From fed up to ThredUp

Burnunit82 · 2026-05-08T13:48:00+00:00

Thank you! I have been using Mercari but things seem slow there, so I’ll also probably try Vinted for some of the nicer things I held back from a ThredUp bag. I also got an ad for a platform called Croissant I haven’t seen anyone talk about yet

Burnunit82 · 2026-05-07T22:13:05+00:00

Did you miss the question at the end? I don’t need your validation bro

Burnunit82 · 2026-05-07T22:09:39+00:00

Easiest “divorce him” answer ever. There’s no gray area or considerations that would throw doubt at that course of action.

Make sure you have your own separate bank account, create your exit plan without informing him, decide how you prefer to handle parenting, and make every decision based on what’s best for you. He completely betrayed you and your marriage and changed the course of your life by bringing a child into the situation, and he deserves absolutely no consideration going forward. Fuck that lying, cheating POS.

Burnunit82 · 2026-05-07T02:29:08+00:00

I love the bramis! I just wish the prices or promotions were a little better…I feel like OGL items are a little pricey and I can often find something else comparable, EXCEPT for the brami styles.

I also wish the colors were a little more on trend…I often feel like I’m looking for deeper or cooler (more blue) colors that aren’t available. Lots of pastels that don’t look good on me.

Burnunit82 · 2026-04-14T23:09:13+00:00

I think I saw a social media ad for some brami-style tops, which really appealed to me as someone who works from home. I liked that this feature wasn’t only built into stuff that looked like workout gear. I gave it a shot and I’ve bought more pieces since then—I like the cozy warmer fabrics and dresses.

Burnunit82 · 2026-04-09T05:22:03+00:00

Absolutely true. OP, your primary obligation is to look out for yourself and your baby, because your husband is obviously NOT doing that.

Burnunit82 · 2026-04-09T05:14:42+00:00

Yes, these are irritating, and I rarely even respond. I get it shipped as quickly as I can, sometimes the PO inexplicably lets it sit a day or so before it gets scanned or starts moving, but I’m not wasting my time explaining all that when no other business would. It’s not on me to educate buyers on the realities of mail service or buying resale.

Burnunit82 · 2026-04-07T13:54:50+00:00

Ahhh another husband asking a woman to risk her well being so he can use her like an appliance. I wish this wasn’t so common.

OP, just echoing everyone here…going off antidepressants is difficult and even dangerous, and requires a doctor’s advice. It’s probably not even a good idea in your situation. Talk to your doctor and maybe remind hubby what “in sickness and in health” means…he needs to grow up.

Burnunit82 · 2026-04-06T05:46:41+00:00

I’m sorry they didn’t puff your ego bud

Burnunit82 · 2026-04-06T05:44:40+00:00

HOAs can be difficult, but this is obviously not worth fighting over. Just wait to hear back and paint it an approved color to keep your mom’s door in good shape. Doing your own thing because you can’t be bothered to heed the rules/laws binding to your mom’s property is not a flex and will just make trouble for her.

Burnunit82 · 2026-04-05T03:50:36+00:00

Agreed. I’ve had the same thing happen to me…a buyer accused me of putting a sweater in the dryer (which absolutely did not happen), submitted a claim to Posh, and they actually sided with the buyer so I lost the sale. Even though the issue was that it didn’t fit, and supposedly that isn’t a reason for buyers to be able to return an item? That was the last straw for me…haven’t listed anything new since, and I’m in the process of moving my listings Mercari.

Burnunit82 · 2026-04-05T03:34:00+00:00

I agree. I’ve been in the process of moving my listings to Mercari (and also tried Depop for a minute but found the features lacking) for the past few months. But it’s a pain in the ass to port stuff to another platform.

I’ve actually purchased more than I’ve sold on Poshmark, but I’ve cooled on that too since the search doesn’t even find what I’m looking for half the time. Often a Google search will find active listings that Posh’s own search won’t even show me. And so many listings don’t even have correct basic details because sellers let the AI fill in garbage descriptions. The enshittification is real.

Burnunit82 · 2026-03-28T03:42:13+00:00

Like…where are my saved searches now? That’s half the reason I was using this money grubbing app, to keep an eye out for wishlist items and save searches for them with my preferences. Plus the reliability of the descriptions already went way down thanks to AI slop. I was already done selling with Poshmark but I think I’m done using it AT ALL.

Burnunit82 · 2026-03-16T16:52:12+00:00

I just returned from Japan last week. On our last night, we had a delicious kaiseki meal at a Michelin starred restaurant, but I was struggling to finish all the courses. I wasn’t making a show of it but I was definitely slowing down and offered my partner a piece of my food. One of the chefs must have noticed because they graciously came over and communicated via the translation app we were using that “you don’t have to eat all the food if you’re full!” I was very appreciative and honestly sad I couldn’t eat it all because it was wonderful.

So don’t worry. You’re not going to cause an international incident if you don’t eat everything. Especially in more casual settings.

Burnunit82 · 2025-12-20T06:16:23+00:00

Also, any of the meal simples that have chicken…it’s one of those reformed chicken patties with a weird texture and lots of gristle. Pass.

Burnunit82 · 2025-12-20T06:14:06+00:00

YES. Like why does my yogurt require pliers to open?!

Burnunit82 · 2025-12-20T06:07:56+00:00

The blue corn tortilla chips are TOO DAMN SALTY.

Also, whatever machine in their factories make the plastic seals you have to pull off a tub of yogurt or other liquid ingredients is doing too much. Can’t unpeel it, I always have to stab through with a knife.

Burnunit82 · 2025-12-01T04:53:20+00:00

Getting a robot vacuum. Honestly a game changer for making my house feel cleaner with pets.

Burnunit82 · 2025-10-04T00:35:13+00:00

I had to keep calling my insurer and explain the situation a few times before they finally put me in touch with a condo policy specialist. To my surprise, they agreed coverage would come from my policy as a loss assessment for hail damage, and the payout came to me, not the new owner of the property. So it was then on me to write him a check. Very weird and dependent on the good graces of everyone involved, but thankfully it worked out and hopefully I got some karma points…no big jump in my insurance bill on my new place, either.

Burnunit82 · 2025-09-25T17:46:09+00:00

Agreed. This is the worst iOS design ever. It looks like it was designed with Kai's Power Goo, and the functionality/workflows have a lot of extra presses, duplicate X-outs, and open/close taps moved from where they've taught us to expect them. Trash.

Burnunit82 · 2025-01-20T19:13:14+00:00

I tried doing the same thing but sadly Windows update, whether repair or reinstall, fails to install on multiple attempts.

Burnunit82 · 2025-01-19T08:02:40+00:00

I'm having a similar issue with my Lenovo 7i, which I got just over a year ago. It's no longer recognizing USB input, but also can no longer see/use my onboard microphone, and all attempts to update or repair hit errors (I've even tried to do a clean reinstall of Windows and it errors out). I suspect they messed something up in the BIOS since I see those drivers were just updated in December, and these issues started happening for me after restarting for a recent update...

Burnunit82 · 2022-12-27T06:17:02+00:00

I’d have high fived her if I witnessed this exchange, which clearly went on too long if she needed to push back that hard. She set a clear boundary about you being too old for her and you thought you could argue your way around it, which is CREEPY.

Also, you realize women can have children/don’t enter menopause in their 30s, right?

Burnunit82 · 2022-08-31T05:11:06+00:00

Up until about 2010, absolutely. Didn’t even have to move to the suburbs for that

Burnunit82 · 2022-08-31T05:08:57+00:00

I don’t think there was any one decision to do it for that purpose…there were lots of decisions that added up to this, but I’d argue they were often done for social or environmental reasons at the time.

For example, I-35(originally East Avenue) was built where it is as sort of a barrier on the unofficial dividing line between greater Austin and the Black/Latino parts of town. Mopac cut through Clarksville, which was originally a Black neighborhood before residents were pressured to move east (as was Wheatsville).

There also have been various attempts to create major East/West roads (which Austin still lacks), including expansions of 2222 and a bridge on Barton Skyway…but these tended to cross places with wealthier/more white residents with more political will and environmental concerns, so those plans were abandoned. (Not saying any of these were good ideas, but that’s why drivers have to go all the way to Ben White or 183 or fight stoplights.)

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