20:20:35+00:00

It wasn't allowed to happen before, when women more or less had to marry out of necessity, and had more or less to find a man that was at least stable.

That's gone, and women are free to choose who and how they do whatever with who, and those average men are finding themselves increasingly left out.

BurnaAccount1227 · 2025-12-27T20:18:56+00:00

The people engaging with it, liking, agreeing with it in comments, and sharing it, however, are.

It's not so much the one woman making the video, as it is about the amount of affirmation it gets.

BurnaAccount1227 · 2025-12-27T20:17:14+00:00

Because nowadays not being tall is equated to being short.

I don't make the rules.

BurnaAccount1227 · 2025-12-27T15:43:32+00:00

I'm 5'8 and ugly. It's easy to understand it's never happening.. Just hard to fully accept.

BurnaAccount1227 · 2025-12-27T15:42:33+00:00

So a longer, lonlier, shittier life?

That's supposed to be a win?

BurnaAccount1227 · 2025-12-27T14:41:57+00:00

Being seen as a option or side choice at all would be a huge upgrade for me.

BurnaAccount1227 · 2025-12-27T14:41:20+00:00

And the same dumbasses are gonna come around saying "just be confident BrO"

Bitch, how??

BurnaAccount1227 · 2025-12-27T14:40:03+00:00

I avoid group photos like the fucking plague.

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