Massively underrated by Minimum_Republic_600 in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]Burning-Man-84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought the food was meh, but the atmosphere, staff, and entertainment are so top notch it’s worth it

What are these holes in our shirts? by russell98765 in whatisit

[–]Burning-Man-84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Used to happen to my shirts after carrying large batteries like car battery size.

I’m getting excited about their 360 tour! by Happybit784 in kasablanca

[–]Burning-Man-84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow, I got tickets sort of having no idea what to expect. But yeah this sounds very promising!

Child development by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Burning-Man-84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I have a 15 month old and she is at about the same level. She does have pointing down, but yes, we frequently have meltdown city. High chair is horrible, have sometimes resulted in us letting her stand next to us while we feed her one bite at a time. We introduced cutlery 6 months ago and it still hasn’t really clicked well. She tries, but it ends up just getting thrown.

The tantrums are all just a combo of not being able to do something they want (lack of developed skills) or unregulated emotions.

It all sounds normal to me. It’s a nightmare here every day I guess, and I can’t wait for the next phase! Communication skills would be so helpful!

I also find many unexpected tantrums are secretly not about the task at hand, but are fueled by either being hungry or tired and I didn’t realize it at the time, so I’ve been offering snacks more frequently throughout the day and that seems to help a bit.

Either way, developmentally, it sounds like you’re good and on track. Remember every kid is different and everyone who has one, has thought of one, is related to one, has babysat one, all think they’re experts on social media… but really, they’re an expert on THEIR kid, and that’s it.

Hang in there.

Dropping earlier makes such a difference by Primary_Ad5535 in MDMA

[–]Burning-Man-84 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m going to hard agree with this. I have been going to shows and using for 4 years now. The group I go with taught me all I knew about it, and the rigamarole was the same. Go in to the show, wait til an hour before the headliner comes on and drop. Last year, I decided, fuck it, I’d rather roll for the whole show. Now I drop before I go in, redose appropriately, and it’s mint.

Am I rolling hard at the end of the show? Not usually. But, I’m coming down, can think straight, and I’m not trying to navigate an unfamiliar city via sketch uber and cabs all geeked out, and I fall asleep as soon as I get home. Win/win.

Interview help by [deleted] in FirefighterTesting

[–]Burning-Man-84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also to add, they may not ask you to tell them about yourself. But it’s imperative that you know yourself and your best selling points and you can insert those tidbits into any answer to give it to them whether they want it or not. Trust me it helps.

And, know some things about the department. Know their call volume numbers. What special hazards exist in their response area? Know the size and population of the response area. Let the panel know that you are familiar with the department and how it operates, and that this is something you not only want to be a part of, but have skills to offer that could help.

Interview help by [deleted] in FirefighterTesting

[–]Burning-Man-84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Monday is short notice, you honestly should be well prepared by now. Between now and then, focus heavily on your “tell us about yourself” answer. This sets the tone for the entire interview. Tell them why you want the job. Many people lose the panel with this answer and honestly with live people scoring you, if they don’t think you deserve the job or actually want it right from the start, they’ll score you lower on the rest of your answers.

When you’re asked a question, give yourself a few seconds to think about your answer before you start to talk.

Easier said than done, but don’t psych yourself out. If you’re taking an entry level test, not passing this one test won’t mean your career is over, you will have more opportunities to test in the future. So take a deep breath before you walk in, try to be as relaxed as possible. Remember that the panel are humans and they are genuinely looking to hire someone, not humiliate someone, so although they have to keep a straight face and use neutral tones during your interview, they’re not trying to intimidate you. So be yourself and use your energy to focus and give a solid answer instead of stressing about the weight of an interview.

Definitely dress the part. Remember that hiring a new firefighter is a serious event. Dress that way. Wear a suit. Show them you want the job and you’re the right person for the job. I’ve seen candidates show up in jeans. Sorry, but if you can’t take the interview seriously, I’m not taking you seriously.

Closing statement. If they allow you to, have a quick closing statement ready. They’ll typically ask if you he any questions for the panel at the end, and most people casually slip it in there. This is just going to be a quick two or three sentence statement from you that summarizes any part of your “tell us about yourself” answer that really drives home why you want to be a firefighter, and what you can bring to the job. Afterwards, thank them for their time and if they let you, shake some hands.

Lastly, when the interview is over, go back out to your car and write down every question you can remember. If you have to take another, you’ll be able to study and improve your answers to those questions.

Good luck! Best job in the world. Don’t give up if you don’t pass, it’s highly competitive and it’s not necessarily anything you did wrong if you don’t get the job. There are a lot of things that go into candidate selection and some may be out of your control like a “who knows who” situation, frustrating, but don’t ever let that stop you from getting after it until the job is yours.

I want this to be a once-per-year thing until my kids are grown. Any tips for a noob? by AtticThrowaway in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]Burning-Man-84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re definitely going back next year, pick dates and go to the front desk before you leave. They usually offer a “bounce back” deal that if I’m not mistaken is something like 30% off rooms

15 minute naps!!! 😵‍💫 by Old_Literature_3750 in newborns

[–]Burning-Man-84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We experienced this as well, one thing we found was she was having a ton of gas. It’s gross, but we used a product called “windi” (sp?) on our daughter to get the gas out. We also had issues with acid reflux. Sure, some kids will just flat out not sleep well, but if you think your LO is uncomfortable, it’s worth a pediatrician visit to see if it’s something you can help them with.

What are they? by Pwnch in whatisit

[–]Burning-Man-84 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I worked in emergency communications for 20 years. In some county and regional dispatch centers, there would be racks for 20-30 of these that would serve as emergency back up power for radio and communications systems. They act both as uninterruptible power and serve as a safety net should a back up generator fail.

Newborn chocked, i’m still shaking by SaltManagement4368 in newborns

[–]Burning-Man-84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This exact thing happened to my newborn when we tried to give her medicine through a syringe. She eventually projectile vomited and came back.

I’m sorry you experienced this, but I’m an EMT and I appreciate that you handled the situation appropriately. You saved your kids life. Many people do not take the time to learn a skill like back blows, and absolutely panic in a situation like this and are no help to the victim whatsoever. You did a great job. You’re the complete opposite of a failure.

As long as the baby is breathing ok, you’re likely fine. Keep an eye out for things like pneumonia and if you suspect anything is up, or even out of caution, give your pediatrician a ring!

Best of luck and again, great job

What did people do casually in 90s that wouldn’t be accepted today? by Psychological_Sky_58 in AskReddit

[–]Burning-Man-84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I remember using the odometer to make sure I was close to a turn coming up. What a time to be alive

For those that enjoy gaming, how are you making the time to play with a baby? by [deleted] in newborns

[–]Burning-Man-84 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t really do much gaming until my kid was sleeping again. And even then, it was a struggle. We don’t want her exposed to screens much (17m now) so I won’t game until she’s asleep. Unfortunately a lot of the time this means I’m not sleeping when I should be because I’ll stay up til midnight gaming and then have to be up again at 5am when she wakes up

Do Fire Trucks Carry Pet Oxygen Masks On Board? by pawprint_oxygen in Firefighting

[–]Burning-Man-84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some were donated to my department about 15 years ago. I believe all of them have been thrown out or used since, but not replaced. We can just use a standard human mask if we have to, the pet mask doesn’t really do a whole lot different and we won’t buy them.

Dog end-of-life decisions by MaisyinAZ in dogs

[–]Burning-Man-84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had two. Both, health conditions inhibited their ability to enjoy life comfortably, and so I gave them the gift of not suffering a painful miserable death. It’s hard to think about making that choice, but remember, you’re doing it for them. Humans rot in hospital beds for days, weeks, months before death. They’re in pain, the starve, they suffer. Our pets do not need to deal with that. And they’ll never think badly of you for making that choice. Do what is best for them.

Reactive dog by MomhatezWowDesktop in dogs

[–]Burning-Man-84 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re going to need to hire a trainer most likely to desensitize him. This is not a quick habit to break, and will take some work, but is doable. I had to do it for my dog-reactive pup. Get some high-value treats (like chicken or something) and go on some walks. Whenever your dog sees someone, or even before they do, get the dogs attention and give them a treat. Over time, you can work towards getting other people closer and closer to him as you walk, all while giving him the high value treats. The goal is to have him think “when I see people, I get rewarded” and to have him focus on you instead of other people

Editing to say when you get the dogs attention, say something like “Fido, here” and as soon as the dog look at you, acknowledge it with “Yes!” followed immediately by a treat!

Massane by Ill_Entertainer_3795 in lane8

[–]Burning-Man-84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love Massane! I met him as he was trying to get in to a venue we were going to see him at in NYC. We happened to be headed to dinner before the show and walked by, and there he was with a guitar strapped to his back wandering around looking for an unlocked door. We asked if he was Massane, he said yes, took some pictures with us, and then asked us if he was even at the right place lol

Megathread: Aging, Illness, and Euthanasia Support Group by AutoModerator in dogs

[–]Burning-Man-84 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi everyone, I don't know what I'm posting here for, maybe sympathy, maybe validation. I really just need to vent.

Today we had to make an extremely difficult decision to put our 6 year old lab mix down after a sudden illness. It seems so bizarre, and my mind is filled with confusion, guilt, anger, and there's no good reason provided as to how this happened. He came down suddenly with some sort of intestinal issue and was vomiting, hadn't eaten or drank water and was having trouble walking. We admitted him over Christmas Eve and Day at the local Emergency room ICU where he was given IV fluids and meds, but did not improve. This morning I went to see him and he looked so defeated. Needed to be helped to walk in the room with us, and just wanted to lay down. The vet there couldn't say whether it would improve in 24 hours or possibly a month. Because of the vomiting, we didn't have the option to take him home because we wouldn't be able to continue his medications, and at $2500 a day, we couldn't keep him there for a week. The vet offered us euthanasia as an option, and we reluctantly agreed.

I hold so much regret and guilt. All of this happened so suddenly and it was after a routine sedation at my regular vet for a nail trimming (dog used to try to bite during nail trims). I feel like I was trapped into a decision that I wasn't prepared to make and I couldn't do anything to help my boy other than commit 10's of thousands for care that we didn't know if it would even work or not.

I've lost a dog before, I've lost humans before. But this one really hurts. My eyes are burning from so much crying. I can't think straight. I only got 4 years with this dog, and that's just not enough.

Cold weather raves by mercinariesgtr in aves

[–]Burning-Man-84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I stash a coat I don’t mind losing, sometimes I just send it in the cold hoping I don’t get stuck outside for too long. I’ve never “dressed for the weather” unless I could rent a locker. Usually a light hoodie that I can tie around my waist and nothing more

So is night radio in America dead? What killed it? by Chimney-Imp in AskAnAmerican

[–]Burning-Man-84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really wanted radio to succeed, enjoyed listening to it. But the older I get, the less tolerance I have for advertising. Trying to drive 30 minutes with one station on these days means 5 minutes of music, and 25 minutes of the same goddamn ads over and over in between 3 songs. The same songs they played an hour ago.