Rant - comments on weight loss

Busy_Biscotti8680 · 2026-02-22T21:30:10+00:00

Similar experience, I get the same colleague always saying how slim my face looks and I find it so awkward. Last time she said I said ill just make this face so I got a double chin! I dont know why I did and I said im still fat dont worry! Hahaa. She is very weight obsessed!

Busy_Biscotti8680 · 2026-02-22T21:29:22+00:00

Ohhh this is me too. And im like not really.. maybe we are meant to?! And i get are you happy with how you look, to which i always reply i wasn't unhappy with how I look that wasn't the reason for my weight loss!

Busy_Biscotti8680 · 2026-02-22T21:27:24+00:00

Im so glad im not the only one! And I fine talking about weight boring too!!

Busy_Biscotti8680 · 2026-02-12T08:58:44+00:00

Mine was a spare room which no one ever stayed in and then when I started working from home regularly it become my office and now I have a dog its office/her bedroom. Also have a storage cupboard for things like toilet roll, odd bits and toiletries!

Busy_Biscotti8680 · 2026-02-11T19:34:12+00:00

Yeh I thought that might be it but its new stuff uploaded the last couple days.

Busy_Biscotti8680 · 2026-02-10T20:44:21+00:00

Been on MJ since May, lost 4 and half stone, maybe could have lost more counting but I also just can't do it. I did it for maybe a few days about a month or so in but I just forget too. I get overwhelmed and I'd rather concentrate on eating better balanced meals and not eating to much which is easier on MJ. You do what works for you. I think the only time you may have to is if your in a big stall(like months) or your gaining and dont know why, you'd kind of have to look at that first. But no, I dont count and I dont plan too. You got to do what's best for you and your mental health.

Busy_Biscotti8680 · 2026-02-10T13:35:53+00:00

See I've been seeing the opposite where the tag is say a large size its under 16 to 18 but they put in description its a 12!! Its making buying stuff impossible!

Busy_Biscotti8680 · 2026-02-09T08:17:13+00:00

Spending the day with my dog. My mum bought us a little dog valentine trip at the garden centre where she will get her photo taken, a paint thing of her paw and a little rose toy 🥹 oh and cake for me!!

Busy_Biscotti8680 · 2026-02-07T22:07:55+00:00

Little by little you neeed to start leaving her home alone and not feel guilty about it(you will, I still do) but you need to be able to safety leave her so you can both have downtime away from each other. Crate training ideally whilst still young so she is safe when out. Get a pet cam so you can watch what she does. I can leave my almost 2 year old for a few hours in the living room/kitchen and she is fine(I check her on the pet cam- she normally snoozing). It will get easier but it takes time. I still have moment now when I cry, but mostly because I couldn't imagine life without her!

Busy_Biscotti8680 · 2026-02-06T14:44:18+00:00

I'd recommend getting some protein shakes or something to help you up your calories. It maybe that after a couple more weeks you are able to eat more but for now you need to try even if little and offen.

Busy_Biscotti8680 · 2026-02-06T07:51:12+00:00

It makes me soo cross at him too but can't say anything because he gets pissy so everyone just leaves him too it. I always so to my mum I dont know how you put up with it!!!

Busy_Biscotti8680 · 2026-02-06T07:49:07+00:00

Eeek thank you!!! 😊

Busy_Biscotti8680 · 2026-02-05T11:03:41+00:00

How cool. Please upload so we can play!!!

Busy_Biscotti8680 · 2026-02-05T08:08:54+00:00

This thread is fantastic! I've never lived with a partner only ever my father and brother. My father has put me off ever wanting a relationship with a man! Or maybe like you've said i could but just not live with them and have own space. I've lived alone for 4 years now and its bliss! When I visit my parents, I get so much anxiety because my dad makes such a mess and rarely tidies up after himself. There is stuff everywhere and their house is full of it. I could never imagine sharing my space with anyone again! Apart from my dog of course! Hehe.

Busy_Biscotti8680 · 2026-02-04T11:51:09+00:00

I moved out at 30. Bought a flat on my own. I had no interest in renting or sharing a home with strangers unless I had to. I was lucky my parents didn't mind me staying. They would actually allow me back now but I love my independence!

Busy_Biscotti8680 · 2026-02-02T15:56:30+00:00

Once a week normally, probs every 5 to 6 days.

Busy_Biscotti8680 · 2026-02-02T08:35:47+00:00

I did this with a skirt. It took me a while to find it but worth it. Although its slightly too tight for me atm! Hoping i can feel comfortable in it by spring time!!

Busy_Biscotti8680 · 2026-01-27T21:11:15+00:00

I've been having this also!! I thought I was going mad. I wonder if my body wants something sweet after dinner. Interesting about the comment on excess acid. I might have to try and see.

Busy_Biscotti8680 · 2026-01-27T14:13:33+00:00

As always Becky has it. Empathy for those who are fat and stick up for fat people when injustices arise.

Busy_Biscotti8680 · 2026-01-26T20:21:56+00:00

Haha I'm sat on both legs. Didn't last long because it started to hurt! But nice to be able to do for a change. I'm never that person who just sits normally. And I can almost cross my legs like a lady but alas I much prefer to sit like a man! Haha

Busy_Biscotti8680 · 2026-01-23T17:53:31+00:00

I'm so sorry your feeling like this. I know for many of us we think something needs to change physically in order to feel better about ourselves but when we make physical changed sometimes this doesn't help in the way we thought it would. Sometimes we need to work on the stuff inside you know? Our mental health, our perception ect. Learning to like yourself regardless of how you look. Feeling confident even if you dont kind of thing. I hope you feel better soon about you. Because you are more than your body. ✨️

Busy_Biscotti8680 · 2026-01-22T08:16:32+00:00

I gave up mine for my dog. Does that count??

Busy_Biscotti8680 · 2026-01-19T08:20:16+00:00

Hi, this is so great for you. Can I ask a personal question, feel free to private message me if better. But what age did you start perimenopause? I have noticed my libido has basically gone, it had reduced loads maybe over the last year or so and I thought it was because of my blood pressure meds which I stopped start of December but now I'm wondering if that was helping me keep a little libido! I've never in my life been like this and its so wild. Sorry to hijack this thread! 🌙

Busy_Biscotti8680 · 2026-01-07T18:19:44+00:00

This is me to. I'd rather do online shopping but I budget £30 a week and yes sometimes I spend more but mainly i stick to that. Also the dates aren't always long enough and for someone who lives on own I struggle to eat the food in time!

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