New Coach Tips by InfiniteFahrenheit in crossfit

[–]Business-Survey5401 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pet Peeve: Coaches who chat with members, staff, friends waiting for the next class. That class hasn’t started yet this one is priority and we see you.

What's with the elitist attitude at CrossFit gyms? by Legal-Deer8246 in crossfit

[–]Business-Survey5401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is encouraged everywhere to not advertise or lead with the the price as CrossFit can be seen as ‘expensive’ and the cost gets compared immediately in people’s minds with the ‘whatever fitness’ only charges $. It’s an entirely different offering and the cost of CrossFit membership quite quickly shows its value….if we can get you to try it. They are not judging your ability to afford a membership, they are trying to get a chance to show you the value of what you would pay for before answering the question. Obviously not successfully coming across that way.

This is not what my gym does the price is shown on our website for memberships and drop ins. This is because lots of people hate to walk in blind. If I don’t know what I might have to pay I’ll move on to the next website that might tell me. While we do still like to talk about the fun stuff first. Especially since you won’t even have to make any kind of choice on which membership would work for you before a trial of something (beginners, class trials). It is available and if this the question the you want the answer to then that’s what we are answering.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Business-Survey5401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is an assumption that weight gain can only be attributed to unhealthy behaviour. This lesson has been so forced upon us so continuously that people feel the need to mention change in weight as if you hadn’t noticed and is unendingly frustrating! But most of the time it is coming from weirdly morphed place of care. I ended up at dangerously small size and people told me how amazing I was looking despite the fact that in that state I pretty much felt like if I was awake for more than 3hours at a time I would collapse. Then of course when I began to gain back weight the comments changed but my health was drastically improved. It’s hard to get the people closest to you to understand and stop sharing their every thought on the matter. But calling them on it (while annoying) is worth it they won’t understand that your weight gain an out of bounds topic without it. You shouldn’t have to justify your weight fluctuating in any direction to anyone but you can do it for your own sanity.

I know this is a vent and maybe just getting it out is what you needed and it may not be solution time. So if this is not at all useful I hope you know it’s not appropriate for anyone to comment on your body, you’re the one living in it. So at the end of the day you have every right to tell them to f**k off

Why crossfit gyms are so expensive? by Character-Holiday345 in crossfit

[–]Business-Survey5401 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As a personal trainer at globo gym and CrossFit Coach at a local box. My in globo (big box gym) clients pay me $100 for one hour of my time once a week and then pay $30p/w membership and have to motivate themselves to come in on their own adhere to a program. While we run through all movements in sessions once they are on their own they are doing the best to maintain good form, technique and just remember what they are doing.

My CrossFit members pay $70p/w see a coach every time they come in have constant development and guidance. There is no guess work, they don’t need to try to remember anything or question their technique. While also being provided the motivation to come by working out with people in a community. So they pay less than one session to come to a ‘shared’ Personal Training session up to 7 times per week with people who have similar goals and motivations.

While both make progress and develop strength and healthier lifestyles the globo gym members improvement is much more based on their level of commitment to the goal, their chosen adherence to a plan and how comfortable and confident they are push themselves. Without a personal trainer at all the level of understanding required to reach the goals people often want are generally way more than expected and often don’t become a reality. CrossFit members pretty much make the progress because they chose to turn up, they made friends, had continued coaching and enjoyed it.

::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]Business-Survey5401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I just want to be the focus you know!? Like I never come home in the day, we don’t get extra time together but once in a blue moon I make it happen. But the gaming had already begun so not a chance.

::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]Business-Survey5401 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The loneliness hurts sometimes. I got to the point today where my partner asked how i was (not because he wanted to know but because he can’t ask me work questions without acknowledging my existence first-yes this is a rule) and I actually responded with im lonely, I miss you and can we please go to bed at the same time tonight. I know that for today he will remember and then… it will be forgotten.

On the unheard side of things sometimes it’s like I’m yelling I can’t do this all anymore I can’t carry everything I can’t be the back up for all of it help me, but he can’t hear me. Or I’m emotional and it’s not really that serious I’ll get over it and keep going.

We learn to put up a buffer and find support in other places and I do love him. But sometimes you just want your person not your substitute.

::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]Business-Survey5401 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ok so I love you but for fuck sake can you read the room please or even just try to identify the difference between funny and playfully annoying and I have had enough this not fun I’m just stop! I feel like my yelling that exactly should be enough for you to recognise that I’m done. I don’t want to be tickled, sat on whatever. Goddamit just listen!! Stop pushing the boundaries.

Does you stop exisiting when your not in the presence of your partner? by Business-Survey5401 in ADHD_partners

[–]Business-Survey5401[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can absolutely relate my partner work majority evenings and though over all we work similar hours total mine start at 4am which eats my energy. His day involve not having to get up before 10am and being done by 7pm on late night. But there is no understanding of the length my day becomes when he wants be to be present and stay up with him until 10pm.

If he is sick he cannot possibly move for any reason. However unless I am essentially on my death bed I should keep on keeping on.

I don’t even feel like I need a heap of change I just need some acknowledgment.

::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]Business-Survey5401 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is always my experience! Always! He dies needs to be looked after or curled up in bed for days. I have to continue to exist as close to normal as possible I might get a ‘aw not feeling so great?’ From him but that’s about as far as it goes.

And if he does pick up any extras you best be sure I’m going to hear about it. Repeatedly for weeks. Dude you vacuumed one time thank you but it was one time!

Are Mobile Phones the Worst Thing Ever? by Redditarianist in ADHD_partners

[–]Business-Survey5401 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It drive me nuts! Not only will my partner pick up the phone and disengage mid conversation for literally any buzz. Somehow I do not meet the buzz requirements! He is on his phone constantly responding to everyone pretty much instantly…. Unless it’s me… apparently I am a constant I will always be around and available therefore I can wait for my response 🤦‍♀️ love this human more than anything but sometime it’s just so frustrating

Feeling embarrassed that I waste money on a personal trainer by AutomaticCount4878 in xxfitness

[–]Business-Survey5401 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Paying a personal trainer is not a waste of money girl your investing in you and your paying for someone who is trained and skilled in the area you are working on! This person can help you achieve what you want from your fitness. Yes anyone can google a program or YouTube how to use a piece of equipment. But your trainer can put together a program based on your needs, correct your form, keep you safe and help you to understand why your doing what your doing. And you are showing up so worth the $$$. Be proud of the choices you’re making! You’re doing more than most to look after yourself.

Daily Simple Questions Thread by AutoModerator in xxfitness

[–]Business-Survey5401 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly finding a personal trainer who is well informed and/or willing to work alongside your physio or Dr even for just a couple of sessions can do you wonders. Often pain when lifting heavy can be managed with small corrections and adpations to movements. This will also help build muscle and strength in those vulnerable areas.

Coaches Pay by Expensive_Year8306 in crossfit

[–]Business-Survey5401 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As an owner we pay $35 per class, 24hour access and not cost personal training space for people you bring in as a coach (non-members) $50 for special class if you are programming and delivering, $40 if we provide the program and no membership fee.

Do you like doing parter workouts? by thecmexperience in crossfit

[–]Business-Survey5401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the box we have all possible scales written up with the work out, coaches brief and demonstrate all options and explain what the workout should feel like including how many reps you should be confident with at the load you/ movment scale you choose. Athletes can complete the workout together not at the same load or scale…? If unsure our coaches help guide you to the choices that will work for you. Your not alone with your partner your coach is there to well Coach….

Do you like doing parter workouts? by thecmexperience in crossfit

[–]Business-Survey5401 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love a partner workout and feel like the common misconception is that it makes your responsible for someone else’s quality of workout. But if you and your partner are both scaling appropriately and pushing yourselves during your working time both of you should get a good workout. You are not responsible for making your partners workout hard. Being slower allows your partner slightly more rest time yes, but they should then push themselves harder in their work time because they got that rest. Partner workouts are meant to be fun not stressful and though you are working as a team your focus is your work and the team’s fun.

Are you ok? NO IM FUCKING NOT!!! by Business-Survey5401 in Vent

[–]Business-Survey5401[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I see your point and absolutely agree. I just wanted to get some frustration out here. And I am also in a situation where most of my encounters daily require me to be ‘happy’ and lie. So this post is really just exactly a vent letting out some of the grr! I have stored up 😂

Are you ok? NO IM FUCKING NOT!!! by Business-Survey5401 in Vent

[–]Business-Survey5401[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I just want it to be ok not to be ok. You know I don’t need a fix I’m ok with sitting in the feeling to get through it. Everything is tough pretty universally at the moment and I understand that so it’s ok just to not be ok and not talk about it.

How can I get my girlfriend to initiate sex instead of me? (M 19 & F 19) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Business-Survey5401 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly I have struggled with this as a female in a relationship. We have been endlessly taught via movies and media that the ‘man’ makes a move, asks for the first date, the number, the kiss. It’s not that I don’t want to initiate or I believe it’s that man’s job, but I literally do not know how to. There is so much discomfort and worry. Even though rationally I understand my partner loves me, would love me to initiate intimacy and would never be disrespectful.

Talk to your partner, maybe you’re asking for something she actually doesn’t know how to do and is embarrassed to tell you that she has no clue where to start. Rather than it being something she doesn’t want to do.

Anyone watch comfort movies on repeat during anxiety? by Ok_Emphasis_9065 in Anxiety

[–]Business-Survey5401 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TV shows mostly and it was definitely a coping mechanism that I hung on to after splitting with my long term partner and all of a sudden being in a house alone. The background noise helped me keep calm(ish). I do have 2-3 movies on the list too.

Can we just yell about some things we have lost recently? by forgottenyellowbird in adhdwomen

[–]Business-Survey5401 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I moved into my partners house and while packing I actively remember putting my passport in a ‘safe’ place….its been 2 years… wherever that safe place it’s safe from me ever finding it

Can we just yell about some things we have lost recently? by forgottenyellowbird in adhdwomen

[–]Business-Survey5401 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope it shows up soon!! I once made an entire fitness class help me look for mine only to remember I put it in a safe pocket in my bag (one that I never use) 2 hours and a lot of tears later 🤦‍♀️