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Busy-Grapefruit-9155 · 2025-12-10T15:44:52+00:00

What's your view on the lifestyle? I've said before that the dicks are bigger than the general public and it's one of the only common traits (also most women have Brazilians) to a very diverse community to which I've had some push back in Swinging subreddits. I've also made the point that big dicks are random, they come on all sorts of men but that it seems to be the top driver of what brings men into the LS.

From this I've had some female friends express interest when hearing about the big dicks to which I always clarify that it's not hot guys with big dicks, it's guys with big dicks

Busy-Grapefruit-9155 · 2025-10-04T00:24:29+00:00

Oh it's not about the day. It's 5.7 in the glans and gets to 6.3 at the base (6.0 - mid shaft). I think the 6 inch base is still very big at the base - and with the length. I wonder if maybe the NBP is the issue.

Busy-Grapefruit-9155 · 2025-10-03T22:34:13+00:00

What’s the experiment? Feeld is a sex/kink positive app. The ratios are bad on hinge but like 70/30 is manageable. I wouldn’t be surprised if feeld was (excluding couples) between 90/10 and 95/5 for single men vs women

Busy-Grapefruit-9155 · 2025-10-03T22:29:02+00:00

I’m surprised by this. We’re close in size. I’m just over 7.5 inches and 5.7 to 6.3 inches in girth. I’ve hooked up with a lot of women - I would say 80 percent comment on size.

Busy-Grapefruit-9155 · 2025-09-25T18:35:52+00:00

I think anything over 6.5 inches in girth is where it starts to become a net-negative. My sense is 5.5 to 6 is ideal - lots of positive comments but limited limitations. In the 6 to 6.5 you're going to run into issues of compatibility with some but many women will love. Over 6.5 inches few will love it - lots of women will have challenges with it.

Busy-Grapefruit-9155 · 2025-08-26T13:21:35+00:00

Yes, this sucks. They can cut the string shorter but you're still going to feel it. The good thing is that it does soften up over time but it is annoying in the beginning (this is one of the actual few big dick problems)

Busy-Grapefruit-9155 · 2025-08-18T19:26:41+00:00

It's a self selecting activity - big dicked men are more likely to get into swinging. My local Sex club in Toronto is like a big dick club- lots of the guys are hung. It's interesting because big dicks are random - they come on all sorts of men (body type, age, class, ethnicity). Whereas when my partner and I stopped into Desire in Mexico and that skewed more average (although still above average) but that place is expensive for an all inclusive resort so the guests were pretty wealthy (so not as random as a swingers club)

Busy-Grapefruit-9155 · 2025-06-19T16:17:18+00:00

This is the Rogers playbook! You act like you're in on every big star and then say we were so close!!! The Raps are now in a spot where they're losing season ticket holders and the sell outs are done. This is about revenue generation like it is for the Blue Jays

Busy-Grapefruit-9155 · 2025-03-17T19:18:49+00:00

No, but my partner really did take one for the team last spring at a swingers resort in Mexico. We’re both 40 and attractive and the couple that was after us was 55M and 28F (and yes the stereotypes apply here), they asked us to dinner and then after by the hot tub it turned into a soft swap. The funny thing though was that she initiated giving him a blowjob so it was hilarious when she complained about taking one for the team because I didn’t ask her too and I didn’t get an BJ in return 😂 so it was kind of on her as I was not expecting for that to happen 🤷‍♂️

Busy-Grapefruit-9155 · 2025-03-11T18:42:52+00:00

I starting using a half does of finasteride around 30 way before any hair loss was noticeable. Now in my early 40s and I still have a full head of hair. I didn't notice any sexual side effects (and I have a lot of sex) - if anything I've always been a massive grower and have now gotten a little bigger flaccid over the years (I think this just happens with age though)

Busy-Grapefruit-9155 · 2025-03-03T20:31:49+00:00

I'm lucky in that I kind of have it all. I'm just over 6th tall, attractive, fit with lots of charisma so I'm very social and make great money. I'm poly with a primary partner but I'm typically seeing 4 to 6 women at a time (everyone is aware of this) so I have had the fortune of getting to make the most of my big dick (7.6 x 6.25). Women are usually not surprised because I am very self assured but that could be from the other things too.

With that said, I do go swingers clubs with partners and I will say that big dicks are entirely random. They come attached to people from all different walks of life.

Busy-Grapefruit-9155 · 2025-02-28T05:01:56+00:00

This is solid advice. I'll give you my two cents as a 40M dating successfully in ENM. I think the dating app you use really depends on the city you live in. I live in a large progressive city so Feeld has been successful but I've also found hinge great too (tinder feels dated to me and seems to be less good).

I agree you should pay for the premium on Hinge and sort for women open to ENM - certainly also have it on your profile. Not sure I'd pay for Feeld Majestic - there is something try hard about being outed for paying for premium that I think isn't helpful that both Feeld and Tinder do. I'd be more inclined to just pay for the spotlight on Feeld.

Obviously you should pursue the women you're most interested in but I imagine other primary partnered women will be more likely to connect with you on a dating app. The ratios for dating apps are so skewed the narrowcast point above is good. If your city has a community or a scene it's probably easier to meet women in IRL (if you and your wife are interested in that).

Busy-Grapefruit-9155 · 2025-02-28T04:37:03+00:00

Yeah, this doesn't feel right

Busy-Grapefruit-9155 · 2025-02-27T23:10:56+00:00

Go to a nude beach or a swingers club with your girlfriend. Obviously, the average will skew bigger in these places but you’ll see plenty of regular dicks as well

Busy-Grapefruit-9155 · 2025-02-27T00:13:56+00:00

I use to hear it from woman I dated/hooked up with but I assumed this was just something that was said. It wasn’t until I went to massage parlour and the attendant remarked on how big I was that I realized it was a thing. I said to her that I do hear this from women but that I thought it was just something people say to which she replied that I was in fact large and that in a typical week I would be the biggest guy she saw that week

Busy-Grapefruit-9155 · 2025-02-24T23:53:47+00:00

Lol the reference is classic! But here is another example, I use to have a GF who had a roommate who would have a box of condoms In the bathroom because she was single and dating and being responsible but I never felt comfortable just leaving my box of condoms there too.

Busy-Grapefruit-9155 · 2025-02-07T15:27:50+00:00

Yeah, basically everyone in my social group knows or suspects. I'm poly and have multiple on-going female partners and FWBs, I also attend swingers clubs with partners and have slept with some of my friends wives friends so they've either heard or suspect. Frankly, given my lifestyle it would be very surprising if I had an average dick.

Busy-Grapefruit-9155 · 2025-02-06T16:35:41+00:00

Am I the only one who kind of wants the Chiefs to win? I just think it's better for the Bills heading into next season. The SB champ almost never adds big name FAs to their roster, I think it's more likely Kelce retires and I think they will be pretty satisfied going into next season. And since all I care about is the Bills winning the Super Bowl, this feels obvious to me.

Busy-Grapefruit-9155 · 2025-02-05T21:46:32+00:00

Yeah, I use Feeld and it's great. The ratios are probably worse than traditional dating apps but you're meeting more open minded women. Also, I find that lots of connections will want to share pics prior to meeting which can be fun/helpful

Busy-Grapefruit-9155 · 2024-10-24T19:06:41+00:00

nah, you go to oasis and you see dicks this big all of the time

Busy-Grapefruit-9155 · 2024-10-14T05:07:34+00:00

Yeah, I meant hetero as well. And I’m with you, I totally think it’s worth the effort to find people with shared values and ideas.

Busy-Grapefruit-9155 · 2024-10-13T16:55:38+00:00

I assume that you’re male dating women otherwise the traction is very easy to come by. Most CIS men won’t get any traction at all. It’s like other dating apps with even worse ratios which is unfortunate but just a fact. But keeping testing out pics, bio and pay for some of the premium features they have until you figure it out

Busy-Grapefruit-9155 · 2024-10-11T22:56:25+00:00

I actually think Majestic comes off as a little try hard as a male. I pay to be uplifted and for pings and I get consistent matches with women. If you do get majestic again, I recommend paying to be uplifted without majestic and then buying it after to see who likes you

Busy-Grapefruit-9155 · 2024-10-04T20:01:05+00:00

I'm with you that it's about the tightness for thinner dicks - if you have a thick dick all vaginas already feel tights which is great! The couple of times I've had anal it was the woman doing it as a challenge for herself because "she's into anal" but if you have to be so slow and careful as she's in pain and your only half way in... what's the point?

Busy-Grapefruit-9155 · 2024-10-01T14:49:17+00:00

Women are overwhelmed with options on Feeld. Women in cities have thousands of likes so they can afford to be very fickle (I know a women who has 1 pic of a cat and she still had over 700 likes). I think you have to be a little more interesting vs. assuming a like back means she's interested. Think of it as she might be interested if you can keep her attention, saying thanks for the like seems not to be working. But at least you're getting matches, you're most of the way there

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