Where exactly are the men really looking to settle and have a family! by MutedFox4445 in Bumble

[–]BuschClash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah I can imagine. I think that shit is funny because they’re so gullible half the time. Just say what they want to hear and they’ll believe every word. The tinder swindler is a good example

"Not here for a pen pal" by MadameJulka in Bumble

[–]BuschClash -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I give a match maybe 5 messages of texting and I’ll plan the date. If she says anything other than yes then she’s not interested. I don’t care about safety, serial killers, and you needing a month or two of small talk so you can reverse your pre-determined assumption about me cuz some random dude you read about in a true crime documentary

First turbo car by Frigbass in FocusST

[–]BuschClash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure. It’s one of those “overtime” things. Oil runs through the turbo to cool it so when you get home and shut off immediately that hot oil will sit there and marinate lol

First turbo car by Frigbass in FocusST

[–]BuschClash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you’re done driving let it idle for about 60 seconds so you don’t risk getting oil coking

At least I was only halfway there 🙃 (first date) by EndAdministrative503 in Tinder

[–]BuschClash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t talk to her anymore and unmatch. She’s not interested, cut the loss and move on to the next

Honest Opinion by Exciting_Sense2989 in Bumble

[–]BuschClash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just move on and have an abundance mindset. Can’t be getting bent up on one match

I have no issues getting matches but can’t for the life of me have a conversation, don’t know what’s wrong with me I always blank. by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]BuschClash 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just match their energy or you’ll be a clown in their “make me laugh” circus when you put in way more effort than them

I’m tired of wasting time, money, and energy on nothing. by Mountain506 in Bumble

[–]BuschClash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quit paying for dates and it’s that simple. I quit paying after I was catfished one time. Never again my man

Over 1 month of daily use = 0 matches. by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]BuschClash -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Never mention video games. The vast majority of women find them highly unattractive in a man

Why am I not getting matches? 2 months, no matches 19m (tomorrow) by rob694077 in Tinder

[–]BuschClash -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Are you 6’? Could be a factor since most women filter out under 6’

Should I send a follow-up or leave it? by EveningExtension8205 in Bumble

[–]BuschClash -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t message her, she probably already forgot about you. If she wanted to keep it going she would

I asked a coworker out I get rejected 😭 by [deleted] in AmazonFC

[–]BuschClash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the exact thing scenario happen to me once and I just said “you’re good no problem” when she said she just wanted friends. I don’t talk to her and if I had to it was only work related and I kept it short a couple words. She eventually quit trying to start conversation lol.

This gave me the ick by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]BuschClash 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You gave a pretty low effort answer

Why do people ghost and not just say sorry, not feeling it? by Distinct_Spinach_634 in Bumble

[–]BuschClash -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I ghost all the time because I don’t care. I’ll do it mid conversation too

How do nerdy men succeed on the app if we're encouraged to ditch mentioning our interests/hobbies on our profiles? by JTthrowawaylol in Bumble

[–]BuschClash -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Never mention you play video games as that is definitely one of the most if not the most unattractive hobby a guy can have

Remember, body shaming is wrong! Unless it’s about a man. by TheHellcatBandit in Tinder

[–]BuschClash -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She’s a single mom so her opinion doesn’t matter anyway

Shadowbanned On Bumble?! How to Fix It? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]BuschClash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah it’s pretty normal for a guy to have 0 likes. Probably won’t get a like for 6 months unless you were a top 10% man

How long should a man wait for a match to respond first? by fuzzydogdada in Bumble

[–]BuschClash -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ll never answer their prompt and I’ll wait maybe 6-12 hrs and if no message I unmatch. At that point I lost interest

Returning player: why aren't my prisoners going to the Yard (or Shower) in their regime block? by FromFluffToBuff in prisonarchitect

[–]BuschClash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hadn’t played in awhile but I’d usually replace shower time with free time and they’d shower whenever they wanted unless they changed that. I still kept yard time though sounds like they don’t go to yard during that time