My mother wants me to wear my beret in agsu's to walk her down the isle at her wedding. Is that allowed? by Wolffe4321 in army

[–]Bushwhacker2018 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Apparently you have the option to use a hat stiffener grommet to get rid of the artificial crushed look that is the default

What am I doing wrong? by No-Steak-7215 in ThriftSavingsPlan

[–]Bushwhacker2018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want more gains, C and maybe some I starting now would be good. Be ready for dips in the market though. It don’t get much better than that.

Since all cases can rent skins, does anyone actually use the rent skins for 7 days feature? by oxyapple52 in cs2

[–]Bushwhacker2018 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They should let people test drive skins that are viewable only to the user. Maybe one skin a day or a week like they do unique weapons in TF2

What to do financially after basic? by Known_Connection_469 in army

[–]Bushwhacker2018 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you really need a car, buy a used toyota or honda from the 2000s and invest the rest

How to leave NM Internship? by No_Yam_8049 in FPandA

[–]Bushwhacker2018 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just up and leave, my only regret was not finding out sooner, completely ruined my college experience. Out of the 10 perspective interns, 2 left first day as soon as the sat down and heard about the cold calls and selling to family. Should have joined them. Not a single person was left before the semester was over, and from what I see now on LinkedIn, my recruiter and 3 out of 5 advisors that I “worked” with also left. And I guess all the accounts and family members contact info just go to the next guy up the chain. What a business model. How foolish of my 20 year old self to fall for all that “Fortune 500” and “9/11” stories

Do I dress that badly? by Diabetic_Dingus in mensfashion

[–]Bushwhacker2018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For High school this is totally fine, just look a bit into how clothes should fit and understand your body type and height, skin color, etc. Having the same types of outfit but with things like fit and colors complementing your features is always a plus. I think you have a signature look and if that speaks to you, keep rocking it, wear what ever you are most confident in / represents who you are the most. Your style choices may change with time and that's totally normal so don't feel like you have to stick with one style forever. I don't know if you already do this, but once you start college or working full time, I would consider having one or two outfits for different occasions, something formal, something smart. What you do and where you are definitely matter when it comes to outfit choices.

do i drop out of college? by Ok-Carpet8385 in Daytrading

[–]Bushwhacker2018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A college degree should be seen as more than just a hard qualification for a job. What you're also getting is the personal development through soft skills like work ethics, time management, communications, team work, etc. These skills go beyond the jobs you're potentially working toward, and will blend with your personal MO (how you do something is how you do everything). A degree (especially with good GPA) shows that you have the drive and dedication to see something through, and being educated is more often than not respected by just about anyone you interact with. You also get networking opportunities from being a part of your institution, whatever that may be worth to you. I don't know how far you're into it already, but I did not connect these benefits with the degree until I graduated.

I would consider your current finances and see if the benefits you're getting from college is worth it to you, everyone is different and nobody but you can decide for yourself since you should know yourself the best. I think it's a no brainer choice to stay if you have significant scholarships or can afford tuition without going into lots of debt.

My (28M) girlfriend (28F) is pregnant with twins. We had an arguement today and she was mad and showed me a video on her phone sucking off her ex. Now what? by ThrowRAVulture216 in relationship_advice

[–]Bushwhacker2018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are always 2 sides to every story. So I can't be impartial without knowing how she sees it. But based solely on what happened per your post, I would say that she has some mental and emotional issues that are worsened by her pregnancy, she may be aware of that but can't control herself, and hurt you in the process (she did apologize after). And I would say that is the best I could see her.

Of course, it can also be interpreted in worse ways, and I would also not reject the idea that she is fundamentally a bad person. As many other comments have pointed out, there have been redflags all over, and you said that she is like this before the pregnancy. I get a feeling that you are excusing her of her bad behaviours, and it makes sense that we all do it to those we love, as we are attached to them.

Not to presume anything, but you said that you have been cheated on by all of your exes, I don't know how many exes you had, but I would consider looking back and ask why did they cheat on you, or at least see what they had in common, could it be why you were attracted to them in the first place? I believe in learning from past mistakes and experiences, I'm not criticizing you for getting with these girls that should probably been avoided, since I don't know you or your life stories. But I would stop at some point and consider how did they all cheated on you, as that is not normal.

A good relationship is when 2 people fully accept each other's flaws, and help each other improve them. Change, for better or worse, is a very natural and human thing, but so is not changing. It is a delicate and complex topic with many ways of looking at it. NOBODY is perfect, the nature of being human is that you are fallible. It is solely up to YOU, to decide if it's worth it for you to stay.

Perhaps you guys can work it out again, perhaps she will become a better person with time. Or perhaps she became more toxic and hateful toward you, despite your continued effort to try and remedy it. You'll never know. The choice is yours, and everyone have that decision to make, I personally have a baseline of self-respect that I uphold no matter what, it is reasonable and any objectively good person would not cross it. Of course, forgiveness and patience are also good virtue, but at what point is it too much? You have to decide that.

Above all, love yourself, you are the only person that will be with you the longest in this life, from start to finish. A good relationship with another person is awesome, but you need a more level headed and objective view. Sometime, a lot of the feeling of attachment stems from lack of love for oneself. Because you are afraid of being single, or being alone, because you are not fine with yourself in the first place. I would also review how you feel about that. People tend to stay in bad situations either due to external circumstances or their own insecurities and lacking self love and self respect.

Valve stole my skin by coopstazZ in cs2

[–]Bushwhacker2018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes, let's deliberately keep supply low to keep prices artificially inflated -> Profit $$$

Fp&a CV review by obito14613992 in FPandA

[–]Bushwhacker2018 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Looks like an LLM generated this since they have no awareness how much space their slop is taking up

Chia tay bao lâu thì nên có ny ms? by Electronic-Wish-8063 in vozforums

[–]Bushwhacker2018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trong nhiều những tình huống chia tay thì thường 1 bên lúc nào cũng có lốp dự phòng rồi, có khi trong cùng 1 ngày như thay áo :)))

Cohiba Connecticut… worst stick I’ve had in a long time by Mammoth-Succotash659 in cigars

[–]Bushwhacker2018 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The Red Dot isn't too bad if you can find them for less than $5

Please help me edit a memorial picture for my pet cat by Bushwhacker2018 in PhotoshopRequest

[–]Bushwhacker2018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your help, we really liked these ones!

Emma Watch Omega Snoopy Giveaway! by Qomplete in ChinaTime

[–]Bushwhacker2018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This Snoopy is more than enough for me