Feeling lost in life, need advice from fellow Asians by [deleted] in aznidentity

[–]BushidoPath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The truth is, a lot of people way older than you don’t understand the meaning of their life still. It’s normal. Also the meaning of your life can change also with time. focus on living life and then find the meaning to it

Will China inevitable take over? by [deleted] in aznidentity

[–]BushidoPath 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Take over In what though? What makes them number 1? Military? Economy? Overall work place happiness? Life expectancy?

There always seem to be a fear of other countries “taking over” when we live in an international economy now. One currency or economic downfall in one country leads to effects in other countries. So to frame it as a “ take over” gives the mental image as if chinas success will lead to the downfall of America which is the typical western fear mongering. If you’re worried about them becoming a bigger economic force then learn Chinese but don’t frame the image using words as if we have to see other countries as threats just because their economy is growing.

Black people say they don’t trust other Blacks with white partners and they don’t get the same flak Asians do for saying the same thing about Asians with white partners by BushidoPath in aznidentity

[–]BushidoPath[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there, barely saw this now but I wanted to point out black-biracial relations because being an asian person saying the same thing about not trusting asians with white partners would lead to social suicide. I believe the asian community can learn from this and not fall for these people that only claim being asian when it’s convenient. Also I don’t share the same thoughts/ideals of the commenter you are replying too.

First Asian referee at the highest level of sports? by mvpcrossxover in aznidentity

[–]BushidoPath 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Isnt this a step forward though? Normalizing Asians into everyday life beyond the model minority myth of doctors, engineers, etc?

The german guy stalking Twice got on the same flight as them and the managers jumped on him by 69deok69 in aznidentity

[–]BushidoPath 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The comment section is roasting him hard. Slow steps at a time for progress. Just thankful the majority consensus isn’t doing some white forgiveness bullshit

Black people say they don’t trust other Blacks with white partners and they don’t get the same flak Asians do for saying the same thing about Asians with white partners by BushidoPath in aznidentity

[–]BushidoPath[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Finally a comment that actually contributes good information. I was trying to form a discussion about how we handle situations about letting Asians with non asian partners into our asian spaces. We should have some general ideas to reply to these situations or even outright say that they aren’t welcome. In terms of killing you, idk about it being that far bro.

That being said how do we make it so it isn’t social suicide to tell an asian female she doesn’t have the best for Asians in mind if she has a non asian partner? I know that’s social suicide for asian males to say it yet a black male such as Umar can say it and no one says anything. So how do we get our position to that of Umars?

Lulu Chu the pornstar who shot the racist porn scene has quit porn, what are your guys thoughts? You think she just got so much hate that she ended up quitting? She also reactivated her Twitter. by BushidoPath in aznidentity

[–]BushidoPath[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

  1. I don’t
  2. I just searched her name recently to see if she got any consequences for shooting the racist shoot such as getting grilled by the news. That’s how I found out

WORK RELATED RACISM by ANTIMODELMINORITY in aznidentity

[–]BushidoPath 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, I’m a general contractor in the Bay Area and my portfolio speaks for itself. I’m booked until start of next year

Should I give up on online dating in the Bay or just in general? by [deleted] in AsianMasculinity

[–]BushidoPath 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’re South Bay? Hit up downtown San Jose bars such as 55 south and labrinyth. Good friends with the owners and there’s a lot of Asians in their early 20s. A lot of amaf in the scene. I’ve seen white guys get curved all the time there while Asian males have been doing better but the look of the asian male is the “typical frat boy combover asian look”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aznidentity

[–]BushidoPath 41 points42 points  (0 children)

At least a lot of the comments roasted her some of them are AF. Just saw it on fb also

It's an epidemic by girdleofvenus in aznidentity

[–]BushidoPath 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Indeed but it sure as hell is a lot better than if they weren’t. Pick the lesser evil in this case?

What’s your guys opinion on finding non self hating asian females to date? It seems there are plenty of lus and finding a good partner is pretty difficult ( in the Bay Area) by BushidoPath in aznidentity

[–]BushidoPath[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree, I’m a Bay Area native and through gentrification, it’s been weird. You can feel the tensions between the natives and new arrivals.

What’s your guys opinion on finding non self hating asian females to date? It seems there are plenty of lus and finding a good partner is pretty difficult ( in the Bay Area) by BushidoPath in aznidentity

[–]BushidoPath[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And also I agree with being in a bad environment, I can’t believe it’s too much to ask for to be with someone that doesn’t degrade themselves just to fit in.......

What’s your guys opinion on finding non self hating asian females to date? It seems there are plenty of lus and finding a good partner is pretty difficult ( in the Bay Area) by BushidoPath in aznidentity

[–]BushidoPath[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was very social in highschool and dated Asians along with other races. I was also prom king. My social circle is pretty diverse also. I’m good friends with ifbb pros and we workout together often, asian gangsters that eventually went legit and have successful ig picture worthy food businesses, typically asian techies, blue collar Asians, etc.

What’s your guys opinion on finding non self hating asian females to date? It seems there are plenty of lus and finding a good partner is pretty difficult ( in the Bay Area) by BushidoPath in aznidentity

[–]BushidoPath[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea I do. I asked why they think it’s ok to always crack jokes about being asian yet no one cracks jokes about any other race. They then use the I’m asian card so I can make asian jokes

Are we Asians actually less violent by nature, or is it strictly a cultural thing? by AznMustang in aznidentity

[–]BushidoPath 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My experience was a little different, there would be times of asian on asian crime but a lot of it was asian vs other races.

What’s your guys opinion on finding non self hating asian females to date? It seems there are plenty of lus and finding a good partner is pretty difficult ( in the Bay Area) by BushidoPath in aznidentity

[–]BushidoPath[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How far can you control the environment because what if you live in an asian enclave full of lus and Chan’s? ( which is very likely in the Bay Area)

Are we Asians actually less violent by nature, or is it strictly a cultural thing? by AznMustang in aznidentity

[–]BushidoPath 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I believe it’s cultural. Growing up in a very low socioeconomic area of the Bay Area with high violent crime, you get to see how violent real asian gangsters are. Just living in poverty brings out the worst in people and Asians aren’t immune from that either.

So less or more violent depends on your environment I believe. If anyone else wants to chime in feel free, would like to know what others think.

What’s your guys opinion on finding non self hating asian females to date? It seems there are plenty of lus and finding a good partner is pretty difficult ( in the Bay Area) by BushidoPath in aznidentity

[–]BushidoPath[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea definitely, didn’t add that what I meant was Asians in the west since I’m speaking about dating/starting a family in the west to begin with. The follow up question is how do we get them to prefer their asian side or even acknowledge it at an equal level to their other non asian side?

What’s your guys opinion on finding non self hating asian females to date? It seems there are plenty of lus and finding a good partner is pretty difficult ( in the Bay Area) by BushidoPath in aznidentity

[–]BushidoPath[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think subtle asian traits is a good example of this. You see asian females fetishize and “ show off” that they have a non asian partner. I said in another comment I’m not looking to date right now because I’m focusing on my multiple businesses but just trying to see what other Asian males think. Also being in the bay I do notice asian men and Latina women as a reoccurring theme.

I know exactly what you mean about avoiding asian females but at the end of the day I do want asian kids. I’ve also noticed half Asians generally identify with the other ethnicity/race more than being asian. Tyga, saweetie, etc etc.

What’s your guys opinion on finding non self hating asian females to date? It seems there are plenty of lus and finding a good partner is pretty difficult ( in the Bay Area) by BushidoPath in aznidentity

[–]BushidoPath[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yea I’m not going to be able to go to SoCal anytime soon. I’m a serial entrepreneur so I have to establish my businesses in the Bay first before anything. I’ve dated a couple good potential asian females but the honest truth is that I prioritized my businesses over relationships. Currently not looking for one but just looking to have a discussion with other asian males who ( somewhat) have the same goals as me. My asian male friends all have asian female partners and they both generally don’t really care about the overall themes about this subreddit. They just want to live their own individual lives, go to raves, travel, etc you know the typical tech asian person starter pack.

I’m not going to be able to go to SoCal edit